2007-04-08 14:03:35 · 10 answers · asked by charmaigne f 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
As someone who has been there, I understand how your feeling. This is one of the worst things someone can do in a marriage in to look up or act like they still care about an ex. I tried to get him to stop putting profiles on and searching to no avail. Now, he is my ex. I could not tolerate to be done that way.
2007-04-08 14:21:24 · answer #1 · answered by Krinta 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe I'm just too trusting, but I don't see what the big deal is. Let him look. More than likely, she's gotten fat and ugly. Or, has a boyfriend. Or, thinks he got fat and ugly. If you trust him, then it's not a big deal. If you don't trust him, then you've got bigger problems than finding old gf's online.
I found an old hs boyfriend on myspace. No biggie. My current bf, my old bf, and I all went out for drinks that night to catch up on old times. It was a blast.
He can either do it, tell you about it and be open. Or do it at work and feel ashamed and hide it from you. That's when you're in trouble.
2007-04-08 15:15:43 · answer #2 · answered by eliza8 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I caught my husband searching for his x honestly speaking it would not be pretty. But one thing for sure I would comfort the situation with maturity and respect.After airing out the dirty laundry and there's no sound of clean up time then I would truly help him search for her else where!!!!
2007-04-08 14:33:36 · answer #3 · answered by Mrs.Tricey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With my reaction he would wish he could rewind time and not do that thing again. I would tell him if he wants to go see his ex then do not let the door hit him in the azz and never step a foot on this doorstep ever again. That is very disrespectful and hurtful.
2007-04-08 14:28:25 · answer #4 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him why he is doing it? If she owed him a lot of money or if they had a kid together, then there's a reason for it.
If it's to speak to her again, I'd assess the relationship.
Well, since that did happen to me, I can say that I ripped him a new one. Not that it did any good. They still had an affair, we divorced and they got married 5 months later.
2007-04-08 14:14:02 · answer #5 · answered by Ella 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you want to know why he done this. Then remove computer out of the house because he is abusing it. he has no bussiness looking for his ex. he has caused you to not trust him now.
2007-04-10 21:12:42 · answer #6 · answered by Lindsey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd let him know I'm not about to put up with this and he has one second to decide just how important his marriage is.
2007-04-08 14:11:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him what his intentions are. Make it clear on what will happen should he choose the wrong answer.
2007-04-08 14:11:14 · answer #8 · answered by sassyliz32 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would put him in his place he should not be looking up old girlfriends it only leads to trouble
2007-04-08 14:17:16 · answer #9 · answered by Darlene m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would confront him and ask him why he is doing it. see why he wants to find her. i would then tell him that i do not apprecaite him doing it and to never do it again.
2007-04-08 14:18:04 · answer #10 · answered by Jennifer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋