This woman lies so frigin much, I swear you could ask her what she had for dinner and she would lie for the sake of lying. She lies about me and the FIL has the nerve to call me and yell at me when she is lying...stuff that doesnt even make sense! This is the 3rd time in like 2 years and Ive had it! Its like she sets me up for stuff or something, asks me flat out to take care of something and then lies and says I butted in. I need to carry a tape recorder on me or something so he beleives me, but then again I just dont care anymore what they think. I lost all respect for them. Anyhow my husband hates them and we decided to cut them out, anyone had to do it and if so is it wrong? I just dont want something bad to happen to them and feel bad later, but man I would rather feel bad a little bit later than all the time now! Ya know?
2007-04-04 13:28:53 · 7 answers · asked by onehotmama 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I had to cut mine off. My MIL was a huge liar and got totally busted stealing a lot of money from my husband. She told her neighbors kid that my kids were hers. She told my husband (while he was deployed to Iraq) that I was seen out with another guy (total lie!) The list goes on and on. So I cut her off because she was upsetting me so bad that my hair was actually falling out! Man that 18 months was great! SOOO peaceful...then my husband wanted to start seeing them again and brought all that stress back...ahhhhh!!! So I totally understand how you feel...totally! I say if they're acting that way then cut them out. Life is too short to put up with all the lying and backstabbing from anyone...much less "family". Good luck!
2007-04-04 14:18:50 · answer #1 · answered by . 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why sould you feel bad, she did it to herself. I am amazed how many Mothers try to run their sons life. I would not do that to my son, he loves the woman he is married too. I respect her and care for her, if he loves her that is all that counts. My ex mil was a b--ch through and through.She wasn't happy unless some kind of drama was going on and then would have the nerve to tell her friends that she just couldn't take the way I treated her anymore. She strived on pity parties.
2007-04-04 14:19:42 · answer #2 · answered by Krinta 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My former in-laws were not liars, but they were very controlling and no matter what I said or did, I was wrong and my former husband ALWAYS agreed with his parents. It was nothing but tension, so I did cut them out. If he wanted to see his parents, that was fine with me, but I refused to go. In fact, it worked out rather well for me because he would take the kids, too, and then I got to spend some time to do what I wanted to do.
It did upset my ex husband at first, but he understood my feelings.
2007-04-04 13:41:57 · answer #3 · answered by Pom♥Mom Spay and Neuter 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wah. Mommy and Daddy inlaw are no longer being superb to me. they do no longer owe you something. they do no longer owe your new child something. it is your existence. stay YOUR existence. Why do you have any expectancies or judgments on how they'd desire to tackle one guy or woman or yet another? i think of you're being too vulnerable and needy. You care too plenty approximately what's undemanding to you and not sufficient relating to the common and capability of your person kinfolk. strengthen some stones and be greater of a girl and much less of a whining little female. i think of international would desire to orbit around your loved ones. you do no longer would desire to "shrink" something. merely flow on and enable them to maintain up.
2016-11-07 06:05:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have nothing to do with my inlaws and they're not welcome in my home. It's hard at holidays when my husband and I go in different directions, but it's worth the lack of headaches I'm forced to deal with the rest of the time.
2007-04-04 14:16:04 · answer #5 · answered by wsibwigu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't feel bad. Tell them why you and your husband don't wish to see or speak to them any longer. Then if they do have a change of heart, they can contact you and make amends.
2007-04-04 13:39:43 · answer #6 · answered by Patti C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In laws are just horriable sometimes but you did not do anything wrong just remember what goes around comes around
2007-04-04 14:06:27 · answer #7 · answered by what did you say 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋