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how can I train my hubby so that he listens to me and do as i say.

2007-04-04 09:02:53 · 61 answers · asked by Dexter A 1 in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

61 answers

U cant train ur hubby but yes u can make him listen to u ...All u have to do is love love n love him.Try to make him satisfied in everything you do. Listen to him, care what he wants, check his desires. n thats it!

Gain ur husband@love.

2007-04-04 09:45:29 · answer #1 · answered by sherry 3 · 1 0

Sorry if you wnated someone to be like that then you shouldn't have married you should have got a dog. You marry someone because you love who they are. Why is it then when women marry all they try to do is change the ways of there mate? Really just have to communicate to him more
what he needs to be doing around the house needless to say guys can be slobs sometimes and well it is completely normal for the wife to nag there hubby. If anything he just sounds lazy and you need to put your foot down a little more.

Now on the other hand if this has to do with sex some men you have to tell them everytime because they forget.

But really grow up your married you must compromise that is one of the biggest parts of marriage and any relationship for that matter.

2007-04-04 09:12:01 · answer #2 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 0 0

Its more about communication than training. You both need to listen to each other. When talking sit and look him in the eyes and when he says something don't interrupt. He's more likely to hear you when you listen to him also. And your requests have to be clear and precise (don't say "I've had a rough day" meaning you want a back rub or your feet massaged and get mad when he doesn't do it). Say "I'd really appreciate it if you rub my feet, I'll do the same for you tomorrow or the next time you have a rough day". Good luck and God Bless.

2007-04-04 09:11:15 · answer #3 · answered by tersey562 6 · 0 0

I dont know how long you have been together but if your the kind of wife who is trying to train her hubby to listen to you,Then im not suprised he needs training!!
He is not a pet..............Either find out why their is no communication between the two of you or simply get out of the marriage.

2007-04-04 09:16:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

My stbx tried to train me. She forgot that I am the sum of my parts and what you see is what you get. Meaning, that i was not only a full minded man but when she tried to get me to train me and do things her way. It put a wedge between us. I will always resent her for it. So I left her, the best thing I could have ever done. Now my new partner respects me and values me as an equel and i her. So, good luck with your training. When he walks out on you, Ill say "I told you so."

2007-04-04 09:31:28 · answer #5 · answered by Shootsscores 3 · 0 0

Are you a trainer, you don't need a hubby but a disciples. Why don't you train yourself to be self sufficient .
Didn't you spotted his untraineable traits when you were still going out and not married to each other ?

2007-04-04 16:03:17 · answer #6 · answered by poke_a_man 3 · 0 0

You don't train a husband, He is not a dog. Talk to him when he is not involved with something else. Perhpas at the dinner table. Tell him what you need to tell him and ask him what he thinnks. He will want to solve things but sometimes you just need him to listen, tell him that.

2007-04-04 09:23:20 · answer #7 · answered by greenfrogs 7 · 0 0

First off, you wrong for trying to "train" him. He is not a dog or child. Second, if you want him to listen to you, try talking to him like an adult and talk "to" him not "at" him. Learn to talk and not nag. Women have a tendency to not treat us as equals and thats where problems come up. I should know, been there, done that.

2007-04-04 09:38:37 · answer #8 · answered by scicodawg 2 · 0 0

Take him to husband training sessions at the local HTC. It costs maybe 180 bucks and the benefit is that he can fetch and lift his leg on the couch!

2007-04-04 09:07:45 · answer #9 · answered by Devdude 5 · 1 0

Very simple. Give him desired food and he will listen to you and will do as you say.
I am male. I am ready to do all if my wife is ready to give me 1 item, food of my taste.
My question:
How can I train my wife so that she listens to me and do as I say? I will say only once in a week and will listen all 7 days of week. I am Mittal at 98105 38183

2007-04-05 19:55:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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