Marriage & Divorce - 4 April 2007

is it possible that a married man who cheats on his wife is also happliy married?

2007-04-04 10:10:33 · 23 answers · asked by I<3PAULRUDD 2

if it leads to a better sex life between my husband and I? A co-worker friend of mine and I talk a lot about sex, likes and dislikes, etc. He's been able to give me lots of ideas to try with my husband, my husband knows we talk about it all the time and doesn't care as long as it's just talk. I even told hubby he had co-worker to thank for some interesting twists to our sex life. I help the co-worker with problems with his wife, we're just good friends, but sometimes I wonder if it's strange to have these conversations. I mean, we both know we're attracted to one another, but we're both trying to help each other with our relationships, not get involved with each other. My husband is ok with it, his wife would not be happy.

2007-04-04 09:54:35 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous

My ex husband has done a 180 after our divorce with his kids. He was the dad always involved when we were married. Since the divorce (7 years) he has had nothing to do with his kids. He lives 20 minutes from them but never has time. He will make plans with them for dinner and then not call with a time or when they call to ask him he says he forgot. My daughter is 20 and my son is 13. They are both very angry with him. Should I talk to him about how they fill or just stay out of this. The ex and I don't get along very well. So having a normal conversation with him is hard to do. HELP !!!!

2007-04-04 09:53:12 · 10 answers · asked by Ann N 1

2007-04-04 09:50:42 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have read some many stories at least 4 or more on here where the wife got pregnant during an affair or the reverse the hubby got someone else pregnant during an affair.Is this a common thing to happen? i know two people in real life that this has happened too.If these people were going to cheat on their spouses you would think they would use protection with all the diseases going around?

2007-04-04 09:43:59 · 8 answers · asked by Melrose G 1

My husband wants a family also but, he can't be home to spend any time with his family due to his career. Should I divorce my husband because I really want a husband that can have and spend time with his family.

2007-04-04 09:42:54 · 13 answers · asked by joejoe 1

why isn't it that way? I don't get it.

2007-04-04 09:17:53 · 14 answers · asked by oldsoftee2001 6

Well I came over here because the singles and dating site was all kids with lame questions....

over here is a bunch of lame adults with bogus problems.

WHERE can I go for some INTELLIGENT postings and not have to read through tons of bs to get an actual problem posted?

2007-04-04 09:10:30 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

how can I train my hubby so that he listens to me and do as i say.

2007-04-04 09:02:53 · 61 answers · asked by Dexter A 1

Why is it so crippling not to divorce and live in the same house with a spouse that is more like a room-mate than a spouse? How many people have separate bed rooms from their spouse, separate accounts, and just share responsibility with the kids? I dont understand why I just can not divorce when I want to so bad. Who is going through this or can enlighten me on why doing something is so hard.

2007-04-04 08:59:33 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I asked her if she would like to work on it with a proffesional with or without me and she said maybe down the road, I am very much in love with my wife,but, she says she needs space. I give her space but we still live together until I have enough money to move out. This is very hard. I love to touch her, kiss her and hug her. She is more stand offish most of the time. Is it over? Is there still a chance? What's the best course of action? I really don't want to lose her, but, I know it's not up to me. Please I love her and any insight is loved and welcomed.

2007-04-04 08:57:09 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

Seems women want everything from men, but aren't willing to give anything back in return.
I do my half of the cooking, cleaning, raising our children and do a thousand other things and my wife still wants access to all my money. I already pay half of all the bills, rent, groceries and the every day whatevers of life.
If she wants more money she should get a better job. My money comes from my career. I work hard for my career and my family. Why should I give her access to all my money?

2007-04-04 08:54:03 · 17 answers · asked by snack_daddy10 6

2007-04-04 08:52:59 · 12 answers · asked by teenypurplebinky 3

My husband and I have been married for 13 months. He is the one that wants the divorce. We've been separated since august and I just found out that he is living with another woman. He is in the military and is stationed across the country from me. He left me without a home and no income. What are my chances?

2007-04-04 08:31:53 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

If you and your spouse saved yourselves for marriage, was the wedding night satisfying or was it clunky and awkward like how most people say their first time is. be honest!

2007-04-04 08:30:34 · 8 answers · asked by giiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiirl 1

If your partner(husband or wife)realy good, why would u like to have sex with another person.? is there is a huge different in sex from person to person. ??

2007-04-04 08:25:30 · 21 answers · asked by lion23 2

I need to tell her as he gets married very soon - has anyone done this before? Does anyone have any suggestions re how I can soften the blow / survive the fallout? They divorced last month ...

2007-04-04 08:22:40 · 11 answers · asked by Onwards&Upwards 1

Is there such thing as this scenario? Father and mother share childeren equally physically, living at both places equal amount of time. Father wants to have primary care and control yet share them equally with her. Her decisions are not always the best and she makes some bad judgement calls so he would like the power to be able to make the last call on some things and he thinks necessary, that way she will probably keep herself in line better knowing that her bad decisions may have conseqences. Is this possible to have custody in this way? Also he does not want child support and she does not either, but we heard that if someone has primary care they have no right to refuse child support from the other parent. Can someone explain to me how some of this works?

2007-04-04 08:22:24 · 8 answers · asked by Vanessa 2

the question is... my HUSABAND has a friend and i kissed him.... if i sleep with him it would just be a fling....... but i want him

2007-04-04 08:16:16 · 21 answers · asked by rockerad 1

Has goals, a career, and helps provide, or a women who is a stay at home person who cooks and cleans, and maybe you know with the kids. I just always wondered what men really want but you can't expect us to do it all. Pick one please

2007-04-04 07:15:54 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-04 07:07:29 · 16 answers · asked by Rick D 1

2007-04-04 07:04:59 · 27 answers · asked by Spider b 1

I have a friend who is married and her husband's ex-girlfriend call out the blue to ask him to the wedding. She's marrying the guy he suspected her of cheating with.

2007-04-04 07:01:50 · 9 answers · asked by Kizzy L 1

i have been married a little over a month and eveytime i check his email he has a new personal ad he has signed up for

2007-04-04 06:56:43 · 27 answers · asked by arkansasgirl 1

My husband and I have been married for 10 months. I try my hardest to be completely selfless (which I am) and I take care of him and am a good wife. He leaves me home alone all the time, lies to me about the smallest things, and only thinks of himself. I tried to talk to him about all of our problems last night and he fell asleep.

2007-04-04 06:50:48 · 20 answers · asked by Courtney T 2

I've been with my husband for 10 years i cheated on him about two years ago. We had separated for a while and I was in a realtionship with the new guy. Things got complicated I ended up pregant and my husband and I got back together because I found out I was pregant I ended my realationship with the other guy. Sometime I miss this guy and although we still talk i stay my distance because I really don't want to hurt my husband again. He been a great father and he is trying to show me he change, by taking us out before he wasn't an outgoing kind of person. I just don't know what to do I don't know if I am just with him because I am use to him or because I love him please help me

2007-04-04 06:45:21 · 9 answers · asked by lisa b 1

So yesterday was our 3 year anniversary. I sent him an e-card (which I know he received since it said so in my inbox) JUST in case he forgot.
Waited all day, no reply whatsoever.
When I got home from work he said not one word the entire evening. He made himself dinner, left me to care for the baby, and watched TV. Finally at midnight, I just gave him the presents I bought and told him I'm going to bed. He asked all stupidly "What is this for?"
I said "Our anniversary". He then tried to play that he didn't remember. I asked him about the card I sent him..he claimed he didn't have the "chance" to really read it.
I don't know what hurts more..the fact he did absolutely nothing..no card, not even a mention. Or the fact he claims to have "forgotten"..obviously taking me for an idiot.
What would you do in this situation? I am tired of being the only one in this relationship.

2007-04-04 06:41:28 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been with this man for 7 years I am 22 and he is 43 . All we do is fight and argue all the time . I feel like I cant even look at him any more . Although I do still love him I dont feel that I am in love with him. He questions every thing that I do and every thing he says sounds like an accusation. Sometimes I feel more like a daughter than a wife . I dont want sex anymore of for that matter him to even touch me . I would like to just be friends but he says that will never happen . I have no friends basically no life . I go to work and come home . Like yesterday i stayed at work 10 minutes over and then i had to stop at the bank I even called to let him know what was going on so he wouldnt be mad at me but still when I got their he treated me like i did something wrong . demanded to know why i was at work late ( I work for my father ) I feel like I am always n trouble with him. I am curently 34 weeks pregnant and already stressed . He drinks every day spends around a $100

2007-04-04 06:31:06 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

help been marry for 20 years i don't know what to do anymore.everything that i do comes and bite me in the as...................thank you for your help.

2007-04-04 06:26:12 · 26 answers · asked by Rafique 1

Our son, is marrying this awful girl, (of which they just had a baby). They suddenly throw out a wedding date after three years of living together - the date is 3 days after Christmas ! And on the other side of the country! We offered to pay for their wedding many times here, but they always had some excuse why they didn't want to get married. Can we object to the date, and if so is it rude?

2007-04-04 06:20:11 · 17 answers · asked by riakay 1