My wife and I have been together for 18 years. My wife just told me that 10 years ago, she and a black co-worker ended up having sex on the side.
My wife is very pretty but has a weakness when someone is being nice to her or flirting with her. She said that she was always curious about black men and really like this black guy she worked with. I think I know why she did it, because he was treating her special because she is pretty. Also, my wife is very sexual.
After she broke the news to me this week, I was stunned. Then she explained that she got it out of her system a long time ago, loves me dearly and never have and never would do it again.
Here is what I want to share with you all today. I learned something about myself in that I am forgiving person because I forgave my wife and am not angry at her. She spilled her guts out of love for me and I forgave her. I feel good about myself, my wife and our marriage.
How would you handle it? Would you forgive, would you be angry?
2007-04-12
09:10:44
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