Im the one my wife of 34 years kept leaving now she is back
2007-04-08 13:29:15 · 17 answers · asked by philtoldyouso 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You must ask yourself, "why do I want her back?" Do you? you have to remember that she might already slept with someone else, are there kids involved? I would not take any man back in my life if he leaves me. Then again I don't know, sinced that never happened to me. Please ask yourself and talk to your buddies, parents, etc. They will clear your mind for you.
2007-04-08 13:33:27 · answer #1 · answered by heavenlyours2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know. What do you think? Are you feeling lucky or stupid? Do you want to keep putting yourself through all this again and again or is it time to get a divorce and get on with your life? It really isn't necessary to have a spouse or significant other in order to be happy, you know. If you aren't being abusive in any way and that means physically, mentally and/or verbally then maybe the problem lies with her, not you. Make a decision and get on with your life. Obviously she is not happy or she wouldn't keep leaving. Good luck. Maybe you can pray together. It won't hurt. :)
2007-04-08 20:42:36 · answer #2 · answered by serenity 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why why...do you keep taking her back? Do you enjoy being hurt because you know that she is going to do it again. She obviously doesn't care about you. Sorry to say but buddy she is only using you but I am sure you realize this. You are just a place to lay her head between guys. For peats sake ..wake up and find someone that will treat you with respect and love. Quit wasting your time and life on this woman.
2007-04-08 22:01:30 · answer #3 · answered by susie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have let a women take full advantage of you, its time YOU go out have a great life and maybe you'll leave..did she forget something? did she need some funds? Your not stupid your insecure and so you allowed her back home..go to craigslist.org sign up for free in your location women seeking men or put one on men seeking women and find a nice women..she is being SO unfair towards you..she can't have her cake and eat it too, or you get the whole thing!
2007-04-08 20:34:09 · answer #4 · answered by Gina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love her and want to give her a chance, nothing any of us says is going to stop you...am i right?
34 years is a long time to put up with all the comings and goings. If you choose to, I highly recommend some marriage counseling. It will help you to learn to trust her again, and it should help her see how her past behaviors has damaged your marriage.
2007-04-08 20:45:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is going to keep comong and going as long as you allow it. Grow a backbone and tell her to get out for another ten months and you will call her if you want her to come home. BE A MAN.
2007-04-08 20:34:30 · answer #6 · answered by Papa Joe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are so not lucky. If you let her come back again and again then when she has no one or no where to go, she knows that you will let her come back. so what do you think? Be prepared for her to leave again and again. unless you stop it now.
2007-04-08 20:35:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's your choice. Why do you stay with her? Are you happier and more fulfilled when she is around? Sometimes marriages have bad moments, they mean that much more when you get through them. What do you think your life would be like without her?
2007-04-08 20:33:14 · answer #8 · answered by wondering 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you say she KEPT leaving? Well she would have to go back to where ever she was.
2007-04-08 20:33:42 · answer #9 · answered by lisa w 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry but the stoopid is the answer here.
what are you thinking letting her come back after
10 months?
2007-04-08 20:33:35 · answer #10 · answered by chmar11 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋