They loved each other from past 4 years.They can't live without each other.But the girl can't oppose her family,they have told her that they would die if,she does. What should my friend do now?
2007-04-12 22:02:13 · 14 answers · asked by Abhishek 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
how can i help?
2007-04-12 22:05:49 · answer #1 · answered by toploser 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear...
World is abound by the stories like this..... sometime the girl/boy went with the family and destroyed four lives.... themselve, the other person whom they get married to, thier lover and the baby who will come out of this marriage of compromise.....
There are also stories... where the girl/guy became rebel and got married, nothing happened to family.. they threatened and then got back years later with loads of tears and hugs or never met ......
Thre are stories of all kind pal, I feel If they Really love and feel they cant live without each other , then just get married man... nothing will happen to family......
Dying once is anyday better than dying every moment ... wot say ?
All the best :)
2007-04-13 07:39:14 · answer #2 · answered by maanuv B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell the girl to somehow let the boys family know of her affair. Then, they will cancel the marriage. Afterward, soon your friends can marry each other without anyone knowing. As soon as the other marriage is cancelled, ask them to go to a registers office and get married. After marriage, the parents will make a big noise, but later, things will cool off. Let them go away to a separate city and start life there anew.
2007-04-13 06:06:41 · answer #3 · answered by sunilbernard 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When the question is asked, you should find the right one to solve the problem. I think that the girl has the decision ability. This is my belief. If she does not think that it is her own right, she can't stand firm.
She cannot make her own decision this time, she can't even do anything else further in her life. I feel pity for anyone who dont trust themselves.
If she dont want to take any action, nothing you can do...
Staying with your friend talk with him and make him not alone might be the best answer.
Sometimes, we should learn let the relationship goes and let the lover goes ahead.
2007-04-13 07:44:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oye Akal Se Kaam LO
Yaar Kya Ho Gaya Hai
Aaj Kal Ki nasal ko
sab saale free
2007-04-13 05:09:31 · answer #5 · answered by rakesh s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the girl is going to marry then it means that she can live without her lover. The boy should also get married with another girl. Life is very precious. Do not waste it. You have many other works to do in life. Only love will not fetch your bally. Be positive.
2007-04-13 05:19:10 · answer #6 · answered by khuranapvp 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah dude ....
the girl has taken her decision knowing very well wat the outcome is ... and no way that she is going to repent it in any point of life ... since my dear she has not loved ur friend seriously do u still think it is worth a fight for a girl like her ?.... he has no importance in her life ... or else she wouldnt have put a serious fight right !!!!!
think logically and i will pray that ur friends mind get set on something else ...
all the best
bye
2007-04-13 06:11:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi
nice to see that u want to help your friend dear
so tel your friend to talk to his parents first
than try to convince her girl friend that, at least she tel some one at home abt her relationship
second if boys parents hav no problem than tel them to talk to girls parents abt this matter dear
mean while u support your friend and see that he should not do any wrong action dear
i think love shows us ways to live and not to die
if he love him tel him that now is the time to show his love.
best of luck to you and to your friend dear
may god help them.
2007-04-13 05:43:51 · answer #8 · answered by sweety 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uhhh ignore her....if she loves him truly she wont scare for her familys threatings she will arry u r frient ...by the way i am ac of mumbai if u got problems mail me
2007-04-13 05:08:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why she did'nt think after proposal .
why she did'nt think during 4 years of their love , why she is thinking now about their parents ..........if she did'nt have courage why she loved him, for time pass or she never expected to got close to him .
................................your friend lover have to come out for his boy friend or get other marriage selected by their parents ..............
do or die ...................................
2007-04-17 04:27:21 · answer #10 · answered by laxmi prasanna 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to a police station.
2007-04-15 06:19:40 · answer #11 · answered by NQS 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋