Marriage & Divorce - 8 April 2007

i try geting her ready and everything but she always say tomarrow. man i think this may tear our marrige appart, what am i doing wrong. help me ladys and tell me what you would want a man to do. i want it every other day. but i can give it every day. fa real dont think im playing. i need help with this

2007-04-08 16:21:16 · 22 answers · asked by name 1

I just learned today that the woman he has been seeing, who is 33 years old, has been married and divorced three times.

2007-04-08 16:21:08 · 58 answers · asked by Anonymous

my sons dad pays child suport, he called me and said they took alot of his tax return money for child suport, will i get any of it?

2007-04-08 16:05:57 · 9 answers · asked by scooby91099 2

She left me 5 months ago to be with a coworker because she started to feel "unhappy" 15 year marriage and two great boys. My oldest son had a basketball game and I went to it. She couldn't go because she had to work. He was there cheering on my son and I sat 8' from him and was very uncomfortable to say the least. When I talked to her the other night about the boys she asked me if I knew that was him sitting next to me. I said "Ofcourse I did he was the most ulgliest son of a ***** in the gym!" was that mean of me????

2007-04-08 16:00:17 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

but i did put a pfa on him and he knows he cant talk to me i think he does because i get hangups everynight its only been 3 weeks and i still care about him also do u think will get back together how can i find out this is very difficult ty for your help

2007-04-08 15:51:36 · 8 answers · asked by jewels 2

No, I am not getting married, nor am I thinking about it yet!

I was wondering what wedding vows are suppose to be about, cause I was a movie, but I didnt get the concept of it.....

Can someone help me understand what they are suppose to mean.....like are they suppose to be personal, or what?

Thank you!!!

2007-04-08 15:36:40 · 9 answers · asked by I am Noodles! 3

My mother in law was so nice to me in the beginning, but over time she has become increasingly critical of me and talks behind my back, and I have seen more of her cranky, controlling side. I am always nice and polite to her. I just think she is nitpicky, and she seems to talk a lot about other women in the family too like her dauhgter and other daughter in law (her sons can do no wrong!). She does a lot of careless things with my babies too so I have to be careful when she visits, and she seems to really resent that I don't hand my babies over to her, and this has made the tension a lot worse.

It seems as though a lot of other married women have these gripes about their mother in laws. Why is this? I grew up with two sisters and no brothers and I don't have a son, so I don't get it. Do mother in laws have the same issues with daughter in laws as we have with them? There just seems to be so much tension on both sides and I don't know why this is an issue for so many people.

2007-04-08 15:31:39 · 29 answers · asked by twinmom 4

My girlfriend and i have been together all weekend.. we have made love many times, but neither of us have used protection, but i did not feel myself *** in her, im still worried i might have though..i know yall are gonna say "you should have used protection" or "sucks for you" but i want an honest answer, what should i do? i would like to have children with her, but at this moment i cannot support a family, and we cant be with each other everyday, what should i do?

2007-04-08 15:30:09 · 10 answers · asked by Adam 2

My husband tells me Friday afternoon that his brother is coming into town for Easter, then on Sunday he informs me that they are going to a soccer game that night. I had made plans weeks prior to color eggs with our neighbors and he was with me when we made the arrangements, Do I have a right to be upset. He never talks to me.

2007-04-08 15:30:01 · 17 answers · asked by ldc1129 2

Sometimes at night I will go out with a few friends to a local bar down the block once my 5 year old son is asleep.

Usually I end up having a little too much to drink and inevitably end up running into something on my way back home (walking of course) and end up having bruises all over the next morning.

Is there a skin conditioner I can use to help heal up the bruises? It's bad enough to deal with the hangovers, but this bruising is just too much.

Also, I just have to say, my son tends to know how to push my buttons. He will always bring up the bruises at the most inappropriate time, like when my Mom is visiting. It's like that little jerk has a window to my soul.

2007-04-08 15:28:28 · 21 answers · asked by Mel Dogg 1

I was driving on the interstate yesterday and ended up getting involved in a 7 car pile up. All because my ***** son was trying to get my attention. None of us had too much damage. We were going slower because of all of the ice on the road.

I swear to god that kid knows how to push my buttons. I would actually be doing something with my life if it wasn't for the kid thing.

Anyway, is a week grounded to our safe room with no school, no TV or radio enough punishment?

2007-04-08 15:09:22 · 18 answers · asked by Mel Dogg 1

I have just recently been dumped by my bf and it hit me hard. I am an emotional basket case right now..

2007-04-08 14:14:01 · 11 answers · asked by abpascua 2

She told me it was tradition to be with the kids the night before Easter. This kids did not express interest in going last night. We are different religions but I gave them Easter morning presents when they woke up becuase it was the right thing to do. They were so happy and then went to their mom's in a good mood. One of the reasons I got divorced was that she was very controlling. I see the kids every other weekend so why would I not want them on a Saturday night that is not a holiday. These are typical incidences since our divorce one year ago. My ex tries to cause a problem by making a big deal about last night even though the kids were happy. How can I have her understand that she is not being helpful without causing her to escalate her controlling behavior?

2007-04-08 14:12:15 · 10 answers · asked by paco 1

i'm 18 and my parents are getting divorced b/c my dad's been cheating for few years apparently and w/ a bunch of different women. he's not sorry for cheating and justifies it by saying that he wasn't happy w/ my mom but stayed together for the kids. i'm livid with him and can't forgive him, and I told him i would've preferred that they get divorced before he began cheating. He said "that's a very young point of view" and he said that i have too strict of an idea of how people should behave. he also said that as i grow up i'll realize that his cheating wasn't as big of a deal as i think it is. Basically everything he says is a criticism of me and he's only making me feel worse. I just want to make sure that it's reasonable for me to be this upset. I don't understand why he keeps trying to hurt me and my mom and defend himself, rather than apologizing and showing some sympathy and remorse.

2007-04-08 14:11:23 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-08 14:03:35 · 10 answers · asked by charmaigne f 1

As a female that needs the tender moments, holding hands, touches on the neck for no reason and affection outside of the bedroom I am curious what actions really let a man know he is loved. I know we are completely different creatures and our needs are different.

We both enjoy making love but what are those special extras that mean the world to you?

The ones that make you feel special and loved?

2007-04-08 13:55:25 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im the one my wife of 34 years kept leaving now she is back

2007-04-08 13:29:15 · 17 answers · asked by philtoldyouso 2

I have been dating with a wonderful divorced man. He just told me that he is very confused and he is considering to break with me since he is very afraid to getting married and later on we might finish in divorce, he has explained to me that a divorce is the worst situation a person could face. I think that we love each other. I love him with all my heart, as I have never loved someone before. I am 100% he is the man in my life. Is it normal that he feels this way? Theres is something I could do to try to save my relationship with him? He is the love of my life. I have never been married nor have children. He has 3 children. I do not want to loss him. Please I need your advice.

2007-04-08 13:12:47 · 16 answers · asked by ta&ul 1

She uses her cellphone, our computer, and whatever other means she can find to cheat on me every chance she gets, Myspace, email, singles sites, chat lines, everything. I fell out of love with her pretty recently, but I still have to be with her for my daughter's safety. I have caught her afterhand, but never in the act. I feel that catching her with the guy might shock her cheating system into giving it up for good. PLEASE HELP ME SOMEONE.........

2007-04-08 13:11:29 · 13 answers · asked by palefacetsw 2

when we found out that our spouse had an affair?
2) And why is it that people think that going to a councilor will help with whats going on??
3) Is it possible that even the spouse do get what he/she needs in bed, they still go out there and look for different kind??
4) Now even for some of us that never did wrong to our relationship,why do we end up making a choice like if we love we will forgive?
5) Is it so easy for some of us to swallow our dignity just to accept the fact that it happen and we need to move on,like nothing happen??

2007-04-08 12:37:07 · 7 answers · asked by islandgirl06 5

looking for the right person .will i find that special someone soon.

2007-04-08 12:17:48 · 18 answers · asked by ruthie G 1

Info
-my dad travels for usually about 1 whole month about once every 4 months.
-ive lived with my mom for 5 and 1/2 years.
-im 14
-i hvae people to stay with when he is gone ( my step mom to be and my grandma)

please let me know anything legal that says i can move in with my dad who lives 650 miles away.

2007-04-08 12:06:53 · 3 answers · asked by MW saved my life. 2

Does that kind off show a sign that your their (your husbands) property now..what do you think? why dont men take Womens last names?

2007-04-08 12:06:44 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Act like they like you when you're not paying attention to them..then when you start to like them back ,they act like they don't want you at all..like you're after THEM!!..It just goes round and round! Why would someone married play these kind of games??

2007-04-08 11:55:01 · 9 answers · asked by Direktor 5

I left my ex 6 years ago and ever since he has made my life a misery. I am happily settled though not married with my two daughters aged 11 and 14. He is a control freak and because I stood up to him last year by letting my girls go to summer camp when it fell on his weekend of access, he has reported me to social services, stopped paying for their dentist, took me to court over Christmas (and lost) took me to court over their schooling (and lost) taking me to court over contact (ongoing and had to endure more investigations by cafcass) and now he is taking me to court to have my maintenance order cancelled because he reckons he is skint and cant afford to pay me any more!! It has cost me thousands of pounds and the stress is taking its toll. Can anyone offer any advice???

2007-04-08 11:44:56 · 24 answers · asked by laurasimonuk 3

Whenever my husband goes to work, this woman from a previous shift keeps flirting with him and trying to get him to go out with her--even though he isn't interested. She's been at this for quite some time, and she knows fully well he's married. I used to work at the same place and on one occasion I told her to lay off.

We've been married almost 14 years and neither of us have ever cheated, and he says that even if she wasn't fat she's really ugly and would buy a Real Doll before he went out with the likes of her! Still...this is pretty annoying. What can my husband do to get her to stop?

2007-04-08 11:40:05 · 19 answers · asked by ? 6

2007-04-08 11:37:19 · 19 answers · asked by Hicktown girl66 6

And besides, when you get married, you commit to the soul and personality of your spouse not the body or looks, maybe to some extent, no matter what culture you represent. And why not try to seduce a mature adult woman? Maybe because he is a perv, who loves kids? And when a teen is in a relationship with a 32 yo, she would never confess to her parents about it.

2007-04-08 11:25:32 · 5 answers · asked by KSUNECHKA H 1

My husband got hurt and was honorably discharged---We went from the kids and I having insurance to not having any insurance at all. If I am married to a Veteran does that mean that the spouse (me) would still get some type of insurance as well? What are the benefits do spouses have if married to a veteran? I keep hearing all these good things but cant find anyone to help answer these questions---not even the VA itself...What can I do--I just want some answers from someone who knows what they are talking about. I know I have benefits after my husband passes away but I am in no hurry to wish that to happen. I just wanna know what are the "PERKS" of the VA for Spouses of veterans? We live here in Alabama---

2007-04-08 11:01:37 · 11 answers · asked by Charlotte 1

If she files a restraining order, then I have to move out of the house for 14 days till the hearing, which of course is going to be a major hassel, especially because I am self employed.

2007-04-08 10:33:02 · 38 answers · asked by HotStuff 1