In my case the dead beat father left me as soon as he found out I was having a baby. It was a 10 month relationship & we had talked about having children. He lied to everyone including me & has never seen his own child & never wants too. I have also worked & own my home, car ect. I have no debts. Last year however I was made redundant & I am now studying. He is now married with another child & is living a very good life. This is not about the good parents that pay for their children & love them this is about teaching the bad parents a lesson. My daugther will never know her father because he is not interested at all. I have been given full custody. And he gets away with not paying because all assets are in his wifes name. He has a child & should be made to contribute to her life, if not by love then by money.
2007-04-04 19:42:07 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
So, you were with a guy for less than a year and you actually believed that he wanted you to have his children and that he loved you?? Come on! That is absolutely stupid. Hopefully, he has some intelligence and your daughter didn't inherit yours. Aside from sharing the story of your mistakes and how you ruined your life and brought a child into this mess, what is your question?
I don't think he should have to pay. He left and you chose to have his child anyways. You chose to be a single mom. Take responsibility or you know, continue to **** up your life and your child's life.
2007-04-04 19:49:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 4⤋
Different suggestions for you:
Get a really good attorney if you can afford it.
Take him to court. Some judges not only award money but also make times for fathers to spend with their children.
Do the best you can alone and find someone who loves you and your child.
It sounds like you already have a good life, why try to bring him into the mix? Your child will find out for self what a real father man he is not.
2007-04-05 03:06:08 · answer #2 · answered by Desyra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you fell for the oldest thing in the would how men use women and move on to other.s gal you arent the first and you arent going to be the last learn not to belive what every man says . things he knows you like to hear in simple words he used you and told all his friends that you was a easy mark. . sorry but fact is fact . in my opion?
2007-04-05 02:59:48 · answer #3 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋