...how is this going to happen?
2007-04-12 14:44:33 · 22 answers · asked by Chad S 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
duuh!!!!you cant have babies unless you have sex...is she nuts or plain stupid
2007-04-12 14:55:12 · answer #1 · answered by sweet_4_dale 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
The last thing you guys should be discussing is children you need a marriage counsellor like yesterday. Does she not realize if she wants children of her own this is how it is done or you go spend thousands of dollars for invitro fertilization.
Come on maybe she wants to adopt but really I think you should deal with your emotional and intimacy issues before you even walk down the path of parenthood.
God Bless and Best Wishes
Sorry guy but your wife needs some therapy because she makes no sense?
2007-04-12 15:56:16 · answer #2 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Obviously, unless you adopt - it won't. There is a reason why your wife doesn't want to have sex. Does she know why she feels this way? Has she been abused, or raised to think sex is shameful or sinful? Is it a medical thing, where intercourse is painful for her? How long has this issue been going on in your marraige? You two may want to seek the help of a sex or marraige counselor. Depending on the situation, she may also need private sessions for herself, with a therapist.
In the meantime, try to be patient and understandig with her. Don't make her feel she is weird for her feelings. Encourage her to talk to you about all of this, and then to get some help.
2007-04-12 14:59:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I was wondering if at all you and your wife have ever talked about having children by having sex with one another when you two were dating, was she ever for the sex part to having children? If not, then she is not meeting her role with the marriage vows to you.
Anotherwards, if having sex with her is out of the question forever while being married, then how is it that this can still remain a marriage without wanting to meet your needs?
Anyway, there are other ways to have kids and that's with adoption or what is that called, (fertilization implanted in her tubes). Something like that, but on the tip of my tongue....sorry just can't think of the medical word on this.
2007-04-12 14:52:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Kids are great. But is a marriage without sex a marriage? Do you want to be miserable and have your kids grow up in a tense environment?
2007-04-12 16:33:26 · answer #5 · answered by WILLIAM W 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In Vitro Fertilization...
There are many technological ways of becoming pregnant without having conventional sex.. Although most are used to help infertile couples or single women who want a child born to them but not an actual man to plant the seed..
You and your wife need to talk to a doctor and a counselor to figure out why she doesn't want sex and whether you are both comfortable creating a child without conventional sex..
2007-04-12 14:51:40 · answer #6 · answered by Diane (PFLAG) 7 · 1⤊ 3⤋
I think that you not need to bring in a child into the world until you guys work out your issues... Making a baby is very important and special... If she doesn't want to have sex with you then something is really wrong.... Please seek help because bring in a child will only make things harder for everyone...
2007-04-12 14:51:34 · answer #7 · answered by evepineda02 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
If your wife doesnt want to have sex then you dont have enough of a marriage to have children.sorry sex is part of love.Its also part of marraige.
2007-04-12 15:07:21 · answer #8 · answered by butterflyspy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why does she not want to have sex? Do you want to have children? You don't tell us enough to help you out!
2007-04-12 14:48:30 · answer #9 · answered by Alyssa Macey 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
She doesn't want sex, she want's romance. Romance, however, will almost always lead to sex. Court her again.
2007-04-12 15:21:05 · answer #10 · answered by 'tisJustMe 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Adoption, unless she's the Virgin Mary
2007-04-12 14:51:00 · answer #11 · answered by catwoman 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋