2007-04-12 20:59:23 · 30 answers · asked by deepend 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Very simple someome usually gets hurt. I have heard enough sob stories from people I know. Put yourself in the shoes of that other person and see how it feels when she has you and someone else? Now where does that put you? Same thing. True love isn't selfish.
2007-04-20 19:17:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its not so much the love that's declared infidelity but the actions we take in the name of that love.
HA! lol
Who says "love is necessary" and why is it necessary to be with multiple people.
2007-04-12 21:06:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess it's the same way when loving more than one man is declared infidelity
2007-04-19 05:40:12 · answer #3 · answered by linda r 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love is a wonderful gift. Do not confuse love with "lust" or "passion". It is much deeper than that.
If you have multiple girlfriends and you are single, fine. You are the one who is exposing himself to STDs and stress.This is not infidelity, it's immaturity and sheer stupidity.
But... if you are married and you go around cheating, then it is called infidelity and I feel sorry for your wife.
2007-04-17 06:17:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT is only declared infidelity by most "Christian" religions, et.al. Of course, as with most social mores, there is an agenda (control and stability). If you a Muslim, I wouldn't try it....both of you would be stoned to death in strict interpretation of the Koran! Polygamy has been accepted by some sects of "Christianity" in the tradition of Abraham and others. In fact, he pimped his wives for favors.
Have them both together (you'd be surprised how many women have latent lesbian desires!!!!!!!!)
2007-04-20 17:52:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must understand that love is a special thing and as such what you feel for one woman you definately cant feel for another as each individual is unique. No if you gonna get with more than 1 woman at a time then it cant be love as love is an ever-fixed mark
2007-04-20 07:24:59 · answer #6 · answered by mrs b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't consider it infidelity If your not sleeping with another person. You can love more than 1 person!!Which person do you want to be with and spend more time with?
2007-04-18 15:57:07 · answer #7 · answered by hotmomma 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love isn't necessary and loving more than one girl isn't infidelity.
2007-04-17 13:59:02 · answer #8 · answered by just because 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
In the Christian, Jewish and other cultures, it is taboo to and against the law in the United States. Some cultures and some religions do not do this. It's okay to love more than one person it is just not okay to do it behind someones back and/ or when it hurts someone.
2007-04-17 17:29:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because it is neccessary as will to put such a law not to abuse love...if you want more than one wife you can always convert as muslim which allow them to marry as much as u can as long as u can afford without being declared infidelity.
2007-04-20 12:27:57 · answer #10 · answered by ToxoTes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋