Marriage & Divorce - 8 April 2007

Our time is ending the king has sent his soldiers to look for me ... Oh my Dear Lancelot ,why did you betray me? the forrest is cold and dark will you come to save your Queen?

2007-04-08 10:26:32 · 9 answers · asked by lilly l 6

my parents don;t aprove of me marrying someone verry special to me i am a 33 year old man i have never ben married before and my parents don;t want me to get married i have this woman my heart and my parent tell me it is to soon to get married i oly knew fore about a year now but my parents seem to hate her or something but once i get maried there is nothing my parents can do

2007-04-08 10:08:18 · 12 answers · asked by stephen w 1

i am on the birh certificate, how would a parenting plan be fully legal, if we both agree.

2007-04-08 10:06:22 · 7 answers · asked by damon 1

This is in continuation to my previous question "Why Has cases of Divorce and Desertion all of a Sudden increased in India??"

Who is to be blamed to encourage destruction of young children (future of the country) of such broken Marriages?

Is it the Man? - If this was true the number of Divorces would have been higher from time immemorable in India.
Is it the Woman? - Is the woman stupid to do so?
Is it the Parents of the Man?
Is it the Parents of the Woman?
Is it the Gender Biased Laws encouraging destruction of Marriage?
Is it the idiotic Indian Law Makers making such Laws without analysing and studying the loopholes?

Note: I am not against the laws protecting Women against Violence in any form - infact do support such laws. But am against the misuse of these Laws for pure vested Financial Interests and even upon proving the misuse, the misuser is not automatically punished. What I seek is this small addition to stop Misuse and there by decrease breakup of marriages.

2007-04-08 09:58:53 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

WOULD YOU RECOMEND MARRAGE

2007-04-08 09:57:40 · 43 answers · asked by chimsy 2

It was our wedding anniversary yesterday. i forgot, my husband forgot. The only person to remember was my husband's ex wife!

2007-04-08 09:30:53 · 29 answers · asked by jeanimus 7

I just need a state....

2007-04-08 09:27:18 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was playing with my baby niece and 3 other girls, ages 8 - 10. One asked me "Was she born before the wedding, or after?" I couldn't believe it!

Then they all proceeded to tell their stories. "I was born before my mommy got married," one said. "I was in my mommy's tummy when she got married," said another. "My mommy didn't get married to my daddy," said the ten year old.

Am I the only one who finds this shocking and sad? That it's just a normal part of life to have children out of wedlock?

2007-04-08 09:21:37 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

You guyz who are marrage and still you are so much after chicks. What is wrong with you?

2007-04-08 09:19:35 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am getting married this summer #3. I do believe in marriage. All my husbands have been older than me. Through much trial and error and very bad choices I think I have it right this time. He calms me down and keeps me grounded and makes me realize he and I is what is important and everything else is second. After all is said and done and at the end of the day if we can't be there and love each other what is the point. So I am trying to find out what is exceptable for this. He is conservative, I will be 43 and he will be 63. I am open to all options. Nothing to wild he is from Georgia and very old school.

2007-04-08 09:10:32 · 19 answers · asked by kimberly s 1

I've been with my husband for 5 years and we have a 9 months all baby, since the baby was born we are having problems. We get very upset with each other for the smaller things and we don't talk for days.
Please I need an opinion

2007-04-08 09:08:31 · 11 answers · asked by dante goodboy 1

My fiance broke up with me, but said he would like to remain friends. He helped raise my older son and we have a 7 month old baby. We had been separated physically since December (I stayed with my mom and he stayed with a friend) while we renovated a house so we could buy it.

The house is almost finished, and he called last week to say he wanted to break off the relationship. It was for "personal reasons" & that he had wanted to break up for the past 3 years (had been together for 4). I feel stabbed in the back & he never mentioned having serious problems with me after giving me a ring & asking me to stop my birth control to have a baby. I feel as though something may have happened during the separation, but I don't know & he claimed nothing has happened with another woman, so I left it at that.

After being dumped this way, I don't want to be friends with him. I'm bitter, hurt & depressed, so I want no contact. He can be a father to the kids, but I can't speak or see him.

2007-04-08 09:02:57 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

people always advice u should save it till your married, however more than half these people do it before themselfs. why would u suggest something to people that u dont apply to yourself. and its not like there are people that learn from their mistakes, but it seems like everyone does it and then expects others to wait.

2007-04-08 09:00:57 · 44 answers · asked by beach girl 1

2007-04-08 08:58:20 · 21 answers · asked by 007 bond 1

We were teenagers together and have been split for six years. He was a jerk but has been in therapy and has learned alot. We went on vacation with our kids this winter and hooked up, it was great. Now he wants us both to move somewhere neutral, right now we live on opposite sides of he country. I have full custody of the kids and dont want to put them into an unstable situation but I miss him all the time. I dont know what to do.

2007-04-08 08:56:05 · 21 answers · asked by radice 2

If you are white, can you fall for someone who is black? and vice versa

2007-04-08 08:26:35 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-08 07:53:14 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

i read a ? on here and it made me think of something i am going threw right now. me and my 4 year old step-daughter do not get along, at night i find that i have a have a few drinks just to be able to deal with her. i am not an alcoholic, but i do find my-self drinking to deal, i dont get drunk, just enough to relax. my ? is what s your opion on how i am handling this, should i keep doing what i am doing or leave? also me and my hubby just had r first child together recently. please, i want other peoples honest opinions.

2007-04-08 07:50:06 · 19 answers · asked by greengrass 3

My ex-husband just left me a voicemail about our 14 year old daughter. He has sole physical and legal custody of our child and moved due to job reaons. He just left the child assuming his mother who lives a few miles away would come and take care of her.

He says that she is failing miserably in school and she is not interested in going to college. She is depressed also. I went to stay with her for a few weeks and then came back.

He also said that he will not let me rest in peace or move on and get resettled. He says that I abandoned my daughter.

He wants me to call him and decide what to do with our child. I have repeatedly told him that he can send her to me.

Talking to or e-mailing him does not go anywhere. I really don't know what to do. The child is suffering though. Her grades are not good and he is putting the blame on me.

What should my next steps be?

2007-04-08 07:48:25 · 12 answers · asked by Stareyes 5

i hope not mine are really hard work my mom drinks to much and my dad is really selfish and un emotional!

2007-04-08 07:47:04 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and I have a business in southern California. We have one employee. She's a single female. She's been working with us for about a month. Today she text messaged me and wished me Happy Easter. She's not Christian; so I thought that was very nice of her. My husband said, "Well, she didn't wish me Happy Easter". I told him that I thought it would be inappropriate for her to do so; and that her wish to me covered him as well. He said that if she would have text him, I would have been upset because I'm jealous.

Honestly, if she would have text him, I would have been somewhat offended. I think it's inappropriate; that's all. But, I don't consider myself jealous. I have a healthy perception of what is appropriate and what is not.

Your thoughts?

2007-04-08 07:43:22 · 14 answers · asked by loving_caring_wife 1

I am new to this and somehow I closed my question yesterday so Please help me...
I find it is so terribly hard to deal with my heartache alone but when you share three kids how am I to do it when I still have to see him? It is Easter today and I am finding it so painful to deal...I put on my "I'm ok" mask for my kids this morning and it is taking everything I have to not just curl up in a ball and cry. My 8 yr. old saw me crying late last night and said she is hurt too. I feel ashamed that she can handle this and I can't. How can someone that you have loved for so long be so cruel? I know I should be angry for what he has done but all I can think about is how much I love him and how much I need him here...I am falling apart...and I have gone to seek professional help but there is not much they can do for me...antidepressants is what they gave me...yeah in about a month they might work but I need help now. PLEASE!

2007-04-08 07:38:10 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well a friend of my parents are throwing them a surprise party for their 25th anniversary. The issue is that my parent's friends want to hear about all these good things about their marriage that she thinks my parents had, when little did she know it was all a facade. well the problem is that me and my one sibling were the only ones that lived with them for the majority of those years and lived with every kind of abuse and hell. And I definetly don't want to celebrate nor talk about how great my parents were as a married couple and have it all be a lie, its all hypocritical to me. My sibling has to work and lives out of town with his family, so he can't go. So i need any advice on this situation, whether just not go and have everyone wonder and ask why, or what. It feels so wrong, for me to be celebrating this or go and put on a very false front. I do get along with my parents now only because we don't interact and live in separate towns.

2007-04-08 07:12:08 · 5 answers · asked by Hazel 1

I just had a baby, she is six weeks old and was born here in Texas. I would like to move from Texas to Utah. Her father came to the hospital to see her but did not sign the acknowledgement of paternity paper or the birth certificate. He started out having something to do with her but has since stopped calling and won't answer my phone calls.

My question is can I move from Texas to Utah? Is there anything legally he can do to stop us from moving? I have a better support system there and will also continue college. Do I have to wait until I live in Utah for 6 months (interstate family law?) in order to file the paperwork to establish paternity and then move on to child support, custody, and visitation? Please help!

2007-04-08 07:10:09 · 7 answers · asked by meme 2

i work with him. he is a lawyer, 29. He is gorgeuous 6'8, broad sholders, tan, black hair, blue eyes, in amazing shape. He has three kids, their adorable, his wifes 30 not that pretty and shes getting a bit chubby. Come on Im 23, 5'11 blonde blueyed natural 36DD nice butt. I dont get it, Ive known him for 2 years were friends? i cant stop thinking of him. I dream about him, especially it take care of myself, a girl has needs. He so smart and wise. The problem is hes Catholic goes church every sunday. I he said he waited till he was married to have sex and has only been with his wife, a college friend at work says its true, can you believe it thats hot, don't ya think he'd be curious. he still talks when i talk to him but he is avoiding me. I told him to come over and fix my computer, he was an elec eng undergrad. he came i left to mybedroom to change, he said nothing was wrong i came in this cute thing from victoria secret.

2007-04-08 07:06:36 · 9 answers · asked by blondesweety69xxx 1

i am 33 year old man who wants to get married to someone but they don;t want me to is there anything they can do to stop me? they can;t do anything about it? can they if i run away and get married?

2007-04-08 07:06:31 · 20 answers · asked by stephen w 1

Its easter sunday and i was getting up to make breakfast, my husband didnt say anything except u should have done that hours ago. Then he gets on the phone and starts calling friends and family to "catch up" he said. I cooked the meal and an hour and a half later he decided to stop calling people. He then didnt know why i was upset, i called him an a**hole and he spit the food all over the kitchen table and said it was disgusting. I dumped a soda on him. Do i have a reason to be upset??? Am i over reacting?? i think he was disrespectcful. Easter is all day he could have called the rest of the people after breakfast.

2007-04-08 07:04:33 · 8 answers · asked by mama of 2 2

you have talked about it with your family and have "let go")...I couldn' believe this person...she came up to me in a store...and says.."Hi, how are you?"...i barely remembered who she was....so i am looking at her..."she says remember me?...i said.."Oh yes, I do now"...then .she mentions the tragedy..."I remember when.....blah, blah, blah..."...i am shocked and horrified that she would even mention it!..after a few minutes it seemed, i just said.."yes, that was a painful time for all of us...but we have had to let go"...and I WALKED AWAY!!! what is wrong with people??? it was hurtful to bring up terrible times...

2007-04-08 06:58:16 · 9 answers · asked by sweet 4

i got marry on 13april2004.when will i marry ?i love someone his name is kunal willi marry himplz rly i m very disturb.if i marry with someone how willhe

2007-04-08 06:46:08 · 5 answers · asked by shweta s 1

My husband and I have had really rough times for our entire marriage (thats not to say its all bad though). He lies constantly about everything. He made up a military carrer and lies about every aspect of our lives to me and others. Everyone else knows what a liar he is, I dont want to be assosicated with that. He is also extremely irresponsible. I had decided to get out, started my leaving plan and told him, thats it, I'm done. He cried and begged me not take leave that he loved me and wanted our family to stay together. I felt like I owed it to my family to try and make it work, but just days after that decision, I just dont think I can stay. I have no desire to work it out with a man that I do not trust or respect and honestly dont feel I ever will again. Is it selfish for me to take my children and go without another chance? Should I stay true to my feelings, or try for my kids? He says he will do whatever it takes. I think that is just another lie. Am I being unfair to deny him?

2007-04-08 06:45:01 · 15 answers · asked by My two cents 4