Are women at least a little bit shallow???? (women only)?

Question

I do believe that women tend to be a little less shallow then men. But then there are the women who claim that they could care less whats on the outside. They claim to only care about whats on the inside. Even women have to have limits. I mean, would you date a guy if he was 100 pounds or more overweight??? Would you date a guy if he dressed like a complete slob and never shaved his face??? Would you date a guy if he was broke???? I bet anything that the women on here will all lie and answer yes to everything.

Answer 1

Someone can be 100 pounds overweight or more and still be a decent human being.

I dress like a slob on occasion (and NEVER shave my face), but my hygiene is good. Slob doesn't mean "nasty", it just means sloppy. If they don't bathe, brush their teeth, and are soap/shampoo phobic, they are NOT for me. If their favorite t-shirt has holes in it, and their jeans have seen better days, well, I have some clothes like that myself..but I save them for the backyard and indoors.

I do draw the line at dating someone who is broke, if it's a permanent condition.

People get laid off, and have financial issues, but if they're just a bum and don't want to support themselves, I draw the line (I married one of those, and I have to tell you, being the only adult in a marriage is not a happy place).

Answer 2

Hey be nice, not all women are like that. You sound bitter,how come?/ When we say that we look at what's inside of a men it means that we are looking for a man that is honest, kind, down to earth,and yes romantic. that's what it meant when we say it better to know a person from the inside out. gosh it will be nice if a man have the look, the body and the good hearted so at the end we will not be hurt...........yes for your information i dated a man that was broke because he lost his job and I didn't mind paying because his been kind to me and respect me. I've dated a man in the past that didn't shave because he wants to grow a beard,and I can't say that he was slob. But I haven't dated a man that is overweight except my husband who gain a lot of weight.................

Answer 3

No, no, maybe...

SOME women are more shallow than others. It is really hard to label one group, across the board, as being shallow. We are all so individual.

Women are often more chatty, friendly, outgoing, etc. This may make them seem more shallow. They also want more acceptance, more security in relationship. They may say or do things to make this possible, and then later regret their promises.

None of us...men or women, can be totally real, or 'deep', at all times. Forgiveness is really important in relationships. We do make mistakes.

Everyone has a right to choose their date, spouse, etc. A overweight, sloppy, broke person may want to be with someone like themselves. That's great! Someone who is a body builder type, neat freak, totally into money...well, they have their right to choose!

I think for a sloppy, overweight, broke person to pursue his/her opposite in a mate, might lead to feelings of rejection. That very old saying, "Birds of a feather flock together"...well, there is some truth to that.

Answer 4

No, some mature women aren't shallow at all. That doesn't mean we don't want our men to have good hygiene or good grooming. Have dated obese men, current husband was a nasty dresser when we dated, shaving was optional, and I dated and married a very broke man. We've been married over 17 years, and love and happiness won out over everything else.

Answer 5

I like big Men.
I miss Chris Farley and John Candy.
xxooxx
May they rest in peace with God.

But the other things you mention
weren't about being shallow.
Being a slob is about looks, and that has to
do with attraction.

Being Broke, he can't afford to date you anyway.
That's being realistic.

Being shallow to me, is saying something like
" I only date Men who have gone to College ".
I have a friend who says that.
When Sanitation Engineers ( Garbage Men )
gave us "Cat Calls " WOO WOO
she turned her head away.
I give the Men a big SMILE :-) .
I told her, " Those are working Men ".
I was proud of them.
She wasn't but I was.

Answer 6

A lot of women lie and say that looks aren't important, but they are! No I would not date a slob, or some one who never shaves, he has to take care of himself. Physical attraction comes first.

Answer 7

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Answer 8

Everyone has their own unique set of requirements. If the person you loved met all of your requirements and you felt loved, why wouldn't you date someone overweight. Healthy bodies/weight is not a requirement for everyone. It's more about finding out what you actually need in a relationship to make it successful, than judging someone by their appearance.

I can tell you that someone who works out all of the time and watches what they eat most likely won't go for an overweight person. This is because a healthy lifestyle is one of their values. I can also say that a woman that is focused on financial security is not going to go for a man that is broke. This is one of her values.

For me personally, some of my requirements are healthy mind/body/spirit and financial responsibility.

Answer 9

This woman wont lie. Yes, I can be shallow about a lot of things including the inside/outside thing. I'm married so I dont have to deal with that anymore though. : )

Answer 10

sugar, all women have standards, some lower than others...seems like all the guys who want 2 date me r broke, and i do go out with them, but i will stop if i c that they r broke 4 stupid reasons, like gamblin or buyin a bunch of crap they don't need...i've also dated guys who were 100+ pounds overweight, but that wasn't the reason we stopped datin...now, i will not date a guy who doesn't take care of himself...not bein hygenic is definitely a deal-breaker bcuz there's no excuse 4 that...plus, it shows me the guy doesn't care about himself, so how can he care about any1 else?