Its easter sunday and i was getting up to make breakfast, my husband didnt say anything except u should have done that hours ago. Then he gets on the phone and starts calling friends and family to "catch up" he said. I cooked the meal and an hour and a half later he decided to stop calling people. He then didnt know why i was upset, i called him an a**hole and he spit the food all over the kitchen table and said it was disgusting. I dumped a soda on him. Do i have a reason to be upset??? Am i over reacting?? i think he was disrespectcful. Easter is all day he could have called the rest of the people after breakfast.
2007-04-08 07:04:33 · 8 answers · asked by mama of 2 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well. if it was me, when the husband said "you should've done that hours ago", I would've made breakfast for myself, and let him feed himself. Name calling and childish behaviour is only going to make things more difficult. Sounds like you are both setting expectations of each other, and are extremely disappointed if they are not met.Time to analyze your relationship, and seek counselling if you can't come to some agreement on your own.
2007-04-08 07:47:29 · answer #1 · answered by short shrimp 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He shouldn't have spit out the food you made him all over the floor and you shouldn't have dumped a soda on him. 2 wrongs don't make a right. I would though not make anymore meals for him until he apologizes and when he questions why? Tell him your cooking is disgusting remember and i don't want it spit out all over the floor again and walk away.
2007-04-08 10:37:16 · answer #2 · answered by Momof1 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Next time he acts that way, make your own breakfast and leave him to fend for himself.
He was being very disrespectful.
Don't make anymore meals for him. If he asks why, let him know he said your food was disgusting and so you won't cook for him anymore.
2007-04-08 08:08:48 · answer #3 · answered by Terri 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks like the Easter Bunny came to your home with a basket full o;f disrespect from both of you.
2007-04-08 12:54:39 · answer #4 · answered by sylviavnpttn 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What your husband did was disrespectful, you had good reason to be angry, and I don't think it's asking too much that he make his phone calls till after breakfast.
2007-04-08 08:14:10 · answer #5 · answered by Bryan M 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Next time he says something like that leave the house and go shopping spend his money when he calls and asks where you are and why you left tell him cause you said ..... and repeat exactly what he said that hurt you otherwise he will have no clue.
2007-04-08 09:59:08 · answer #6 · answered by pumpkinautumn 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you both need to relax and learn how to talk to each other and treat each other with respect.
Both of you are out of line in the way that you treat each other.
2007-04-11 13:33:18 · answer #7 · answered by SweetiePie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you are overreacting. Goodness the two of you need help!
2007-04-08 07:49:09 · answer #8 · answered by Lydia 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋