As a female that needs the tender moments, holding hands, touches on the neck for no reason and affection outside of the bedroom I am curious what actions really let a man know he is loved. I know we are completely different creatures and our needs are different.
We both enjoy making love but what are those special extras that mean the world to you?
The ones that make you feel special and loved?
2007-04-08 13:55:25 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I cannot speak for every guy only for myself. First off actions are dictated by how you feel or think. If someone tells you how to act and you follow then, you would be nothing more than an actress.
What your really asking is for men to generalize what makes them feel loves, needed, wanted, so on and so on. Which, is going to vary greatly from one man to another.
Personally I like to receive affection outside the bedroom as well. Why is that? It does nothing but tell me that my wife is thinking of me even when we are not interacting.
There are so many things a person will do when they love someone. It's very hard to come up with guidelines for such a thing.
Everyone has the ability to feel another person's energy and emotion even if they are not speaking. You can say "I love you" a million times. You can make love 4 times daily or do many little things to try and convince someone you love them. No matter what if your not projecting the energy that makes them feel you love them then, they will never feel loved.
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2007-04-08 14:12:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
We aren't that much different. The little things. Light touch to the arms and shoulders when you come up behind us, a kiss when you walk through the room, laying your head on our lap while watching tv, and any other common thing requiring touch. Saying I love you for no special reason. Our needs aren't any different we just don't expect it as much because we were raised that those little needs aren't manly to ask for. We do really appreciate it more than you know.
2007-04-08 21:13:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple complements work really well. Like " wow, baby you look so handsome in that shirt, it might not be staying on the whole night". A light touch. Were really simple creatures. It does'nt take much.
2007-04-08 22:49:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I show genuine interest in my man. For example, when he tells me that his neck has been bothering him, or his muscles hurt, I make an effort to rub his neck, or muscles. And just the same, when I say something along the same lines to me, he reciprocates.
2007-04-08 21:28:17 · answer #4 · answered by Lemme tell ya... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
.I'm a man and the best thing a woman can do or show me is to rub my body all over .Allot of woman don't do that they expect it . Men love it .If you learn that you will be the greatest lover in the world to him we just kind of melt.
2007-04-08 21:15:01 · answer #5 · answered by dad 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
me and hubby did a questioner on this, i found out he likes the way i really listen to him and care about what he says, he likes it when i touch him(simple gestures, hand on sholder, touch his back when i walk by) a wink at him when he looks at you. a lot of the same stuff we like(physical stuff, they have trouble with the heart to heart stuff)
2007-04-08 21:14:14 · answer #6 · answered by thepainter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THO NO MAN WIL ADMIT IT BUT I WIL HOLDING HANDS KISSES ON MY NECK CHEST BACK MESSAGES WEN I SIT DOWN MY WIFE BRINGS ME A BEER AN CONSTANT SAYING I LOVE U AN BJ'S OF COURSE
2007-04-08 21:07:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
look at his eyes, then u will know everything
2007-04-08 21:15:08 · answer #8 · answered by chloe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋