2007-04-08 19:05:28 · 14 answers · asked by Yvonne Cesaro 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
1st of all get the facts, make sure that this is truly what is going on. If it is, then leave both of them behind. I know that divorce seems like the most readily used answer to problems in marriage, but when it comes to infidelity it is almost always the correct answer. Hold your head high, this is not your fault. If he is willing to carry on in this manner with your best friend, there is no telling what else he has or will do. If you feel you just can not leave him due to family situations, you must get counselling. Then the 2 of you must get counselling. Face the problem, do not push the friend out of your lives and then try to pretend it never happened in order to forgive. If you are going to forgive, you have to face it, otherwise it will sit under the surface and eat you up.
Your best friend and your husband carrying on this way has taken all stability out of your life. Turn to God, pray. He will see you through this.
2007-04-08 19:15:31 · answer #1 · answered by picture . . . perfect 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That would hurt, more than anything in the world. Betrayed by your spouse and best friend.
2007-04-09 04:19:52 · answer #2 · answered by rjsr40 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find the nearest gun and ammo shop....no, i'm KIDDING!!! Neither of them are worth having in your life. MOve on, find another hubby and another friend. Those to can stay together. They deserve each other. They'll probably end up cheating on each other anyway.
2007-04-09 02:11:40 · answer #3 · answered by cs_ds_02 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try real hard to control my anger so i dont do something to the both of them that winds me up in jail. needless to say he woudlnt be my spouse. or she my best freind - any more !
2007-04-09 02:19:09 · answer #4 · answered by lady26 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find another best friend and divorce the spouse niether one is worth having in your life.
2007-04-09 02:09:16 · answer #5 · answered by windwalker 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm gonna kill him/her for sure!!!!
At least a hard punch on his/her face.....then I will leave my spouse (devorce him/her) then cry and mourning for two weeks, call my friends, hang out and move on with my life....
2007-04-09 03:15:16 · answer #6 · answered by me 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
kick them both out of my life for good. Toss his belongings to the street and change the locks.
2007-04-09 02:10:25 · answer #7 · answered by winkcat 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Start a commune and share...
...plus save money on child care and bedding.
2007-04-09 02:13:13 · answer #8 · answered by Deathbunny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably commit murder, preferrably move as far away from both of them as possible and hopefully never have to see their faces agian.........or atleast till the urge to murder passes......
2007-04-09 02:28:04 · answer #9 · answered by exceptionallyexceptional 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TAKE HIM TO THE CLEANERS AND DROP HER LIKE A HOT POTATO.
HOW LONG DO YOU THINK IT WOULD TAKE FOR HIM OR HER TO DO THE SAME THING TO EACH OTHER. lol
ONCE A CHEAT, ALWAYS A CHEAT AND THAT'S THE TRUTH.
2007-04-09 02:20:48 · answer #10 · answered by southiebev 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋