To those who are married 4 more than 3yrs?

Question

WOULD YOU RECOMEND MARRAGE

Answer 1

yes.marriage is a wonderful thing .but you and your partner have to get along and have a lot in common for it to last . you have to learn to forgive understand and trust .if you find these things hard to do then maybe its best you wait until you can commit yours self to a marriage.

Answer 2

I wholeheartedly recommend marriage. However ... it is imperitive that you know the individual for who they truly are ... not for whom you want them to be. This is huge because so many times people enter into marriage because the are running away from something else or because they are afraid they will never get married, have a child, a home, etc., etc.

Then they settle and think ... oh ... things will get better. I can change the other person or I can accept this or that about the other person.

I truly believe that everyone who is contemplating marriage should go to a minimum of at least 6 months of marriage counseling before they say "I DO".

Think with your head as well as your heart. I personally am 45 years old, in a 16 year marriage and we are about to be divorced. When I look back I am so pained to think that I have lost so many good years of my life being married to a guy that I do love, but was never meant to be my partner.

Be smart .. know yourself ... and if you don't know yourself ... go find out who you are first.

Answer 3

Although Ive been married for over 30 yrs, I do feel that it is upto the individual couple. A lot of people get married as they think it will give security. It doesnt have the same meaning as it used to. You still have to work together to make it work. A bit of paper doesnt really make that much difference these days. Its what you feel comfortable with. There are a lot of couples have to have a big expensive do, for show,and so the marriage starts with a big debt, which can put a strain on it. A lot of couples dont get married, but stay together and some even longer than people that do actually get married.

Answer 4

Chimsy,
My wife and I have been married since we left High School. We have been married over 30 years and we are extremly happy together. We are both Christians and have been for more than twenty years. Two of our three children and our daughter-in-law are aqll Christians. I believe that you and your fiance need to get GOD as a part of your relationship before you are married. This will make it much easier to continue. HE has been an immense assistant in our relationship and we have so many brothers and sisters in Christ that we meet wioth on a regular basis that our relationship has grown stronger and stronger as the time goes on and on. I would be glad to assist you in finding a Bible Study group in your area if yopu do not find one close to home. Have a great evening and a wonderful week!
Thanks,
Eds

Answer 5

marriage can be heaven or hell. You need to be sure who you married to, both of you need to communicate and honest to each other. Both of you need to compromise (specially if you have never been lived together before). It is need 2 to work. Don't under estimate the important of managing your money (together or separately) as it could take off one of potential problem in your married life if not manage properly. I recomend marriage only to the right person, trust your heart but think with your head. Good luck with your decisions. Also if you planning to have children, try not having it in the first year could be the hardest, you need to know more about your newly hubby before you consentrating on the new baby. good luck.

Answer 6

I have been married 7 years, and there is really no right answer to that question. No marriage is a bed of roses and its not the stars and the moon all the time. The key to a successful marriage is finding the right person, someone whose flaws you can accept, someone you love enough to make compromises for. Over all i have had a happy marriage and yes i do recommend it.

Answer 7

marrage is great been married 12 years to a man who i love more now then when i married him and i know he still loves me even after 3 kids been hard times who dont but if both work at it then works any way after 3 kids dont think could naked in front of a diffrent man highly embarrasing with my strecth marks!!!!!!!!! do what you feel is right good luck in what you decide to doxxxxx

Answer 8

I've been married for 8 years. He's my best friend. I would recommend marrying someone that you truly trust, that has the same life goals, that has the same religious beliefs, that encourages you rather than beats you down, that loves you through all the hard times=not just the good, that wants the best for you, not just himself....In order to have a successful marriage, you must work at it (both of you.)

Answer 9

Happily married for over 20yrs but I would not
recommend marriage because the two people
involved have to figure it out as marriage is not
for everyone. If two people are not ready to be
totally 100percent committed to each other for the
rest of their lives then marriage is not for them.
Marriage now-a-days because of outside influence
and society changes is very difficult to maintain if
the two parties are not fully committed to each
other, therefore I would not recommend it be for
just anyone other than what I described above.

Answer 10

Haven't read any other answers as wanted to give totally honest opinion....
To be honest - NO
Don't get me wrong, have 2 great kids and have been married for 12 years now. But not being married..... would probably have the same 2 great kids kids but can't say for sure if I'd still be with their dad if I hadn't been married to him.

Answer 11

Yes marriage is recomended .But in marriage patience is important it atleast takes it 2 to 3 years to understand your partner bear with other person have faith in each other have trust.
BEST OF LUCK