Marriage & Divorce - 12 April 2007

i dont want him to think hes boring me, but I need him to be a little bit more outgoing!

2007-04-12 05:59:12 · 28 answers · asked by coldkiss 2

2007-04-12 05:54:24 · 24 answers · asked by coldkiss 2

well i just want to ask what husbands need from their wives..and how can a man worship his marriage and when does he regret getting married...what do husbands think the marriage life is?and what is happiness from their point of view...its just i feel that i am trying to get close to my husband but dont know how...i just cant understand him...and thanks...

2007-04-12 05:46:47 · 7 answers · asked by caramella 1

[12:38] Exteel pro: k thi s a serious rl question
[12:38] Exteel pro: been wit my gf
[12:38] Exteel pro: 5 years
[12:38] Mr.0wnager: remember cybers rl question on yahoo
[12:38] Exteel pro: and after all this time
[12:38] Mr.0wnager: thats where u should post this
[12:38] Exteel pro: no...
[12:38] Exteel pro: do u thinkl
[12:38] Exteel pro: i should
[12:39] Exteel pro: just get her preg
[12:39] Exteel pro: and make a baby
[12:39] Exteel pro: or just break up wit the ***** anbd fine a new wify
[12:39] Exteel pro: ??
[12:39] Mr.0wnager: sec
[12:39] Exteel pro: cmon
[12:40] Exteel pro: dont post thatb sht
[12:40] Exteel pro: wtf


what should he do?

2007-04-12 05:41:02 · 3 answers · asked by Anon 2

My husband and I have been having problems for some time. We have had some trust issues and I have since filed for divorce. My divorce will be final in June and he insists that he wants to try to make it work. I have tried and so has he but we just seem to get stuck in the same rut. There is a horrible vibe in the house. We have two small children and he says if I leave he will have to live at work to pay for the house which I am leaving. He will not be able to afford the house and child support and he tells me that I will never make it on my own and I will have to live in the slums someplace and he does not want to be a part time father. Everyday when I get home from work he just had a mad look on his face and he wears the same red sweat shirt every day. I cant stand to look at his face anymore. I just want to get out but what about my kids. I dont want to mess them up!!! They are 3 and 1

2007-04-12 05:38:06 · 19 answers · asked by L 3

Okay, my husband has been divorced for a while, well since their daughter was 8 months old and she is 6 now. We have been married two and half years. The ex-wife doesn't want me to have say in anything. So, I have backed off. Yet she makes comments to my husband about how she thinks I steal her daughters barettes and hair things for my own child. My stephchild is bi-racial and wears really big barettes. My daughter is white and is 1 so she has very little hair and it is blond and fine hair so the hair stuff she puts in her daughter would never work in my daughters hair. I think she does this stuff or accuses me of stuff to cause problems. I don't understand she is remarried. I want to just blow up on her, but I don't for my husbands sake. How can I keep my sanity. She is very rude to my daughter and even told her own daughter that my little girl was ugly and she shouldn't play with her. How would you handle this?

2007-04-12 05:34:11 · 22 answers · asked by MommyofTwo 3

This question, I feel, relates to reality. I read a question about a women saying she was thinking about having sex on a 2nd date, and almost every answer I read was saying how you should wait until you get to know the person or until you have feelings or emotions.

1) What I want to know 1st, is who really still does that?

2) If the sex if bad and you wait till you feel something, then how does that really work for you?

3) How many people really marry a person who they wait to sleep with this day and age?

4) Sex is suppose to be in intimate act & for some it is, but do you really think that every time u have sex it's going to be some secrete spiritual experience?

5) How many men really think that every woman who gives it up easy is a hoe?

If you talk to some of them u would know. Some men really have good game & some women could have had a dry spell & now see an opportunity. That does not make her a hoe.

6) Why are women acting like they don't want it like men?

2007-04-12 05:32:29 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband hates to clean. I understand that, but we both work full time and I am 31 weeks pregnant. I clean everything, i do dishes, laundry, and everything. The only way to get him to clean is to get in a fight about it and then he will help out really good for a couple of days. How do I get him to get into routines to help out. I have tried talking to him about it. Last night I went out to a friends bridal shower. I left a list on the board of things that needed to be done around the house, hoping he would think oh i should do that for my poop pregnant wife, but no! he sat at home on his butt and watched tv. What do i do? Help!

2007-04-12 05:31:23 · 13 answers · asked by wondering 2

my husband forgot to sing out of myspace and yahoo. I found emails he sent to girls. He sent one saying we were divorced and he didnt have have feelings for me anymore and he has been chating with other girls on myspace. Telling them he is falling for them and they are pretty. we have been married a year and we have a 7 year old. This has been going on since before we got married. I am shocked. He would take me to work them come back and chat. To me this is cheating. what would you do if this was you. Ladies only. thank you confused and hurt.

2007-04-12 05:22:58 · 16 answers · asked by COUNTRY GIRL 2

My husband has a 5 year old child who lives with her mom. The mother is 22 and in my eyes is a bad mother!She has left her home ALONE 2x for a short period of time, her home is absolutley discusting,she never has her(always @ a sitter) and just doesnt have her head on right. Anyway, we have our own home,have two steady jobs, take care of her when shes here, and he pays his child support on time. What do you think the odds of us getting full custody are?? Should we call social services-is it annonomys?HELP!!

2007-04-12 05:21:03 · 19 answers · asked by mandak 1

It's not justice ,is it?
What's the usage of this stupid work?

2007-04-12 05:16:15 · 11 answers · asked by Hermione 2

Im just wondering, my ex who is now married says he loves me ... but i don't believe that, i dont really care, it's just that im wondering if he is married how can he love me? he told me he always wonders what would've been if we would've stayed together. Im married too but i just ignored his comment. i dont feel the same way because i love my husband, i do wonder what if but with an ex i don't talk to anymore. But it's not like im gonna do anything about it anyway

2007-04-12 05:15:49 · 8 answers · asked by sourgirl 3

My husbnad had been doing some awful things behind my back that I found out about including an "emotional" affair which he always preached to me about, I really think he may have been cheating and I just want to know if he has a guilty concsions about it and seems like he wants to tell me, he keeps asking if I love him and he keeps telling me he wants to start with a clean slate, I am willing to start with a clean slate if I could know the truth. How can I get him to be truthful to me when all he has been doing is lieing to me for the past 2 years. Before that he was almost the perfect husband to me. How can I know if he is lieing? Would he want to keep changing the subject? Would he keep asking me if I really do love him?

2007-04-12 05:12:58 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-12 05:09:38 · 21 answers · asked by cadbury_rm 2

to the story and he doesn't want to say? Everytime I try and question him he keeps telling me he doesn't want to talk about it and just wants to start with a clean slate. I just want to know why it happened so it doesn't happen again but I am beginning to be suspiscious that there is more he is hiding am I being ridiculous?

2007-04-12 05:09:21 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a really banal wife that I have been legally obligated to for the past 13 years next month. It's been a mostly average marital ride. Not really bad, not that interesting either.

Some of the women I meet during my missions work tend to make things a lot more interesting. Of course, due to my marriage and obligations to God I tend to keep things rather simple and to a minimum.

However, I have spent the last six months with a really wonderful Korean girl. I converted her last November, and she looks to me as her personal leader towards Christ. I am natually willing to take on this role, one I have been groomed for my whole life.

However, she is starting to question my ability to commit to her. I have told her frequently to just look at my marriage. If 13 years doesn't show her that I am a person of integrity, I don't know what will.

I would just introduce her to the wife for a character reference, but the little woman doesn't know about my extra "homework assignments" if you catch my drift.

I guess I'll just keep praying!

God Bless

2007-04-12 05:05:48 · 18 answers · asked by Kermit 2

2007-04-12 04:39:42 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-12 04:37:46 · 12 answers · asked by Gary R 1

2007-04-12 04:28:36 · 40 answers · asked by meji 1

My wife and I are seperated. She has been talking to a man, who is Turkish and is 4 years younger then her? We have three young children together who are all with her. She wants a quick divorce so that she can merry this man who she claims she is in love with. He is here on a work visa which expires soon which is why she feels the need to rush. I am very concern as this guy sends all his money home to his family, is young and has already commented on her being too fat or big. My wife is slightly over weight, has three young kids already, terrible credit, no job at the moment and does suffer from depression. There are warning signs all over the place and she refuses to listen to me. I feel I need to do something as this is happening way too fast. I have heard the stories about how a lot of Turks use older women to simply get visas to stay in the US. In her state of mind I know there will be serious issues if he is just using her. She can not provide him with anything. What can I do?

2007-04-12 04:13:28 · 30 answers · asked by george_smith 1

2007-04-12 04:01:06 · 13 answers · asked by BabyGurl 1

face to face but insisting on the Parantal coordinator to be present. He is a liar and very biased in his decions favoring her. He has twisted facts and goes behind my back with recommendations to the court without consulting with me that favor her, has lied in front of me in her presence renigging on statments he made prior. He has nothing to do with me and the new guy. I am filing complaints against the PC. I want to meet him to talk about issues concerning my son, they want to move 2 hours away, my son has big issues with this guy that I am certain he has not been told by my ex. I want to know who this man is and how he is as a person, caring person? will he support my son and I or restrict visitation as my ex has done so often, especially 2 hours away if this move occurs, what are his paternal and child caring abilities, does he care for my son's feelings regarding the move or his presence - my son can't stand him, does he have sincere feelings towards my son and my relationship?

2007-04-12 03:59:20 · 7 answers · asked by RealEYES 1

I was told by the biological mother, before the dad and I married, that the kid's schedules, etc. were between her and him. Now that we are married and I am the f/t step-mom and my schedule is greatly affected by their choices, is it too much for me to expect to be included in the communication of plans? I'd love to hear from other's who have been in my shoes. Many thanks in advance.

2007-04-12 03:57:31 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife of 10 years ran off with a coworker 5 months ago. She told me that she was unhappy. I was doing really well and the divorce anger finally got to me. I called her a wh*re. I feel like crap now because now she can justify her affair with him and everybody. She had sex with me the night she left me for him so I just kind of called it how I saw it. I'm thinking of going to therapy because how could I love someone and call them that? She is the mother of my two kids and yes I still love her and I know it is over. We had what I thought was a good marriage and I honestly think she was happy until she met him. Was this bad to call her that and a few other things? Should I get help because I do not want to be verbally abusive towards anybody not even my ex who cheated on me. If I am being verbally abusive does therapy help?

2007-04-12 03:56:46 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

I love a woman who seems like my perfect soul mate to me. She's everything I have ever dreamed about in what I perceive as my soul mate.
I hurt when she hurts and feel so happy when she's happy, She says she doesn't feel as strongly toward me as I do her but we are very close. She is used to her man treating her like a dog. I'm wondering if she's so used to being controled that she feels uncomfortable with me telling her how smart and motavated she is. Is it possable she's afraid of making her own decisions for fear she could be stupid and fail like her previous men say she is?
I'm not going to treat her bad so she likes me better if thats whats wrong with us.
What can I do?

2007-04-12 03:50:33 · 17 answers · asked by dan 2

My hubby was to suppose to Deploy last week,but they extended it a few days(which is Tomorrow)What special thing can i make for him to take with him?.I made him a small album with some of our pictures.What else can i make for him??.something small that he can take.( asap) PLZ .thank you.

2007-04-12 03:49:35 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok this is a hard situation im in and i really would like to see other peoples outlook on this.- ok 3 years ago my mom met this guy at our church, so they were friends first and his family would hang out with our `family anyways during that time i started to hang out with his son, so after awhile my mom started dating him and then his son asked me out so we were dating too. it as casual at first but then 2 years later my mom and his dad get married- and me and his son are still together! we have been seriously dating for 3 years now( the same as our parents but our parents have been married for a year now) so now we are technically step brither and sister but we are still in love with each other and he wants to get married. evertone thinks its weird that im with my stepbrother but its not like that- we wee together way before our parents got married, i just dont know how to deal with this because we really love each other. my question is what would you do in this situation honestly?

2007-04-12 03:48:41 · 36 answers · asked by Jesus luver 2

and if not then why are the men still with their woman? don't they understand that it makes their spouse feel not good enough for them and that is usually when the cheating starts?

2007-04-12 03:48:38 · 11 answers · asked by biznitchil 4

Me and my ex were together for 3 years and she has a son, Who isnt really my son but i have been in his life since he was born and he calls me Daddy and his real dad isnt a part of his life. And me and my ex broke up about a few months ago and she still lets her son know im daddy and she even lets me keep him every now and then. I still and always will love my ex and we even sometimes still tell each other i love u, but it can be hard sometimes but i love and care for her son and i dont want to lose him. Even though me and my ex are on good terms, I still sometimes think of us getting back together for the sake of this little boy. What do u think i should do, every one is always telling me to let her go and move on but i just cant abandon this little boy who looks at me as his dad.

2007-04-12 03:40:38 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-12 03:38:11 · 28 answers · asked by siva s 1