Marriage & Divorce - 3 April 2007

My mother-in-law was just served with divorce papers. For almost 20 years we thought she was already divorced but it turns out she wasn't. She lied about it.

Now her husband wants a divorce because he's retiring and is getting a military pension and doesn't want her to get any of it. She thinks its all a game and thinks if she doesn't respond to the divorce petition it will all just go away and she will get half his pension. We all know she won't. She also says she won't change her name back to her maiden. Doesn't she have to do this? And will she get any of his pension money?

2007-04-03 04:08:08 · 31 answers · asked by Kimmy 4

well i wanted to go to the movies, but my husband did not really want me to go, but i went anyway with my son. to make a long story short, i was hit by another car on my way home from the movies. my husbands was immediatly upset, because he told me not to go in the first place. ok, now the insurance people are involved and they are offering me a settlement. first of all it is not that big of a deal to me, money is money. we have done ok without the settlement, and we will do fine without it. now to my point. yesterday my wonderful husband says to me " well legally you know that money is mine" because the car was in his name. well now i am ticked off because i never wanted to keep anything from him. as a matter of fact i was thinking about what he might need. it is only money, i dont understand why he would come at me the way he did with the legal stuff. my feelings are hurt and i am angry because i thought we were better than that.

2007-04-03 03:56:03 · 11 answers · asked by haley01 1

I'm in a role reversal marriage where my husband stays home and I am sole breadwinner. He is fulfilling the role of homemaker doing the cooking, cleaning, etc. The arrangement is working well, but people tend to judge us and think he is lazy, etc. This is not true. Should I feel guilty about our arrangement? What are your thoughts?

2007-04-03 03:53:28 · 22 answers · asked by Claudia 1

I am going through a divorce right now after a 5yr marrage and she hads two daughters ages 17 and 19 the 19yr old is livign with her boyfriend. She is currently getting support from her ex husband allready and they are tring to get it from me as well he is paying her 364.00 and they are tring to get 1400.00/mth from me. I currently have 3 of my own kids I am supporting. Any Ideas as to how I can get out of this?

2007-04-03 03:43:28 · 4 answers · asked by ray j 1

2007-04-03 03:42:19 · 3 answers · asked by olga_lu80 1

My ex-mother-in-law seems to think that her son has only two problems - anger and control and they are not big problems in marriage.

What are other big problems in marriage besides infidelity? I keep wondering if maybe she was right.

My ex was abusive and controlling.

She also seems to think that when he gets upset, he is right. I don't agree with her.

2007-04-03 03:36:16 · 10 answers · asked by Stareyes 5

My husband, well, actually we are not married yet, but we've been together since I was 15 and I'm 22 now, and we have two kids.. Anyways... He lost his cell phone last night, and he said he gave it to me, and is accusing me of losing it... Everytime something of his is lost he accuses me. This morning when I was getting ready for work, he started arguing again with me about it. He even was cursing at me and calling me names.... I am thinking about leaving him to show him he cannot talk to me that way... I am so tiredof being blamed for every thing.. I don't know what to do. Please Help.....

2007-04-03 03:35:03 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband is a courier and runs around in our tri state area all wk long and I on the other hand work in an office and dont get out much at all during the wk. I dont ask him to do anything during the wk because he has been running all day but on the weekends I still cant get him to go anywhere or do anything with me, not to visit friends, not to go out to dinner or the movies. I feel like we are in a rut and that he needs to understand that it is important to me that we spend some quality time away from the kids and the house. Do you think this is wrong

2007-04-03 03:25:05 · 30 answers · asked by pickletbug 2

She left 5 months ago to be with a coworker we have two small kids and a 17 year relationship. I still love her and she is now realizing who reall yloves her and the grass is not greener. I heard the expression "to error is human to forgive is divine" Would I have like no dignity if I tried to work on rebuilding what we have?

2007-04-03 03:18:08 · 69 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-03 03:01:47 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am not complaining but I am confused. While having sex last night my husband decided to pull my hair and stick fingers in my mouth! To me it was a little freaky (in a good way) Since we been married for 7 years and he is never took a walk on the wild side! My question is what am I suppose to do with his fingers? He is really into this now and I don't want to look at him like he is crazy and not please him!

2007-04-03 02:58:13 · 12 answers · asked by lil mami 4

I posted a question and someone with the identity of "goodquestion" answered it and I am sort of confused and would like to know if thier name is melanie?

2007-04-03 02:52:03 · 8 answers · asked by Sam Fisher 3

I have been married for 4 wonderful years to a man I adore! Recently we had something come up and he has had to be in Mexico for quite some time now. I live with my brother in law who is one year younger than me. I guess you could say I have been sexually stressed out lately and I'm not sure how to explain it but I ended up having sex with my brother in law. Now I have no feelings for this guy, I love my husband and have no intentions of ever leaving him. Now, is it possible to keep my marriage the same and go back to normal? I know for a fact that my brother in law was just a one time thing and he has no feelings for me either, I mean he has a girlfriend and Im of course married. It's weird because it's like nothing changed...we are the same towards eachother, only we know what we did. I'm confused? Is it possible to keep it hush hush and keep my marriage? I want honest answers please...what would you do?!

2007-04-03 01:59:17 · 24 answers · asked by Proud Mommy! 2

I am 55 years and feel I am in love with somebody.I am married and have two children too.Is it fair for me to be in love at this age?

2007-04-03 01:38:17 · 32 answers · asked by Varanasi Sitarama Murthy 1

2007-04-03 00:55:55 · 20 answers · asked by janam 2

My best friend was caught in bed with another man recently by her husband and he beat the crap out of her once he got rid of the other guy.She called the cops on him and they took him away.How in the world could a guy ever justify beating up a woman even if she cheated?What is wrong with these people?

2007-04-03 00:18:49 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-03 00:04:25 · 23 answers · asked by ima'to 1