I would really like to have a relationship with him and him with me. I'm 46 and he's 60 so it's not like we're kids.
2007-04-04 20:19:48 · 11 answers · asked by LJ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The best thing for you to do, is to wait until he is divorced before you actually get into a relationship with him. He may be "seperated" from his wife.. but that doesn't mean he's "single".
2007-04-05 03:14:27 · answer #1 · answered by arkiegirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You better be very careful here you could get hurt .Just because he is separated doesn't mean a thing my husband and I were separated for 2 1/2 years but the whole time we were dating and spending weekends together and he still had time for a girlfriend don't no how he did it but he did I didn't no about the other woman and she didn't no that he was still seeing me and having sex with me.After 2 1/2 years he came back home that is how I fount out about his girlfriend she made sure I would find certain things among his clothes . You see he broke her heart so bad that she didn't care who she had to hurt in order to get him back.If you don't want to end up like her I would keep away from him.You see that b itch was out to hurt me,she blamed me for them to not getting together.How could I have been the cause when I didn't even no she exist.
2007-04-04 20:43:48 · answer #2 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're old enough to know this is wrong. How do you know he has actually been separated for a year? Not to mention if he was in a longterm marriage chances are good he will have regrets and find his way back to his wife.
You are smart enough to leave this alone until the divorce is final.
2007-04-04 23:48:21 · answer #3 · answered by swtlilblonde31 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are right, you are not kids, so if you really want to be together why hasn't he gotten a divorce? It doesn't matter if he has been separated 1 yr or 10, married is married- so what is really in it for you?!
Be smart..
2007-04-04 21:47:57 · answer #4 · answered by shadowdancr17 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't believe what man says married but separated, married but unhappy. He's lying to you. If you want him using you as a sex free beside his wife go ahead have fun with him but don't complain later when he dumps you. 46 or 60 yrs old if you're in love you're blind.
I don't trust man at all, sorry to say frankly.
2007-04-04 20:43:26 · answer #5 · answered by kkvv 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YOU don't do anything. He is still married. A seperation no matter HOW LONG is not a divorce and not a disillusionment of marriage. Obviously after a year he has no intetions of divorcing his wife. Find a man who isn't married...even at his age.
2007-04-05 00:16:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
wait until he is divorced from his wife.
this would be the wise thing to do as before
this happens you are still going with a married man..
you are not a kid...but grow up to the fact that you have no security with a married man...HE SOUNDS LIKE A USER
2007-04-04 20:34:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
With great respect, do not date this man until he is divorced. You have no idea of the sticky wicket you can get into.....if he decides to get back with his wife. No matter what he may say...this man is still legally married. Please, please....be careful.
2007-04-04 20:23:29 · answer #8 · answered by Esther 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Knock it off. Wait until he's divorced a YEAR.
2007-04-04 22:53:33 · answer #9 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him know that you're interested - as soon as his divorce comes through.
2007-04-04 20:34:25 · answer #10 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋