do i tell her
2007-04-08 16:35:41 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you care about her, then she deserves to know for the sake of her own health. She needs to protect herself from getting an STD, and have herself checked out to see if she's already contracted one. Wouldn't you want to know?
2007-04-08 16:52:56 · answer #1 · answered by Miami Lilly 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes!!!!!! He could give her a disease that could affect her life and kill her! You would feel terrible about this if you didn't warn her. She will be devastated and hurt........But my God she needs to know what is going on in her world! Tell her you care about her and will support her through everything. Show her what I told you to do. Make sure you can prove it to her without a shadow of a doubt. Help her. Hookers sleep with hundreds of men.....and every person they have ever had sex with she has been with them to. Her husband is rotten...... tell her to throw him to the whores! Good Luck.
2007-04-10 21:25:22 · answer #2 · answered by Lindsey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How did you find out? I suppose you should tell her if you found out by accident. You wouldn't want her to catch some disease when you could've stopped her from getting it. That's a hard place to be in, you don't want to hurt her, but on the other hand, it could hurt her much more if you don't tell her.
2007-04-08 16:39:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you need to tell her but make sure that you will be there for her as she is going to need a good friend and shoulder to cry on......and it would probably be best if you told her and not someone else....just do not keep it from her for to long or she may get up set that you did.
2007-04-08 16:50:05 · answer #4 · answered by thats me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put yourself in her shoes... would you want to know!! I definately would. Not only is he cheating, but he is putting her at high risk for AIDS and other STD's. I don't think you could live with yourself if she ended up with a STD and you could've prevented it. TELL HER!
2007-04-08 16:39:26 · answer #5 · answered by Y!A P0int5 Wh0r3 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
most definately hon your girlfriend could get a disease and this is not right tell her asap she will be hurt but its worth it sounds like a jerk to me tell her if you care about her
2007-04-08 16:41:58 · answer #6 · answered by jewels 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
telling her would only make her mad at you . but you can take a pic. and send it to her. you need to do that so she don't pick up any thing from him
2007-04-08 16:46:41 · answer #7 · answered by freeman3905@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. Mind your own business, but be ready to support her when she finds out - they always do.
2007-04-08 17:07:06 · answer #8 · answered by Healthy Lifestyle Geek 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well... if u are really a frend, tel her but chose the words you are going to say
2007-04-08 16:39:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guess that would be the end of that relationship.
2007-04-08 16:41:43 · answer #10 · answered by general.veers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋