Marriage & Divorce - 4 April 2007

I don't have girlfriend.

2007-04-04 17:50:01 · 16 answers · asked by Jason N 2

I've been married 4 mos.My hubby dated this girl before he met me.2 1/2 yrs ago, he moved into apt complex. A few incidents led me to believe she lived around him, but he denied it or beat around the bush. He finally told me last year & said he didn't tell me b/c he didn't want to upset me.We became engaged in Aug'06 & she sent 1st e-mail in Oct..I know this b/c he was reading his e-mail on my computer & I was standing by him.He said it was nothing.I have his password & admit I checked a few times.She sent about 5 from Oct - Jan, jokes, etc.In Jan, we had blow-up when I found out she is actually agent who rented him apt.I was on verge of div b/c he's lied several times about her.I kinda lost it, told him to contact her, tell her to leave him h*ll alone.He was very upset & promised he would.I've checked a couple more times;tonite she sent another-1st since Jan that I know.He read it, deleted it.Almost got div over this& he actually read instead of immed deleting.Am I wrong to be upset?

2007-04-04 17:45:08 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

I think, 'emotional permeability' ... is a big issue for wives. They don't really intend to have, or want romantic feelings for other men. But, their boundary setting skills malfunction.

When you share too much personal information (even innocent info) with an attractive man can you go beyond meeting your social needs for 'congeniality' ... break through that 'social instinct' boundary ... and permeate into the 'sexual instinct' realm of your mind - the 'home' of romantic feelings.

Has this every happened to you? Did you talk about it with your husband? What happened?

2007-04-04 17:38:35 · 11 answers · asked by Sultan 4

2007-04-04 17:38:24 · 6 answers · asked by liza 2

With so much news around of the Govt., courts, Judicial System, Legal and Law'n Order Machineryies of India being so biased and doesn't listen to Men'n his folks at all. And there are so many women encourgaded by this is misusing the laws created to protect injustice against women to extort, black mail, threaten and destroy the lives, future of so many families. And these two silently watch it cause all they do care is their seat of power.

Now I am not talking in the air, both of them have agreed publicly, to be aware of this misuse but doesn't care to do anything!!!

So you decide!!!

2007-04-04 16:55:02 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am married, but unhappy. My wife is a television freak, too busy with her parents, and siblings, and has no time for me or my kids. How can I have an affair without getting caught? I don't want a divorce because of my kids.

2007-04-04 16:48:16 · 36 answers · asked by Andy S 1

Just want to know if divorce has a lot of advantages than its negative effects on children of divorced parents.

2007-04-04 16:23:09 · 15 answers · asked by jhong 1

2 years and two babies later. Never have I had an orgasm with my husband. He climbs on... gets off and its over. I have always done all the work... and he never really cares that much if my needs are filled...only his. I dont understand this. He puts me down, tells me that he hates my hair shorter and so I go to get extensions and he tells me that I will have fake a&& hair in my head. He says that I am a fat cow... yet I am only a size 12 after having six kids. He accusses me that I am going to the gym to get starred at? Today, I got a pair of sweats on, clean sweats because the baby up-chucked on me... and he accussed me of getting dressed up for my ex husband who is picking up the kids for the weekend. I called a sex therapist to see if he and I could go in... as I have told him so very many times... talking, writing him emails, being direct, writing him in cards, having people write him... that I cant take this anymore. He looked at me and said, " What do you want to go to a sex doc

2007-04-04 16:15:52 · 25 answers · asked by Anna Q 1

I've gotten used to it bald, but don't really like how it looks... what do you guys prefer?

2007-04-04 15:44:29 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-04 15:21:39 · 16 answers · asked by gasexylady 1

2007-04-04 15:16:44 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Here's the deal, over the past 11 years, I have rec'd at least 15 emails from women asking me if my husband and i are still married because he told them he was divorced or not married at all. Then I find out he has either slept with them or been intimate with them in some other way. Each time I confront him, I get the same answer.."She's delusional or she's out to get me or I don't even know who that is". I have found several personal ads and each time he tells me, "someone is setting me up or the computer is doing that by itself". I am not a stupid woman and he knows this. Yet he continues to degrade my intelligence with his stupid reasoning. I have proof that he's cheated on me, but he gets mad and turns it around on me. He tries to make me feel guilty because I found something out. He yells at me for snooping and not trusting him. He denies all affairs but one. I don't believe his lies, never had. I think he does though. Is there a surefire way to tell and call him on his lies?

2007-04-04 15:11:36 · 22 answers · asked by shannonfewell2003 1

One of my sisters just told me she is getting married! I was able to talk to her for a long time about what married life is like.

Anyway, if you were asked to come to a pre-marriage counseling session an engaged couple is attending to speak to them, what would you say to the couple? The good and the bad, what to expect.

I told my sister that I was going to do this for her and then email her the responses. (Minus your names, I will just have her tell me which she likes best and I will award the points to that person!)

Thanks in advance!

2007-04-04 15:01:13 · 17 answers · asked by Mrs. K 3

2007-04-04 14:59:54 · 18 answers · asked by slip 1

My son & I live 4 hours away from my cheating husband. It has been almost 2 weeks since my husband has even tried to contact my son. He sent me a text tonight saying that our son can call him anytime. So I had our son call him & I told him that after they said bye he could hang up...so he did. After they got off the phone my husband sent me a text saying thanks for letting him call me. I didn't respond. I just don't want to have contact w/him unless I have to. Is that wrong? Also, like I said...it's been two weeks since he spoke to him & he talked to him for 7 minutes! He took a whole 7 minutes out of his day to talk to him. And is it weird that he can't call my son...he has to have him call him? I guess he's afraid I might answer even though he doesn't have to worry about that. I don't want to stop him from talking to him....I just wanted some opinions.

2007-04-04 14:44:45 · 11 answers · asked by love my life 2

My husband's job requires him to be away from me for months at a time. I love him and we have a great marriage--except that I sleep with another man when he's gone. It's not love, it's not a relationship (although this other man and I have a friendship outside of the bedroom), it's just a sexual release that I can't give myself. I don't feel guilty about my behavior, but it does bother me that I can't tell my husband. His ex had an intimate--both physical AND emotional--relationship with his best friend, and he's never forgiven them. I fear that if I didn't have this arrangement with my friend, I'd ruin my marriage by giving in and sleeping with someone who I would develop feelings for. I talked to a friend about this and we had a huge fight. Now she thinks I'm a horrible person. So I ask you: Am I a horrible wife, rationalizing my pleasure or does this make sense to anyone else?

2007-04-04 14:27:37 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-04 14:24:25 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

I recently read an article on About.com about a man talking about his girlfriend of 5 years who has cheated on him....He used the term adultery. In my mind adulty is when one spouse is unfaithful to another spouse not between two people who are dating. Would you consider a cheating girlfriend/boyfriend to be adultrious?

2007-04-04 14:19:32 · 25 answers · asked by I Like Grapes 3

I married when i was 18 to a guy who is older than me with 17 y we've been married for 9 y we have 2 children i was very happy in our first 5 y but we have some problems and we get Divorce for almost 2 yers that was in 2004 in that time i met that guy who was older than me with 6 years he loves me so much and i lived the most wanderful 2 years in my life we getting engaged and was preparing our house to get married but i felt that i'll hurt my children sepcialy that they was with their father and they needed me so i decide to returen back to my Husband for the sake of my kids. so i left my love and returen back to my husband but the problem now is that i miss him so much and i cant stop thinking about him nights and days i am trying to make myself busy with my kids and my work (iam a model) and in the other hand my husband is very good with me he bring me anything i want, and he support me but i feel tht he give me lots of care but not love he treat me as if i am his Daughter. help me

2007-04-04 14:17:47 · 21 answers · asked by jivago lady 1

Or are you just glad to get rid of that person?

2007-04-04 14:15:47 · 26 answers · asked by colin050659 6

Or go out and find yourself another partner my ex-wife still married to her did this on me and now she wants me to try again.
HELP ME PLEASE?

2007-04-04 14:14:01 · 32 answers · asked by colin050659 6

My husband's daughter lives in Utah with her mother. According to the legal paperwork they signed he is allowed to have her during the summer for four weeks. Upon asking for her we were told no. If this developes into a larger issue how would we go about taking action? We live in another state. Do we need an attorney in Utah?

2007-04-04 14:13:19 · 3 answers · asked by aimee4frogs 2

I have recently decided to get back with my ex husband (Brad). We have been working really hard on our relationship. I even suspect he may be planning to ask me to re-marry him.
The thing is his mother is totally against the idea. She has tried so many things to keep us apart.
She tried to have me sign away my parental rights to our son in the event I should leave again.
She has tried to have me declared un-fit and a nut case.
She has threatened to take our son away from us.
She has offered me money to stay away from Brad and our son.
I have not agreed to any of this. How do I get this woman off my back?

2007-04-04 14:02:25 · 13 answers · asked by Amy C 1

2007-04-04 14:01:55 · 12 answers · asked by laprincess1889 2

well i mean in a intamint way

2007-04-04 13:48:40 · 11 answers · asked by little man 1

This woman lies so frigin much, I swear you could ask her what she had for dinner and she would lie for the sake of lying. She lies about me and the FIL has the nerve to call me and yell at me when she is lying...stuff that doesnt even make sense! This is the 3rd time in like 2 years and Ive had it! Its like she sets me up for stuff or something, asks me flat out to take care of something and then lies and says I butted in. I need to carry a tape recorder on me or something so he beleives me, but then again I just dont care anymore what they think. I lost all respect for them. Anyhow my husband hates them and we decided to cut them out, anyone had to do it and if so is it wrong? I just dont want something bad to happen to them and feel bad later, but man I would rather feel bad a little bit later than all the time now! Ya know?

2007-04-04 13:28:53 · 7 answers · asked by onehotmama 2

2007-04-04 13:26:36 · 20 answers · asked by deonjahriley 1

ok so my husband is in the army and over seas...any good ideas on what to buy him. before ive already bought him a wallet, a watch, he cant wear civilian clothes over there, i always send him goodies (cookies, candy, etc.)???? help

2007-04-04 13:01:31 · 18 answers · asked by Me 2

2007-04-04 12:59:31 · 9 answers · asked by CAVEWOMAN 1

2007-04-04 12:58:41 · 3 answers · asked by justlilohme 2