My girlfriend and i have been together all weekend.. we have made love many times, but neither of us have used protection, but i did not feel myself *** in her, im still worried i might have though..i know yall are gonna say "you should have used protection" or "sucks for you" but i want an honest answer, what should i do? i would like to have children with her, but at this moment i cannot support a family, and we cant be with each other everyday, what should i do?
2007-04-08 15:30:09 · 10 answers · asked by Adam 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
just go to a doctor find out whta you need to know then fix it! DONT listen to Cashtikfuther dont dump her you just said you want her kids just not now so do the right thing you need to see a doctor
2007-04-09 04:55:16 · answer #1 · answered by Cool Chick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said: i know yall are gonna say "you should have used protection" or "sucks for you" but i want an honest answer,
You can't get more honest than that. You shouldn't have done it if you are going to sit here and regret it now. Sex has responsibility that goes with it. If you aren't ready to be responsible for your actions (for example be a parent, or live with a disease that can kill you) then you shouldn't be taking chances.
A box of condoms is what? $10. A baby or death costs what? A lifetime. What's so hard about making that decision before you have sex with someone?
2007-04-08 22:34:59 · answer #2 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to a walk in clinic and ask for the morning after pill.
My understanding with that is I think you only have 24 hours
to take it after sex.
Maybe you should think a bit more next time.
Now is not the time to think about what you can't do.
Yeah I gave you some advice, but you also got a lecture.
Just go to a walk in clinic
2007-04-08 22:37:39 · answer #3 · answered by tundra24bunnie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have her call her obgyn first thing tomorrow morning and ask to come in to get the morning after pill. It has to be taken within 72 hours of the unprotected sex, so she has to act quickly and make sure she goes in tomorrow. The pill will prevent a pregnancy most times if it is taken correctly.
2007-04-08 22:33:52 · answer #4 · answered by twinmom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seriously pray she is not pregnant and start using protection each and everytime you have sex or one of these days she will end up pregnant before either of you are ready to be parents. All you can do now is wait and hope.
2007-04-08 22:41:03 · answer #5 · answered by bbinqueens33 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do yourselves a favor and use protection. Not much to do after the fact.
2007-04-08 22:33:03 · answer #6 · answered by ldc1129 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing you can do now. But you can stop it from happening again. By the way----why DIDN'T you or her use protection?
2007-04-08 22:34:57 · answer #7 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go with the morning after pill save yourselves a headache
2007-04-08 22:37:11 · answer #8 · answered by dan m 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes u made a mistake and hopefully this worrying made u realize to wrap it up next time....best of luck
2007-04-08 23:22:40 · answer #9 · answered by Gisele M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up with her.
2007-04-08 22:33:03 · answer #10 · answered by cashtikfuther 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋