Sometimes at night I will go out with a few friends to a local bar down the block once my 5 year old son is asleep.
Usually I end up having a little too much to drink and inevitably end up running into something on my way back home (walking of course) and end up having bruises all over the next morning.
Is there a skin conditioner I can use to help heal up the bruises? It's bad enough to deal with the hangovers, but this bruising is just too much.
Also, I just have to say, my son tends to know how to push my buttons. He will always bring up the bruises at the most inappropriate time, like when my Mom is visiting. It's like that little jerk has a window to my soul.
2007-04-08 15:28:28 · 21 answers · asked by Mel Dogg 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
yes iif u keep puttin cocoa butter on ur bruises they'll heal up
2007-04-08 15:33:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
WOW you have severe issues. One why would you leave your 5 year old kid home alone to go out drinking? Two how can you say such mean things about your child? You need to call chidren services on yourself at this point because your child needs a mother not an abusive b*tch. And the only reason your child would bring it up would be because he is 5. And the cure to the bruises is QUIT DRINKING. That might help. Get some counseling and treat your child better than you do now.
2007-04-08 22:40:21 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I say you need to stop drinking and stumbling your way home.
Your son is no little jerk.........he's smarter than you think he is because I think he has it all figured out what goes on with his "mother." And why on earth would you call your own son a jerk?
I think you have a problem bigger than you're ready to admit to.As for the bruises and trying to hide them.Stop what you're doing and you won't have to worry about it and one day you may find yourself without a job because of the hangovers.
Do you leave this 5 yr. old child alone when you're out having a little too much to drink? If so,wouldn't C.P.S. love to find that out.
I think you best get your priorities straight and start behaving like an adult and the "mother" you're supposed to be before you have much bigger problems than bruises to cope with.
God Bless your little child and watch over him.He's gonna need all the help he can get growing up.
2007-04-08 22:42:03 · answer #3 · answered by sonnyboy 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He's trying to tell you in a passive-aggressive manner that you need help! You are worried about covering up the bruises and not maybe having a bit less to drink so that you're not staggering home. He's probably embarassed to say the least.
Re-evaluate your relationship with your son. The older he get the more he will resent your drinking and denial.
2007-04-08 23:00:34 · answer #4 · answered by Lisa D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Without any tension in my voice, honestly, have you thought to not drink so much? Maybe have one or two instead of more (which thins your blood and causes the bruising). Or-Just drink one night out of the week so that it is not affecting you and your family/work life. I bruise when I drink too much and usually end up waiting them out.
2007-04-08 22:32:40 · answer #5 · answered by Mokimberly 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What you need is AA you have a serious drinking problem and need help before you cause a accident and kill yourself or innocent people. You say your walking at least your not driving but you are a drunk and need help asap. Don't say ooh i only have a few drinks you are so damm drunk you are banging into things then going home to care for a five year old get help if not for your sake your son's
2007-04-08 22:32:35 · answer #6 · answered by bbinqueens33 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You must be joking right? You cant be serious. Hopefully you are full of it and you have not produced any children. Loving mothers do not call their children jerks, and loving mothers do not leave a 5 year old sleeping ALONE to go to a bar. If this is true, you are a poor excuse for a mother
2007-04-08 22:33:52 · answer #7 · answered by Kimberly G 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You need to stop drinking and send your son to live with your mom I read your other question about the car accident and you are a very abusive parent if you are even a parent in real life at all
2007-04-08 22:39:52 · answer #8 · answered by heather s 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
HOW ABOUT NOT GOING TO DRINK ONCE YOUR SON IS ASLEEP!!!!!!!!!
STAY AT HOME AND BE A MOTHER
going out occasionally when UR SON is with a babysitter would be alot more appropriate.
and as for the bruises you deserve them
GROW UP FOOL.
2007-04-08 22:34:25 · answer #9 · answered by mrs nevz 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My best suggestion to you. Quit going to the bars and act like a mother to a 5 year old.
2007-04-08 22:31:38 · answer #10 · answered by ldc1129 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Make up really covers it up. Use foundation. What you are looking for in those bars is not there! Kids tend to wake up during the night so I hope there's someone watching him.
2007-04-08 22:37:43 · answer #11 · answered by carmelious435 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋