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As hard as it is, you need to let go of these feelings. They are inappropriate as this man has already made vows to another person. You will be much better off with a man that only you can call yours.

2007-04-04 13:41:01 · answer #1 · answered by kalea_kane 6 · 1 0

Well here is my answer. We are not perfect, but if you really like him, tell him so, but tell him that you will date him when he is through and divorced with his wife. I have someone that likes me, actually we both like each other, but he respect my marriage, and you should too. It's hard, very hard, but onced you realize that this is wrong, then you know that everyone here helping you is right. What if he was married to you, and someone else likes him, how would you feel about that? All I can tell you is that you don't want to be a home wreaker. Agree to be friends, but nothing more, beside it's more exciting that way that he is after you instead of you after him knowing that he is a married man. I am just glad that yahoo is here to stay for discussion and advice from other members.

2007-04-04 20:39:39 · answer #2 · answered by heavenlyours2000 3 · 0 0

You should not even be in love with this guy in the first place as he is married! He needs to love his wife and not have feelings for you. It is better for you to dump him and move on with your life. I hope you know you are the other woman here and trust me it is not worth it and you will end up getting hurt in the end. you need to find someone who is single and available and is free and clear to be with you and to love you:) Basically this married man is a scum who wants his to have cake and eat it too if you know what i mean. He is just using you and playing with your feelilngs and emotions. If you were his wife how would you feel about him likeing another woman?

2007-04-04 21:05:29 · answer #3 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 1 0

He may have deep feelings for you but he's not married to you, I'd close the door on this relationship...Over 70 % of men who have had or is having an affair never leave their wife for the "other woman"

2007-04-04 21:47:18 · answer #4 · answered by I Like Grapes 3 · 0 0

If he is so into you then why is he still married? The answer is usually its not that simple. It IS that simple. He is married. He will probably stay married. If he does happen to leave his wife then he is probably not mature or stable enough to be with. Do you want someone who falls for someone else when they are married? Dump him and find someone that is unattached and worth your emotions. He may have deep feelings for you and his wife. Good Luck.

2007-04-04 20:40:00 · answer #5 · answered by smile4u 5 · 0 0

I don't think he has really "deep feelings" for you. Maybe he's just going through a lot of trouble in his marriage. I don't think a honest man, would look for something outside of his marriage, instead of fixing it or called quits. Just stay away from him. Let him get completely divorce and if it's true he loves you, he'll be knocking at your door when he gets divorced. Otherwise, he's just trying to use you with no further commitment.

2007-04-04 20:54:36 · answer #6 · answered by NA 2 · 0 0

yea, he has deep feelings for you because he said so because you are just a piece on the side and thats why he is still with his wife so he would just tell you whatever you want to hear so he can have his cake and eat it too

if he had any feelings for you that were actuall feelings of love then he would be leaving his wife for you, but yet he is still married and still with her and using you just for sex on the side, so what kind of deep feelings does he have for you?

none

2007-04-04 21:10:40 · answer #7 · answered by zether 6 · 1 0

I completely understand how you feel. And to be honest, there is really only one thing to do: leave each other alone for a while. See what happens. If he still has serious feelings for you, and you have serious feelings for him, then you two need to talk. But if not, and the feeling fades, then....you have no choice but to move on.

But first, spend some time away from each other for a period of time. leave each other alone before something ugly comes out from it. If his wife finds out, and she confronts you, what else can you say or do except be silent and feel defeated?

Feel free to email me if you wish.

Good luck

2007-04-04 21:07:37 · answer #8 · answered by Tapanga 4 · 0 0

Leave that one alone, unless he is actually separated from her. This sort of deal is not good to be involved in, lots of hurt feelings, and you are looking at conclusive proof that he will cheat on his wife. I know that sounds a bit like a cliche, but that's the way it is. Why would he not cheat on you someday? You should think this through a little bit.

2007-04-04 20:34:36 · answer #9 · answered by Joe 5 · 1 0

No he doesn't . He is married. He is going to stay married. You are there as a diversion and for sex. Leave and find some one single.

2007-04-04 21:16:23 · answer #10 · answered by greenfrogs 7 · 1 0

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