Seems women want everything from men, but aren't willing to give anything back in return.
I do my half of the cooking, cleaning, raising our children and do a thousand other things and my wife still wants access to all my money. I already pay half of all the bills, rent, groceries and the every day whatevers of life.
If she wants more money she should get a better job. My money comes from my career. I work hard for my career and my family. Why should I give her access to all my money?
2007-04-04 08:54:03 · 17 answers · asked by snack_daddy10 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Relationships are 50-50 (good ones anyway). To ask if women are spoiled seems a little backwards though. Would you rather women be at home barefoot and pregnant?
2007-04-04 09:06:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
My husband doesnt mind spoiling me and i dont mind getting spoiled. But it works both ways I spoil him as well. Money shouldnt be a problem. We have an understanding his money is our money and my money is my money. We have been married going on 10 years and money has never been a problem. He says that he married me so he should be able support me and our 2 kids in every way. Don't get me wrong I do offer to help if he ever needs it.
2007-04-04 17:17:03 · answer #2 · answered by happilymarriedwife 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You two need to sit down and create a budget you both agree on. It sounds like there is something going on. She probably wants a joint account that the bills can come out of, I wouldn't feel married if everythng were 50/50. My husband does all the providing, and I'm a stay at home Mom (well, my child goes to work with me 9 hours a week up at church, if that counts!). Sit down with her and find out what is really going on.
2007-04-04 15:59:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes women are spoiled nowadays but so are most men as well. My husband and I spoil each other rotten so that is good lol. What is yours is hers and what is hers is yours. Goes both ways you know.
2007-04-04 16:12:33 · answer #4 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not YOUR money and HER money. It's BOTH.
And women are only spoiled because men made them that way.
2007-04-04 16:01:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no thats not true most wemon do everything for the men and there the one's that are not equaly respected but in other cases some wemon are spoiled!!!! most that come from trailer parks are beverly hills!!!
2007-04-04 16:40:13 · answer #6 · answered by alex t 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Usually a married couple pool their finances in a joint account.
In my opinion if neither is willing to do such, there is a flaw in your relationship. UNLESS one is an extreme spender!
2007-04-04 16:14:32 · answer #7 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep women want it all - with no responisbilities. And when anything goes wrong it's all your fault. DOn't give her access to your money dude.
2007-04-04 20:03:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because your gonna wanna have sex with her, thats why she needs access to all your money!
2007-04-04 15:59:50 · answer #9 · answered by MiZZ707 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not your money.
The bible says...if a man in unwilling to support his family
he is worse then an infidel.
Suck it up pal...this is your lot in life.
If you got a divorce...it will cost you 3 times as much...for life.
2007-04-04 16:27:42 · answer #10 · answered by Bobbie4u 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋