i am 23 and will get married in 13 days time for god sake is it too early for me??!!!
2007-04-08 22:21:40 · 24 answers · asked by gigabuts 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Personally I think it is because you will both see life differently later on but if you are both mature it can work. Just remember that it takes a hell of a lot more than love to make it all work out.
2007-04-08 22:24:53 · answer #1 · answered by tbear 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Only you know. Have you completed the goals that you set for yourself? Are you satisfied that you will be able to complete these goals if you get married? Do you feel mature enough to deal with the trials and tribulations of a marriage? Are you willing to work together toward mutual goals? Can you take those vows, and be sure of keeping them? It is easy to say that you are in love, it is much harder to prove it.
One piece of advice, if you haven't done all of the things that you need to do, don't get pregnant right away. Also, give yourself time to get your married life together before having children. The first few years are very difficult.
2007-04-08 22:30:48 · answer #2 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think so. Most people don't even wait that long nowadays. I got married when I was 22. The only way I would say it's too early is if you hardly know this woman you're marrying. But if you've spent sufficient time together getting to know each other, and you're truly in love, congratulations!
2007-04-08 22:25:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I definitely would not want to get married at 23. I am just not prepared for the commitment of having a family at that age. I would want to see more of the world, I would want to travel and work in different places. Getting married at that age would tie me down too much. But hey! It's your call dude!
2007-04-12 21:37:47 · answer #4 · answered by Jason C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The right age for marriage is between 23 and 28. If you are earning well enough to support you and your wife, nothing like it. However, for parenting the child I think you should wait for 2 - 3 years till you settle down and are financially independent.
Good luck and God bless.
2007-04-08 22:26:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter about when you get married. The thing that matters is if you are truly love her. Only when you can sacrifice anything and everything for her, then you know it's not too early or too late to get married.
2007-04-08 22:28:19 · answer #6 · answered by ♥Angielaa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, by 23 you realize that it may be too young and therefore are most likely making the right decision. Don't let "cold feet" scare you off. If you've dated her for more than 2 years you probably have got yourself a good one.
2007-04-08 22:24:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I have been married for 4 months and I am 19. if you love them then by all means tie the knot. It really don't change that much. you will still do the same stupid stuff together, you'll just have the same last name
2007-04-08 22:26:45 · answer #8 · answered by best 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not early at all. I'm 20 and getting married in October.....but i think i'm crazy. Haha
2007-04-08 22:35:45 · answer #9 · answered by Noel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you can answer that question. If you are in love and sure that the person you're marrying is right for you, then no, you're not too young.
2007-04-08 22:24:50 · answer #10 · answered by dream*within*a*dream 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋