how would you deal with it in a mature way?
2007-04-08 16:34:46 · 8 answers · asked by shakti 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It is one of the most hurtful things in our lives to love somebody who doesn't love us back.But try to remember that God gives us what is best for us. Many times what we think is best isn't really because something much better is down the pike even though it doesn't seem like it at the time. To deal with it in a mature way is to just keep quiet about it. Professing your love to the person over and over will just drive him away more. Chasing and seeming to appear everywhere he is is transparent. Just pray to God to give you the best for you and I hope you get over it soon. It just takes time. I feel your pain.
2007-04-08 16:48:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Loving someone is really your own feeling. I am sure this person has some feelings for you, just not in the same way. Have you ever looked at it from the prospective that you have these feelings at all. Some people will never feel this their entire life. Sit with it a bit and appreciate what you feel. After go forth in seeking another who is worthy of you love.
2007-04-09 00:09:48 · answer #2 · answered by Healthy Lifestyle Geek 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he loved you once then he still does it is buried so far down he really thinks he doesn't love you.I'm assuming he once did if not then you should walk away and try to get over him. Like I said if he did love you at one time then you can get them feelings out of him.Its hard but it works,first thing you need to do is act like what ever he does it does not bother you ,you just go along and be very nice to him. Smother him in understanding.Slowly you will start to see a change in him.You will need to get him jealous talk about this guy at work who he flirting with you see what he says if he shows you any kind of feelings you got him back. Good luck!
2007-04-09 00:03:35 · answer #3 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No matter how much you love someone and that you know you would be good together, you cannot make them love you or feel something that they don't. All that means is that there is someone else for you out there and you either haven't met them yet or they are in front of your eyes and you don't see it yet.
2007-04-08 23:46:37 · answer #4 · answered by Serinity4u2find 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't make someone love you. I never understood why women (or men for that matter) chase after someone who doesn't want them. It is a waste of time and energy. Like the saying goes... "If you love someone let them go..."
2007-04-08 23:37:55 · answer #5 · answered by Y!A P0int5 Wh0r3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
time to move on, the worst thing to be in a relationship with someone that does not feel the same way.
2007-04-08 23:40:26 · answer #6 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I love someone who does not love me I would move on. It is not worth it..
2007-04-08 23:37:53 · answer #7 · answered by Vicky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop talking to him and cut off all contact. (After letting him know why)
Stay busy and get out with friends. (or even alone)
Time goes by and eventually it lessens our pain.
2007-04-08 23:59:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋