is windows live only for personal ads?
2007-04-04 19:11:47 · 21 answers · asked by kah 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
he is not cheating yet. but he surely is looking. how does he have time for that anyway? shouldn't he be working hard to bring u more money? tell him that
2007-04-04 19:14:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The person who claims he's not talking about car parts is wrong about the cars but right about the cheating because....
He's more than likely talking about or checking out getting car tail pipes for free. And maybe getting a few free hubcaps as backups.
Mine did the same thing. Cheaters will say cheating is not cheating, even when caught red-handed in the act. Cheaters lie.
Get your own personal profile with a beautiful magazine picture of an unpopular model (something he'd never read or look through), don't let him see this, and send a message to him. Do not give him too many clues. See if he takes the bait.
When he shows up in a restaraunt (wear a hat and scarf with wig to match the picture or better yet have someone do this for you or have the fake person stand him up), walk in on him and ask innocently and sweetly why he's there.
When you get back, e-mail him an excuse that your husband was there or watching you so you couldn't run off and cheat behind your husband's back. Ask him what is cheating in the e-mail. And tell him in the e-mail you want to run off with him.
Do this from a library or college library if you can.
Then he will be so B U S T E D! Be prepared to watch him squirm and get red-faced because you caught him and he tries to make excuses for cheating and blames you or even denies it and says he was just playing along.
2007-04-04 19:52:29 · answer #2 · answered by Desyra 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not necessarily. Having a windows live account is like having a hotmail account. Vista is complicated and not all that user-friendly. A Windows Live account just means you have a computer with Vista or an updated/upgraded version of IE and he wants to read his email. With Yahoo you can have three profiles: a User profile that seems like a personals profile, a Personal profile, and a 360 profile. The first two are sorta similar.
The only thing him having those two accounts means is that you're a snoop because you know about them. Address the reason you fell into suspicion so quickly.
2007-04-04 19:18:25 · answer #3 · answered by The Bride 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not necessarily. I have 5 different email accounts (inc. a WLA) and a personals profile, I'm happily married and have no interest in other men! I know men who are also the same. I use the windows live ads/personals to find other people of my particular faith/beliefs.
Has he came home smelling like another woman? Has he spent long nights in front of the pc ignoring you and giggling or harrumphing at something someone is typing to him in an IM?
9 out of 10 times, when a man or woman is chatting with someone it is a friendship thing. I admit that sometimes these chat sessions can turn into something a bit more interesting (cyberly speaking) but I have found that with such discussions (and yes I have when things got questionable at home had a good cybersex chat with a friend of mine that lives in the UK) my own home sex life got exponentially better!
Maybe you might want to try it. If he says anything about it, just, quote what he has told you....watch his reaction...you'll get your answer almost immediately.
2007-04-04 19:23:11 · answer #4 · answered by celticenchantress_1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't let these guys on here who answered fool ya, heck ya he's cheating, or he's trying really hard too. If you call talking to lots of other females not cheating, than maybe he's not! Right! He sure isn't talking to them about car parts, know what I mean? He probably has phone numbers and everything. If he was so happily married what would he be on a singles site for? He wouldn't, because he wouldn't want you to be doing such a thing! Maybe he should be out working on the darn car!!!!
2007-04-04 19:22:24 · answer #5 · answered by sue d 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would ask him why he has a "personal's ad" out on the internet! Usually only people who are interested in finding a date has one...Tell him that he needs to delete the ad. It is not cheating yet, but it may lead to cheating! Good luck!
2007-04-04 19:15:38 · answer #6 · answered by ♥BINK♥ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't no what windows is but I would be very concerned about why my husband is looking in and has his own profile for women to look at and talk to.Your husband is talking to other women so what reason could anyone have to want to talk to the opposite sex if not for the sex it always come down to the sex. If I were you I would watch him very closely.
2007-04-04 19:23:00 · answer #7 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get an account with Yahoo personals, post a fake photo on it, and start communicating with him. If he sets up a date, go there and kick his A*ss. This is the only way to find out for sure.
Yahoo personals is a paid service/
2007-04-04 19:34:18 · answer #8 · answered by OC 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, but it is frequently used for that reason, though not exclusively. These are behaviors and events that you are describing as symptoms of a problem you are assuming may exist. This is a top-down approach, and more likely to vindicate your assumptions than produce realistic answers.
That said, yes, its very possible your husband is cheating on you. You should install a software "key logger" on the computer.
2007-04-04 19:16:46 · answer #9 · answered by bryan p 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I don't know about Windows Live, but Yahoo personals is definitely only personals.
BUT.. it's possible that he created that account before you met, and has never deactivated it.
2007-04-04 19:14:27 · answer #10 · answered by brand_new_monkey 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It could be because he likes to look up personals. I like to look up personals myself just to look at pretty girls and to read some profiles. It doesn't mean anything for me and it could be the same situation. Do you have reason to doubt his honesty and integrity? You should be asking him this question.
2007-04-04 19:15:06 · answer #11 · answered by solitas777 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋