i want him, she doesnt deserve him how do i get him?

Question

i work with him. he is a lawyer, 29. He is gorgeuous 6'8, broad sholders, tan, black hair, blue eyes, in amazing shape. He has three kids, their adorable, his wifes 30 not that pretty and shes getting a bit chubby. Come on Im 23, 5'11 blonde blueyed natural 36DD nice butt. I dont get it, Ive known him for 2 years were friends? i cant stop thinking of him. I dream about him, especially it take care of myself, a girl has needs. He so smart and wise. The problem is hes Catholic goes church every sunday. I he said he waited till he was married to have sex and has only been with his wife, a college friend at work says its true, can you believe it thats hot, don't ya think he'd be curious. he still talks when i talk to him but he is avoiding me. I told him to come over and fix my computer, he was an elec eng undergrad. he came i left to mybedroom to change, he said nothing was wrong i came in this cute thing from victoria secret.

he said No im sorry, I shouldn't be here, I love my wife, I loved her from the day i first layed eyes upon her till the day i die. Swoon lol. and left. She doesnt deserve him. I want him and dont be judgemental How can i get him.

Answer 1

He sounds great, good-looking... and decent, no wonder you like him.

You sound good-looking, conniving and totally desperate... no wonder he doesn't want you.

Come on... reality check!!! You might not know this yet, because you're young... but (real) love and chemistry are about way more than just looks. One day... when you really and truly fall in love... you'll figure that out... and you'll also look back on your actions here and be so ashamed of yourself that you'll want to crawl into a hole and never come out.

Answer 2

You can't get him because he married and obviously still in love with his wife.

You can't force someone to want to be with you. You have mentioned that you have nice physical features adn that his wife is not as attractive. Have you ever thought that maybe he drawn to more than just looks. Maybe she is a good person and treats him well.

You should try being more than a pretty face and maybe you will be able to find a man of your own and you won't need to try to steal someone else's man.

Answer 3

Perhaps considering the fact that he's a lawyer and thus his job is about being able to *write*, he doesn't want to be with someone who can barely form a coherent sentence? Guys might like an attractive hookup, but no one wants to be with a moron.

Not to mention the fact that perhaps his wife being a little chubby doesn't bother him after she bore him 3 kids.

Answer 4

Find your own man!!!! He is taken. If this is a true question then I suggest you get help for wanting to hurt and break up a family for your own selfish reasons. You are way to judgemental about how she looks he might find her gorgeous and loves her the way she is. You are into yourself way to much if you are that gorgeous then why can't you find a man of your own.

Answer 5

You're the one who doesn't deserve him. Quit acting like a whore, and have some self respect.

Answer 6

You are a homewrecker and should be ashamed of yourself. Obviously, he doesn't want you and he loves his wife and family.

Answer 7

It's a good thing your single....Only you have to live with yourself.

Answer 8

So now that you have told everyone what you look
like, and what your problem is the best thing I
can tell you is NEXT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 9

You're a whore. He doesn't want a whore. Give up.