am 43 man looking for long term relation my x wife was 35 i was with her for 16 years now am looking for a women between 25 and 27 is it rong for me to think that way and tell me if there any thing wrong
2007-04-14 21:52:01 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
yes
look for older
a 25 year old is lookin for different things then a 43 year old
plus what cute 25 year old wants somethin so old
2007-04-14 21:55:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's wrong but i do think there are certain things you need to consider.
My father married a 22 year old when he was 44, he had been widowed for a year and at the time it was just what he needed. She was pregnant and had a baby at 23.
My father is now 62 and his wife is 40, and the cracks are starting to show. She got pregnant again 6 years ago (by accident) and my father now has a 17 year old and a 5 year old, he is working all the hours God sends to provide for his family, for the second time in his life. He should be winding down and thinking of retirement now and instead he is grafting hard like a 25 year old.
I would advise you just to look for romance, don't classify an age, a 25 year old will probably want a family, do you want all that too?
2007-04-14 22:00:16 · answer #2 · answered by Nickynackynoo 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
You're restricting your options if you're only looking for women in that age range. You have to ask yourself why you're doing this. Are you just trying to prove to your ex wife, or maybe even yourself, that you're still all that?
Love can happen across the age divide, and there's nothing in essence totally wrong with that, but if you're doing things for the wrong reasons you're just setting yourself up to get dissapointed, or even used by the 'wrong' kind of women. Even if it does work out, you're still making it hard for yourself.
Broaden your mind a little. I'm sure you could be just as happy, and probably have an easier time if you had a relationship with someone more of your own generation.
2007-04-14 23:08:39 · answer #3 · answered by Sum guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope you heed Nicky's advice. After 50 you dont have the strength of a 30 yr old anymore. She would possibly find someone her age to keep up with her. Think again carefully. And what's wrong with a 40 yr old???
2007-04-14 22:06:52 · answer #4 · answered by Ari-ah 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-16 06:13:17 · answer #5 · answered by sickels 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is wrong.
Stop listening to your little brain and think with your big one.
She's out of context for you.
2007-04-14 21:55:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
wats a gil
um its not a likely prospect but if u want to go for it, go for it
2007-04-14 21:55:41 · answer #7 · answered by Elemental 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it pal many women do dont they sure i would . in my opion? yes???
2007-04-14 22:17:31 · answer #8 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
No go for it.
2007-04-14 21:54:37 · answer #9 · answered by blackkittycat 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋