but i did put a pfa on him and he knows he cant talk to me i think he does because i get hangups everynight its only been 3 weeks and i still care about him also do u think will get back together how can i find out this is very difficult ty for your help
2007-04-08 15:51:36 · 8 answers · asked by jewels 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You two getting back together depends on you guys.
But first, you need to get your issues resolved or learn a better way of dealing and coping with married life and all the stress life can bring.
Get some form of counseling. Learn your mistakes and try to do better.
If this guy was abusive to you, 3 weeks is not long enough for him to learn his lesson. That boy needs some serious help with anger management and you DO NOT let him back in the household unless he is in counseling.
2007-04-08 16:05:50 · answer #1 · answered by Ella 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should talk to him. tell him how you feel. get back together and make a good go of it. too many people give in too easily when it comes to marriage, it is too easy to seperate instead of working through the hard times. I tell you what, when your marriage survives and you get to the other side it is amazing! You can have a stronger bond with eachother than ever before. You need to build Honesty and trust into your lives. Dont walk away from love... Prove everyone else wrong and make it work!
2007-04-08 23:03:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should get back together with your husband because he still loves you and you still love him. I think that it is silly for you guys to be apart. He calls every night to hear your voice because its the only thing to make him sane right now and you know it in your heart that you wait for him to call and wish that he would say hi so that you could hear his voice to...
Try to work out your differences in what ever you know is the problem there has to be a problem in the first place for you to seperate so work out your differences.
2007-04-08 23:18:08 · answer #3 · answered by *Pretty In Pink* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you served him with a PFA order, why would you want to get back with him? There had to be a reason for getting it. Plus if he is that immature to keep calling and hanging up on you, move on honey, he isn't worth your time.
2007-04-08 23:00:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
From what it sound's like, you two can work this out, maybe you both need different therapies as well as marriage counseling. If he's willing to give it time then it may work. Don't give up on marriage, it should be the strongest bond in your life next to the one with god.
2007-04-09 00:00:25 · answer #5 · answered by Brandon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit playing highschool games and go to family therapy.
2007-04-08 22:56:28 · answer #6 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
if you've be separated , it means that he doesn't merit you. you will find better than him, believe me.
don't face him. close all your doors.
2007-04-08 23:28:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i think you will and you should, most likely, he misses you and loves you, sounds like love to me!
2007-04-08 22:58:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋