Hi, I m recently married and my wife is highly psychic, keep closed her eyes in bedroom and has no affection.?

Question

Hi, I m recenlty married and my wife gives a psychic behavior.Though ours was aranged marriage but it's she who first met with me first and we decided to go ahead. About her psychic behaviour she closes her eyes in bedroom and doesn't show any interest in physical relations and doesn't show any attachment for me. Before marriage, i felt that there is something wrong(bcz of less communication from her side) but could not conclude anything because we had met only 2 times before the marriage was fixed and I got to move to Australia. Till the time, marriage was fixed things were normal and now right after 1 month of marriage.... things have become destastrous. I didn't had word with her since 1 month and 2 months have been passed since our marriage. Her family is full-fledged under her control. I wonder how a newly married girl can have zero sentiments for her husband. There could have been only 2 possibilities -first she has mental problm and second she has some affair. somn pls. suggst

Answer 1

well psychich is not a word but i think i know what u mean...
its an engaged marriage so its obvious that she is not going to have any affection for you just because u are her husband.
first u need to start talking to her....about normal things....."how was your day" "yes the food is good" stuff like that.
then u have to slowly start being closer to her....hold hands etc.
and when the mood is right....u can't just stick it in......u have to make her horny and u do that by softly touching her, kissing on her neck, on her stomach, rubbing her privates (gently).....and when she is all wet...u know the time is right and then u gently stick it in.

Answer 2

This is not called a psychic behavior.

Your wife may be feeling that you are not showing her love and respect. A woman needs to feel loved and special to her husband. The problem is more than likely your inexperience with how to make a woman feel good. She may not be getting pleasure from the sexual experience with you. It is your job to give her pleasure, just as she gives you pleasure.

There is one other thing. She may have been in love with someone else when she was forced to marry you. You must win her love.

Try doing nice things for her. Bring her flowers, compliment her on how pretty she is. Give her a gentle body massage. Bring her a box of candy. Bring her a nice greeting card. All of these are things that may help her to get closer to you.

Ask her what the problem is. If you let her talk to you honestly, she will tell you, and the problem will be resolved. This is the only way to be sure.

Answer 3

i don't get you when you say "psychic behavior". you know neither the two possible reasons that you given are the answer of your question. she doesn't have mental problem or having an affair. you said that she has a family controlling behavior how could she get another one other than you? the mere fact that you have fixed married obviously she doesn't like it, and she have no feelings towards you, she was just a good daughter who obey her parents. so don't expect her to be sweet and act as a truly devoted wife. i would suggest that be friendly at her first, build a rapport between you and her, then eventually she will get used to your presence. and then try to win her heart if you want to have a happy marriage after all your now married.try to get rid of those psychic behavior OK, wish you good luck.

Answer 4

First of all- psychic means the ability to read minds, see the future, etc. I think you mean psycho, as in crazy.


I doubt your wife is crazy or cheating. She is just having trouble adjusting to marriage with a stranger. Even though you are married, try to romance her, treat her with affection and respect, and by all means- get to know her! Let her get to know you. Sentiments for you will come in time, as you become closer and learn more about each other. It is unfair to expect her to adore you simply because you are her husband, there is nothing psycho about not showing love to someone you barely know.

Answer 5

selam aleykum, bcuz all muslims are and this is becuz allah (s.w.t.) allowed us; and now we can only think why: well if u think that a man can do more babys with 4 women u would think wow thats comfortable for the folks, and then if u think a woman could marry 4 men u see there isnt the comfort like a man would marry 4 women. in times of war this is a great thing to refull the population. anyways we shouldnt ask to every rule, why? salam :>

Answer 6

I can think of many more possibilities. Have you tried to make this woman fall in love with you? Are you a clean man, do you bath daily, brush your teeth, do you stink. Maybe you need to look at yourself and make yourself into a person that someone wants to love and have sex with. Maybe your customs of arranged marriage dont work in an western world.

Answer 7

Arranged marriage....Interesting.

I have no experience with this but I do believe that it can work if both people are reasonable and patient.

Take the time to become friends with her. Start talking to her first to help her open up about her feelings.

Take it slow.

Answer 8

It might be because of an affair. But unless you're certain of that, it might be just her.

Sometimes my wife doesn't want sex. And other times, she will and I won't.

It's just a biochemical thing.

But if it's an arranged marriage...?

Try not to push it. It takes time for one partner to come around and get used to you. Just take things one day at a time.

Don't push it.

Answer 9

I think you are thinking too much over this problem, I think the solution for this is, you should more time with her in the day time too and all the time, do for picnic and other places, make discussions on other subjects too, even she will be having many dreams try to collect the info and fulfill her dream. i think this much is enough
all the best
bye

Answer 10

I'm sorry to tell you this arranged marriage? doesn't work that's why she closes her eyes she might be thinking of someone Else .