2007-04-04 07:07:29 · 16 answers · asked by Rick D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I am craving the swing lifestyle now that I am in my forties. I think it has to do with sexual exploration as you get older. You want to try new things before you get too old.
2007-04-04 07:14:51 · update #1
Hell no. Besides, my husband would never want that.
2007-04-04 07:26:12 · answer #1 · answered by Kari R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aaack!! All potential swingers out there IGNORE BIGGDADDY'S ADVICE! Boundaries don't mean holding each other back. Boundaries are our comfort levels. When someone disrespects those and does a bellyflop into the swingers pool, it basically means, "Screw you, honey, I don't care if it hurts you to see me _________ with _______. I'm doing it anyway, because I'm gonna get mine while the gettin's good!" THAT...is NOT swinging. That's just cheating with permission.
Okay, to answer the question:
No, I wouldn't swing just because my hubby really wanted to...not if I personally didn't agree with it. Come on ladies, get a backbone. But seeing as how I agree with it, have tried it, and hubby and I have had a blast with it, I definitely would. In a heartbeat. :)
2007-04-05 09:56:18 · answer #2 · answered by intuition897 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Limits and boundaries? Man if your going to go for it, go for it. Don't sell yourself short! Either you go all the way or you don't. If your going to try no limits should be set. Experience the whole thing before you set boundaries! Otherwise you wont know for sure if you like it or not.
2007-04-04 07:13:09 · answer #3 · answered by biggdaddy1669 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Absolutely not! If my hubby wanted to swing I'd give him a one way ticket back to singlesville, then he could swing all he wanted! I have more respect for my spouse than to do that!
2007-04-04 07:22:26 · answer #4 · answered by FirefighterWife 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Would I try it because my husband really wanted me to do it?
NO!!!!!
Would I try it because I really wanted to do it?
YES!!!!!
My only advice on that front is talk about it and set some rules before being in that situation.
2007-04-04 08:17:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Fantasy and realty are two differenct things. How do you feel about your spouse doing other guys instead of you?
2007-04-04 07:57:30 · answer #6 · answered by Justthefacts 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I would try it...Hey life is to short go have fun!!!
2007-04-04 07:20:01 · answer #7 · answered by Isis Dior 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If my man didn't mind some other guy sticking it to me, I would think he didn't love me anymore!
2007-04-04 07:26:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, we were actually approached by it and it turned our stomachs...we love eachother too much.
2007-04-04 07:13:17 · answer #9 · answered by mrs O 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, honestly it is fun...I tried it over the weekend for the first time...Depends on how open you are really....
2007-04-04 07:20:00 · answer #10 · answered by stilettofan 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋