she would rather see her daughter miserable and stay with him than get divorced. he tells her mother all kinds of bad stuff about me and brings her kids to see her all the time. the worse thing is the mother believes him. my girlfriend has told her mother how she feels but that doesnt matter to her. i talked to the mother let her know how i feel and how much her daughter means to me and how unhappy she was in the marriage and she still sides with him. she won't come to our house and she will only email her daughter.
2007-04-14 14:14:07 · 9 answers · asked by johncris17 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you are dating a woman who is married and has children....STOP. Wait until the divorce is final. Do the noble thing--Step aside and see if a woman with children and their natural father can work things out.
There are plenty of unmarried, childless women for you. Let this woman alone and see if a family can be reunited.
2007-04-14 14:20:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
the detail you left out was whether or not your GF cheated w/you while she was married and that may be the reason she dislikes you. we can't really advise you w/o knowing this detail,but if that's the case can you blame her. even if it was her daughter who cheated she has the right to stick to her moral ground. i mean she can't support her daughter if she was morally wrong. so it may take sometime for her to get over this issue and forgive her daughter. now if she just doesn't like you b/ she wanted her daughter to stay in an unhappy marriage then her mom needs to grow up and take the time to get to know you, but that won't be easy especially if he was her first love and mom is extremely close to ex SIL. i'd say just give it time. but it sounds to me since the ex-hubby has so much hostility i'm starting to think there was cheating involved.
2007-04-14 14:39:12 · answer #2 · answered by freedom fighter 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think of it truly is misguided that they do no longer comprise you. that should make me indignant too. My sister's ex-husband continues to be an excellent element of our lives, yet he has a clean lady buddy, and we comprise her in each and every thing we do. He nonetheless calls my mom "mom", yet so does his new lady buddy. in the event that they take care of you like an intruder, you have each and every right to be indignant and jealous. as quickly as you get married, you develop into one. which means in the event that they are in a position to't be acquaintances with you, then they are in a position to't be acquaintances with him the two. talk on your husband. Ask him how could he sense if the placement have been reversed.
2016-12-29 11:42:24 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe with time your gf's mother will see you for who you really are. Time is about the only thing that will solve this, and for you to keep trying to make a relationship with the mom. Good Luck
2007-04-14 14:19:47 · answer #4 · answered by clbinmo 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Whoa wrong step. dont ever tell nobody mama that your girlfriend is miserable. Change your style on how you approach the mother. And talk to her the proper way not that slang crap we use these day with our homeboys. look her in the eye so she can your true emotions.
2007-04-14 14:20:00 · answer #5 · answered by Jharod h 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Oh, the inlaws. My mum used to side with my boyfriend cos he was so convincing. Her mum is sticking with the guy she knows, not the guy she doesnt know. My saying is, "family are forever". So, make your girlfriend happy & worry about each other. Her mum will get jelous & lonely & call when she thinks about her actions. Then you can push her away.
2007-04-14 14:18:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
There is obviously more to this story than you or I know. You need to hear all the sides first before you make a judgment
2007-04-14 14:17:59 · answer #7 · answered by Sweetie 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Kiss her off and help your wife do the same. Protect her from her mother if you love her. Her mother is poison. Good luck.
It's not easy.
2007-04-14 14:21:37 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If they are still married,he is not her ex andyou are a homewrecker.If I was her mother I would'nt have exchanged words with you at all!
2007-04-14 14:22:42 · answer #9 · answered by Direktor 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋