If your partner(husband or wife)realy good, why would u like to have sex with another person.? is there is a huge different in sex from person to person. ??
2007-04-04 08:25:30 · 21 answers · asked by lion23 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Married means committed and monogamous. If you wanted to be a player you should stay single.
2007-04-04 08:29:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, sex is always different with different people. Sex without love is just sex. Sex with someone you love is always better because you can MAKE LOVE while you are also having sex.
Why would someone who is married want to have sex with other people? For variety, to enhance or spice up the sex in the marriage. Sometimes couples decide to explore sex with other people together just for fun. Or for some people, the marriage isn't going well so sneaking around and having sex with someone else, as wrong it is, seems like a way to feel loved by someone. I personally have never cheated on a spouse.
2007-04-04 15:41:10 · answer #2 · answered by StrawberryShortcake 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are correct in suggesting that the quality of sex from one person to another is not "great."
It can be, but generally, it is not.
That said, if two people have a rock-solid relationship and mutually decide that they want to "experiment" a little bit, that's entirely THEIR business and nobody else's. Periods of "experimentation" don't usually last long and hopefully, the people involved have talked everything over, set "rules" and use protection.
I would remind you that while the odds for problems are greater than the opportunities for pleasure, this certainly doesn't stop people from DAILY gambling away large sums of savings in casinos worldwide.
Obviously, it is NOT a question of the odds; since the house usually wins.
As regards extra-marital experiments, it would seem to be more an issue of the "stakes" than the odds, since people buck the odds all the time.
2007-04-04 16:02:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe because some people have a problem living up to vows of there marriage. Marriage is for life to one person and does not give you reason to commit adultery at anytime
for any reason something may be wrong in your marriage. I love my wife with all my heart and I hope others feel this way towards there spouse or what is the reason you got married in the first place? Really you shouldn't care about crap like this if you are married that is final that is the one that you shag for life if you have chosen wisely of course.
God Bless and I hope your not asking this queston because you are tempted?
2007-04-04 16:00:10 · answer #4 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone is always curious about sex with someone else. Especially if it is someone that u are attracted too. Sex is very different I think from relationships, that I have had, it is different with ever person or partner. So u are always wondering even though u are married if it could be better.
Good Luck!!!
And dont cheat u are married for better or worse......
2007-04-04 15:31:06 · answer #5 · answered by squeaky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it seems like you presume that all married folks would like to have sex with another person. That simply is not the case. Me and my husband have an active sex life, so I feel there is no need to try to have sex with someone else. Also, that would be CHEATING, and some of us took our marriage vows seriously and just would not do such a thing.
2007-04-04 15:30:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
For some people that's a fantasy...for other's they are just living an alternative lifestyle....I say...
I am married and I only want my husband but have met numerous people that have said if there husband or wife wanted to do that they would be okay... I see it as a problem and wouldn't think of it!
2007-04-04 15:51:33 · answer #7 · answered by danxtsupamodel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There can be a tremendous difference from one person to another. Best sex i have had isn't with the wife I'll tell you that much!
2007-04-04 15:42:17 · answer #8 · answered by The Answer Guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We like to bring another girl into bed with us. It's a thrill. We've also watched eachother have sex with another person. It's the excitement and thrill of it all. But we don't have sex with others, without the other.
2007-04-04 15:35:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I never cheated to my husband for 22 years, so I can't really explain the differences, but my husband did this past November, for his reason that I will never justify. He told me that he was just looking for a friend on a dating site,which I know its lame. But to make the story short when I caught him, he said he lost his weakness to this married woman(like duh!). My husband is not good in bed and never complain it,so when I caught his affair he told me that making love to this married woman was not good and she have a smell.
So I guess theres a differences on all of us, even though that I don't believe him anymore.......
2007-04-04 19:26:31 · answer #10 · answered by islandgirl06 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people can't resist the attraction of something new and different, but I suspect that at the end of the day it's not worth the heartache to cheat. I've never cheated and neither has he.
2007-04-04 15:31:17 · answer #11 · answered by Parrot Eyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋