About 15 years ago when I was living in Florida, I got a Florida no-fault divorce, since that time I have paid all the child support to my ex wife. We are for the most part civil towards each other however I would like to know what are my rights. My daughter is now 21 but because she has a learning disability she is uncapable of making a major decision. We all now live on Long Island in New York. I was under the impression that my ex wife has to get my permission for anything that effects my daughters well being such as surgeries, doctor visits. I am not positive but I thing that my ex-wife is her legal guardian. Do I still have any rights as being her blood father if this is the case. My ex wife is a good Mother and she does look out for my daughter, I just dont like the fact that I am not involved in any important decisions. I love my daughter more than anything else. Any help or suggestions on these matters will be greatly appreciated.
2007-04-04 19:49:11 · 6 answers · asked by paul s 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Take that answer and don't take it on heart:
First of all you people get split and then ask question that what right i have:
Answer:You have a right to see your daughter and also spend time with her but as u mention that her mother is legal guardian then you have to make sure what are the things left on which i can put my voice. I think you better consult a lawyer over this issue.
2007-04-04 19:56:41 · answer #1 · answered by maki" The time begins Now 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your ex was awarded guardianship of her there is really nothing you can do about it out side of getting a lawyer and fighting for guardianship.
The rules changed when your daughter turned 18 years old.
I personally would try to talk to your ex first tell her that you want to be a part of the decision making process that she is your daughter to and that you love her very much.
I am sure she would be glad to let you help and that it would take some of the burden off her. She probably doesn't really even realize that it is bothering you.
You need to have a heart to heart and try to work it out together before you go the courts.
2007-04-04 20:21:33 · answer #2 · answered by angie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on who was given custody of the child when you and your wife divorced. If your ex-wife has full custody, you have no input in decisions, no matter how many years you paid child support. But if you and your ex have joint custody, then major decisions concerning your daughter should be made by both parents together.
2007-04-04 20:11:54 · answer #3 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st & 4 most u r dad u have every right with joint custody 2 be an active part in ur daughters well being. hire a good lawyer & take action, regardless 2 her disabilities u have no idea what & how much she does comprehend. 1 thing she does need 2 know is u r her father & u luv her unconditionally.b the man she needs u 2 b. good luck
2007-04-04 19:56:43 · answer #4 · answered by ttkmb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your ex wife as the custodial parent to your daughter NEVER needed your permission for anything concerning your daughter's well being. I would have to say that the reason you're not involved in any importnat decisions is that you haven't been there to BE involved. Your ex wife doesn't have to come to you in any decisions...YOU have to make yourself available if you want to be part of the decisions.
2007-04-05 00:20:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Asking permissions from whom? from you? Only the court can give you the rights to grant those permissions if you win custody. That kind of battle (!) you are not going to win (too late). Your merely being a biological origin of your daughter entitles you to nothing.
2007-04-04 20:09:38 · answer #6 · answered by OC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋