My boyfriend's mother.?

Question

I have recently decided to get back with my ex husband (Brad). We have been working really hard on our relationship. I even suspect he may be planning to ask me to re-marry him.
The thing is his mother is totally against the idea. She has tried so many things to keep us apart.
She tried to have me sign away my parental rights to our son in the event I should leave again.
She has tried to have me declared un-fit and a nut case.
She has threatened to take our son away from us.
She has offered me money to stay away from Brad and our son.
I have not agreed to any of this. How do I get this woman off my back?

Answer 1

Mothers and their grown-up sons... Tsk, tsk, tsk.
This woman needs to butt out of your lives!

The tricky part is only that you don't want to have a confrontation where your soon-to-be husband-again (congratulations, by the way!) feels he has to choose between you and her.

Try to stay calm. Take it in stride. Better said than done, true. But considering that you seem to have worked so hard on the relationship, what's one more task?

You have your family back together, that's what counts. And I strongly suspect that she's the nut case here. Is she overprotective? Well, no, she's out of control.

The only way you can win this one is by staying calm. Be the better person here. She is obviously trying to provoke you into losing your temper and doing something nasty like mixing contaminated cat food into her dinner....
[Not that you would do that - just kidding!!!]

Take the high road. Make it clear by staying calm that she can't get through to you. But also make sure that she doesn't have a chance to feed your son with all sorts of untrue pieces of information about you. Make sure she doesn't turn your son against you.

Good luck!

PS: And by the way, she has no legal rights whatsoever in any of this. She's just bluffing and huffing and puffing.

Answer 2

I misplaced my mom at an early age, 9. i am going to narrate to the little brother's discomfort. merely tell both one in each and every of them that if there is a few thing you ought to do to convenience them that you're available. Your boyfriend would properly be dealing with some own trials he had inclusive of his mom--his emotions will be in all places. Time does heal, nonetheless. i comprehend that would look unfaithful on the instant, yet merely be there for them both. you do not ought to really say some thing except to convenience them with a grin or a hug. You deserve a fashionable man or woman for this question. You all deserve hugs..

Answer 3

Wow that is serious, it sounds liek this women really dislikes you. I think that you should speak with a professional such as a police, lawyer, etc. Another thing is you need to speak to you boyfriend and tell him that he needs to get his mother to leave yall alone b/c this is yalls relationship not hers and she can't control anything within it. As for her threatening to take your son, don't listen b/c there is no legal way that she could just blank out take your son unless she had custody or a very legit reason to take him. For now ignore the women and seach help b/c this women has some issues and you need to take the proper steps to see that she has no affect on you, your boyfriend, and your son.

Answer 4

Did you leave your son before?

Your ex-mother-in-law is doing what she thinks is best for her son and grandson. Mother-in-laws are annoying, but they really just care so much for their sons that it's hard to think that any woman is good enough for them.

If you left your husband and kid before, she is worried about her son and grandson's feelings.

The only thing you can do is reject the "things she does to keep you apart" and prove her wrong. She will never get "off your back" until she trusts you wont hurt her son.

Answer 5

What grounds does she base her reason for attempting to involve the courts? Have you previously abused drugs? Benn a harlot? Where does she get the fuel from to constantly cause trouble? Unless she's pulling all this drama out her a*s, you must have given her a reason to act the way she's acting......and I think your ex-husband may have bad mouth you in front of you. Why wouldn't she just keep quiet and respect her sons decision to date, and possibly re-marry you.

Note.....he's your EX-HUSBAND for a reason...what caused the first may cause the second.

Answer 6

Does Brad know all of this? Does he know his mom is offering money and that she threatens to take your son away? If he doesn't know any of this, I'd find a way to not only tell him, but to prove his mother is whacked. If he does know, then he needs to back you up. If he won't back you up, I say take mommy's money and the kid, and run far away.

Answer 7

Does your ex know any of this? If not I know she probably would lie about trying to buy you off. Women like her honestly think they are trying to protect their son, but she is the one who is crazy and in bad need of help. If the ex is aware of any of this have him speak to her. She is one controlling woman who probably will not stop at anything to get her way, because in her pea size mind she is right. Boy, I wish you luck on this.

Answer 8

It is your (ex) husband who should be dealing with this, not you. Where has he been? Tell him to get off his azz and have a talk with his mother; he needs to stand up for you and for himself, and tell her once and for all to stay the heck away from your relationship. He's the one who should be protecting you from this crap. If he can't defend his relationship in front of his own mother - what kind of man is he?

Answer 9

bitchaway from the ***** and tell your husband to have a back bone before you move letting her know your his wife and she needs to step back he doesn't need 2 wife's
i feel horrible for women like you my mother in law was awesome sadly she past 3yrs ago.also if you have boys learn from this experience no one wants a ***** for a mother in law

Answer 10

This is the reason America can't carry conceled weapons without a permit!!!!