the question is... my HUSABAND has a friend and i kissed him.... if i sleep with him it would just be a fling....... but i want him
2007-04-04 08:16:16 · 21 answers · asked by rockerad 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
1st kiss him and wait a few days to make sure your husband isn't suspicious. Some guys do kiss and tell. If everything is normal, kiss and also jack him off. Wait a few days and if everything is still normal...kiss and give him oral. Wait a few days and if everything is still normal...let him start banging it.
2007-04-04 08:21:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 4⤋
fling or not, it would be CHEATING. Do you love your husband? How would you feel if he kissed one of your friends and was thinking about having an affair? How would you feel if he did have an affair? Also the fact that this guy is kissing married women should tell you he is not the best person to get involved with. We don't always get what we want and if you do cheat you could lose everything you have now? Is it worth the risk for a CHEAP "fling". Don't be the selfish cow your making others see you as and be a good wife and tell your husband about your feelings and the kiss. Maybe he should decide if you are worth the risk, at least he should know that his so called friend is a a** hole.
2007-04-05 03:25:31 · answer #2 · answered by C T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it would not be just a fling if you sleep with your husband's friend, it's also considered cheating, and it will probably also lead to a divorce. Think really long and hard before you do this.
2007-04-07 10:14:14 · answer #3 · answered by Tweety 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This question is just so triffling!!! How can you even consider sleeping with your husband's friend? The fact that the two of you kissed is just as bad. You said that you want your husband's friend. Do you still love your husband or are you two having problems? If you still love your husband, stay far away from the guy. This is major trouble just waiting to happen!!!
2007-04-04 15:34:27 · answer #4 · answered by Shortcube 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I looked at your previous question, and it appeared to me that people pretty much had it right -- they mostly told you don't do it. I agree. "Just a fling" is still cheating and it's still wrong. You shouldn't even have kissed him, but that's water under the bridge now. I hope you didn't expect people to tell you that cheating on your husband was a good idea!
2007-04-04 15:21:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
A fling doesn't make it any more right than an intense affair. When you make vows of fidelity, you should do your best to keep them and your honor.
Just because you want something doesn't mean it is a good thing for you.
2007-04-04 16:22:40 · answer #6 · answered by kalea_kane 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Does your husband know?? (I missed the first question, sorry) Do you love your husband? If so, you shouldn't be having "flings". Maybe you & your husband should consider an open marriage (swinging). Something to think about....
2007-04-04 15:22:24 · answer #7 · answered by Sam F 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That's hard. It all depends on you. how much do you love your husband? Has he ever cheated on you? How strong is your relationship? Have will you feel afterward? Do you trust he friend not to tell your husband? these are the questions you should be asking yourself.
2007-04-04 15:23:02 · answer #8 · answered by zabrina e 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think perhaps you may have it wrong. It doesnt matter who this other person is. You have a husband. Hellllllllo.
Perhaps you should ask your husband how he'd feel about your fling.
2007-04-04 15:27:48 · answer #9 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So exactly what is the question? This whole situation is wrong. If you want someone else then get out of your marriage. Do your vows mean anything?
2007-04-04 15:24:02 · answer #10 · answered by Ann N 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You made a vowel when you got married remember??? How could you even thimk of being with his friend?? Your poor husband if you didn't want the commitment you should of never got married!!!
2007-04-04 15:24:58 · answer #11 · answered by DaughteroftheKingofKings 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋