what is the easiest way to heal a broken heart.?

Question

I have just recently been dumped by my bf and it hit me hard. I am an emotional basket case right now..

Answer 1

When things fall apart our minds really see things in a bad way. We end up with memories flowing wild through our minds filling our hearts with strong emotions. The hardest thing is how to process everything all at once so we can "get over it" and move on.

The first thing we tend to do is think of all the bad memories. Then after while we think of those good ones and that's when things get harder.

Bad memories are like Polaroid film. They develop instantly but fade with time. Good memories take time to develop and last forever.

We try to rationalize things by saying it wasn't meant to be or God did not intend this person to be the one. Truth be told there is no "one" for anyone. It either works or is doesn't. A number of things can cause a relationship to fail. It has nothing to do with fate.

You only get a certain amount of time to experience and enjoy love. You may end up spending that time with only one person or dozens. The only thing that really matters is that you experienced it. You can spend your life waiting for that perfect person. You may find them or not or you can take things as they come and just enjoy what you have.

In the end when your laying on your death bed it's important to have good memories. You will not have them if you spent your whole life waiting or upset over what you lost.

The moral of the story... Things didn't work out for you. Does not mean your life is ruined. Does not mean he's a bad guy or your a bad woman. You do have the memories and will for the rest of your life. Now it's time to go make some new ones. It's time to enjoy life again. There will be another to love. There will be more good times. A broken heart only exist in our minds but we can create happiness.

Best of luck

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Answer 2

First of all, accept that you're going to be a basket case for a while. It's natural, and it's ok. You need time to grieve -- cry when you need to.

Distract yourself with your friends, a new hobby, a new lover, your job, whatever you can. I don't necessarily agree with a previous poster who said, "booze", but the "rebound" part isn't such a bad thing -- attention from a new bf can certainly boost your self-esteem. Just make sure *he* knows that he's a rebound relationship, so he doesn't get his hopes up. And don't get emotionally involved with anyone right away!

Answer 3

Don't be, we all been there, if it wasn't us dumping someone, it us that being dump. Don't let this put you in a place where all you want is hide, life is to short and you have a good future ahead of you. I know it will hurt for a while but at least you know now what to do,the next time you meet someone that you like.
Just go out with friends, and let yourself be notice by someone new, and before you know it,you will be back on top again,..............his not worth it......

Answer 4

You are what you dwell on. Life is too short. You never know what God has in store for you on down the line. Just like the T.V. show My Name is Earl,the feelings you have allowed your bf to make you feel, will come back around to him ten-fold,what goes around alw2ays comes back around.Pick yourself up, sho[p, do things that make YOU happy, and move forward with your life. Your far too special to let this take up all this Free Rent in your head. Tommorow is a new day, all you have to do is act like it, best wishes.

Answer 5

It is hard but stay busy and try not to think of him. Easier said than done, but this is the way to allow yourself to heal.

Answer 6

Hey, it's Easter. You couldn't have picked a better day to be a "basket" case.

Answer 7

Go get laid is the easiest way . Lot of horny guys out there just use protection

Answer 8

No easy way through it. Just take it one day at a time and keep busy.

Answer 9

Start drinking

Answer 10

time