My wife told me she gave a guy a bj in Vegas last year when she was on an all girls weekend. She said it is not cheating. So I told her I was going out tonight to meet a woman that will give me a bj so that should be ok, right honey?
What a crock of sht, women want it all but get upset when you want some. She got mad at me for saying that.
I told her that I was serious and I am serious. I am going out tonight and will get myself a bj and I will tell her all about it.
Fair is fair right?
2007-04-12 11:28:16 · 33 answers · asked by sxycpl4ya 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Any form of inappropriate contact is cheating. How you two act towards each other is your business.
Two wrongs don't make a right, or make you even. Kick her to the curb, get a divorce, then you can do whomever however whenever. Take the higher road. She was wrong.
2007-04-12 11:35:30 · answer #1 · answered by ciberpunk1 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
DAM SKIPPY! it's cheating and I guess she will feel what it's like when your out tonight hey? Well just know this that your relationship won't last I mean she cheated on you and now your going to do it and I'm not saying that you shouldn't because you have that right but I just couldn't be with someone that was a cheater because then how can you ever trust that person. I know you must have been faithful to her during your relationship it's too bad that she did such a thing because now things are just going to go down hill with your relationship after tonight.
Well enjoy your night and I do hope you all the best, take care.
2007-04-12 12:44:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do one better. Get her to admit it again and make sure you have it on tape or something. Then get a lawyer.
Of course its cheating and she knows it as you do. And the women having a double standard thing. Well, that should not be a suprise at all, right? Isnt that how they always are? You were right in what you told her. So she is upset. Big deal. Who cares. Most people hate the truth, yet that should not prevent it from being said.
Just another example of why a man should always look at a woman as just what they are, something for us to have sex with. Thats it. They continually prove that they are for the most part useless and unworthy of trust or respect. I would suggest that you visit a site. www.nomarriage.com
There is a saying which I like. If it wasnt for a vagina, women would pull plows. The longer you live, the more true that saying will prove to be.
2007-04-12 11:40:05 · answer #3 · answered by Mr. JW 3 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Two wrongs do NOT make a right. Go ahead, but you'll get back whatever energy you put out. It'll probably become an all out war back and forth to see who can get away with the most. YES! Bj's are cheating. If you wouldn't do that with your spouse standing right there watching, then what you're doing is WRONG. Wake up, and smell the coffee, peeps.
2007-04-12 11:39:35 · answer #4 · answered by a_lot_smarter_now 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes fighting fire with fire can do more damage than good. What your wife did was wrong. You doing it does not change what happened. You feel betrayed and want revenge. What were the circumstances was she drunk? Regardless I feel a bj is a form of cheating. But it was one time. It was not sex and its not an ongoing thing. Make her feel remorseful for what she did and then forgive her and move on without hurting each other any further.
2007-04-12 13:06:17 · answer #5 · answered by jjeano661 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are right, it is cheating.
You are being childish though. If that's the way you handle things in your relationship you might as well just file for divorce now and get it over with. You aren't respecting marriage at all. Yes, she cheated adn she must take responsibility for what she did but if you go off and do this thing then you are no better, in fact you are worse because you KNOW how damaging it is but you're going to do it anyway.
Two wrongs don't make a right.
2007-04-12 11:35:32 · answer #6 · answered by Cassandra G 4 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she went to the BillClinton School of Definitions of Sexual Relations. Bottom line is, if one is in a monogamous relationship, there is a line that should never be crossed. Even a french kiss would get me upset at my wife, and vice versa.
This is an issue you both need to sit down and discuss before you go out and do something you may regret later. I seriously suggest you and she turn off the phones, the TV, put the kids to bed and lock the doors and sit down, and get ot all out. I would be angry too but heck, don't cross that line.
2007-04-12 11:35:47 · answer #7 · answered by jimg600 1 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Normally I would say two wrong don't make a right but in this case.... I think I'm on the fence and don't blame you for doing what you are going to do. If she said something like "you're right and I'm sorry", then I'd say don't do it but when she tells you that it's not cheating then I'd say she's giving you permission.
2007-04-12 17:25:04 · answer #8 · answered by C T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey if you want to end the marriage based on cheating I wouldn't blame you. To go out to get even is stupid. She still sucked someone off. I don't know why but married women who want to cheat but thinks its bad give head. Thats what my 360 blog is about today. I think its wrong but I am single and I don't often turn away a hot set of lips.
2007-04-12 11:51:18 · answer #9 · answered by wonder Aloud 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
OK, before you go and drop trou to get that hummer, think about it. Are you going to get to that same level as your wife? Yeah, her giving a hummer to some random guy in Vegas is enough to make you want to get even but where does it stop? Get an intermediary in there and work this out. If you can't you've got her infidelity and only hers to bring up in the divorce proceedings.
2007-04-12 12:12:01 · answer #10 · answered by Deep Thought 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋