Marriage & Divorce - 3 April 2007

And it doesn't bother my wife...why would it bother her if I chat with a female stranger that I have never met in person?

And yes ladies, as ugly as I look in my pic, the women won't stop the aggressive moves. They can range from INTERNS all the way to MILFS.

2007-04-03 15:56:10 · 13 answers · asked by Joe B 2

Okay at 18 yrs of age when i had my daughter and at the time her dad was in prison .Her dad was 17 yrs old and had been coming home from a party drunk and hit someone putting that person in a coma.He spent 5 yrs in prison for this during this time but I wrote him some letters to him and i sent some photos of his daughter to him.I went to college in mean time majored in interior design and graduated. i met my current hubby of 3 yrs who is a cop few years later.My daughter bio-dad who had been out of prison became a mechanic and started paying child support seeing his daughter everyother weekend.My new hubby did not like this at all and lots of fighting started because he would throw insults.Hubby and i are now seperated and my daughters father has been coming over more often he sleeps over on friday movie night. Always had feelings for my childs bio-dad why are they turning into something more?

2007-04-03 15:43:20 · 14 answers · asked by Jessica S 1

the details he kept that from me over 4and a half years and flat lied about it on more than one occassion.he was never the best lover but when things took a turn and he couldnt perform i went to the doctors and was loving patient and sympathetic,i suggested we watch some porn you know to spice things up he acted like he could never do that like it was awful.it wasnt a random act thats what was so hard and not just porn. he was going to dating sites and pretending to be single the whole time but was unable to have sex with his wife and i tried everthing .i wrote the poem because i wanted him to know how belittling it was to me and the other women as well.to me it was as though he had cheated.i was in the best shape of my life at that time i had my pick of men and i chose him there was no reason for him to even look anywhere else i was the best he ever had i made it a point to be. i want people to know if you lie to your partner the truth will be found out and trust is hard to get back.

2007-04-03 14:54:56 · 1 answers · asked by dixie58 7

We have a 15 month old, we've been married almost two years, and our careers and relationship have deteriorated to nearly nothing. We're very hateful almost all the time, and I'm miserable and can't get out. Can't think, can't function, just cry a lot about everything. I don't want to feel sorry for myself, but trust me, it's bad... I can't afford to get out. What do I do?

2007-04-03 14:45:26 · 32 answers · asked by Jane D 2

My husband is paying almost 800.00 a month for a child he has never seen, he met this lady off the internet and had like a one time thing and she got prego, I feel that he should pay something for this child but we are married and have a child together and almost half of his pay goes to this woman, what are the laws on getting the payment reduced or is that even possable? Any help would be great. Thia happend way before we met.

2007-04-03 14:24:34 · 11 answers · asked by tinkerbell7629 2

My husband recently went awol because he said that being in AIT made him feel like he was going to seriously kill himself. I'm not sure what I should do. I'm afraid to tell him to go back, but I don't want him to go to jail. What would you do?

2007-04-03 14:19:42 · 11 answers · asked by Katherine J 1

I work as the I.T guy at my place of employment. In my job I have to from time to time look in to what others are doing on their computers. What I seen today has me puzzled on what to do. There is a guy call him Ken and a lady call her Barbie. I found out by reading emails that they are sleeping together. Both married to other people. Ok not much new there these days. The problem is Barbie is good friend with someone I am good friends with. We will call her Dawn. Now the problem is Dawn’s son is dating Barbie’s daughter. To make it worse Dawn also works at the same place that the rest of us work. Now my question is do I say anything or let the cards fall as they may?

2007-04-03 14:14:25 · 26 answers · asked by cliff1224 4

like it 3 to 4 times a week. She gives it to me once a week but she'd probably be happier with once a month. I wish she was more into it. Thoughts? Please don't suggest more romance. I have tried pretty much everything with no success. Our marriage is perfect other than that. Well, no marriage is perfect but you know what I mean. We have talked so many times about it I couldn't even count them all. We have tried different B/C, I have tried to get her in the mood in different ways, nothing has worked. It is not really boring but infrequent. We are both willing to try almost anything (within reason... no swinging, stuff like that). Do you think I just have to live with it. I read an Ann Landers column once and she said you shouldn't marry someone like that. She said you will always be resentful and unhappy. I think she was partially right but it is only a small part of an otherwise awesome relationship.

I posted this a couple of days ago and wanted to provide some additional information because of some of the responses. We are both in our late 20's. We are both fairly healthy, not overweight. We have no kids (we plan to in a year or 2). We both work full time and are good financially. Neither of us work much more than 40 hrs a week. We share all the responsibilities at home. We don't really follow a set schedule. We clean when the house is getting dirty, we take turns doing the dishes when the sink gets full, take turns cooking, go out when we feel like it, we spend a lot of time together and do a lot of things together. We have been going on vacations at least once a year. When she doesn't want it, she just says no. When I don't want it, I usually just do it anyway to make her happy. It isn't that difficult.

2007-04-03 14:04:43 · 36 answers · asked by Fall 3

Okay i am 27 yrs old and my hubby is 35 we have been married 6 yrs not so happily he cheated and i cheated to get back at him (but he does not know that).While in therapy with my hubby found out i was pregnant(twins) after the affair.I never questioned paternity before but my daughters features and my sons have me questioning not sure if its guilt or not.My hubby and i have been seperated 1.5 yrs not spoken in 4 months.I am terrified of what my hubby could do to me in court because i think he suspects i had an affair at some point?Am i just overreacting and going crazy?

2007-04-03 14:00:30 · 19 answers · asked by Carrie L 1

I'm currently getting a divorce. The main reason, my wife forged my name on several credit card applications with out my knowledge or concent and then ran up massive amounts of debt.
So much so, that after cashing out my retirement account (little more than $67,000) and paying what I knew about, there is still roughly $30,000 in debt out there.
According to the police and every lawyer I consulted they say what she did was legal and that I can take no action against her for doing it. But does it make it right?

2007-04-03 13:37:25 · 23 answers · asked by Tom P 1

Are there Arranged marriages in South Asia?
Do the women get treated Equally in their marriages?
Is there any sites that might help me out with all of this?? Help please. . .

2007-04-03 12:59:45 · 6 answers · asked by Curious 1

When my husband proposed, he didn't have much savings, so he bought me an included diamond on a tiffany setting. I thought the ring was ok but it wasn't my dream engagement ring. It wasn't his either.

Later this year, we will have more money saved, and he is planning to get me a better ring. Please share if you have a similar story!

Do you think it is tacky to replace our engagement ring? Also to those of you who upgraded/replaced your rings, what did you do with the first ring?

2007-04-03 12:42:06 · 27 answers · asked by phoenix_rising_28 2

yesterday my mom said something about how nobody gets married until they're in their thirties these days. I said that's silly, I don't want to wait until I am thirty. She got all mad. I think 30 is too old to get married, especially if I decide to wait for marriage. What do you think?

2007-04-03 12:40:50 · 15 answers · asked by giiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiirl 1

ive never had anal sex before but my husband asked if we could try it. does it hurt? does it feel good? i never did it before b/c i thought it would feel like pooping, lol. what is it like? serious answers only please. thanks.

2007-04-03 12:34:48 · 12 answers · asked by misty w 1

Our son had a very rare disease and we were told that he would not see his first birthday... he was 7 and the love of our lives along with our (now)4 year old son. This was about 8 months ago and we are handling things completely different. I go to church, work many hours and spend time playing soccer, tennis, etc. with our other son. My husband comes home from work, watches TV and drinks beer. I am not saying that I am perfect, I have slacked off terribly with housework- wich annoys my husband because I use to be so OCD, but I don't see that as one of the most important things in my life anymore... (our house is always clean, just not PERFECT) I have tried to get him to go to therapy, but he will not... he is just very unhappy and angry all the time with me. I understand that he is suffering, as am I, but I don't know how to "reconnect"... any suggestions? (serious only PLEASE)

2007-04-03 12:30:17 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

my gf told me that she has fantasized about having a threesome with two guys...I know that lots of men have the two women fantasy...but how common is it for a women??? just wondering..thanx

2007-04-03 12:27:39 · 21 answers · asked by drbramucci 1

Personally American women and I just don’t get along so I was thinking of a mail order bride. What does everyone think.

2007-04-03 12:27:33 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

my son is 16 years old, He's been having an attitude since 15, His attitude consist of shutting people out, failing grades, lack of sense of humor and quick to anger, He is not doing drugs, he does not run the streets, He's in the house all the time, He has younger siblings and at times he's shut them out as well. I have sought counseling, but the courselor has experience the same thing. I try my best to show love, care, and affection, he just don't want it. My children as well as everyone else knows that im a good mom. Im so sick and tire of his damn attitude, he's lazy and gets mad when we ask him to clean. I found him a job thinking that this would help, actually it made matters worse, now he really does'nt talk, he acts arrogant and refused to tell me how much his first pay was, which is under the table, I explained to him that he works hard and i just wanted to know, to be sure he is not being ripped off. He looked at me and roll his eyes. Should I send him to Job Corp!.

2007-04-03 12:26:40 · 6 answers · asked by dtj22 1

met this guy last december..he works at the gym I frequent..and he seemed really nice..and he told me when I initally met him. that if I ever wanted to go to a movie or hang out to call him, but we ended up not really following through with that..so we exercised together..and he just could not stop smiling..so I'm thinking when a man acts like that he definelty likes her..plus he asked me to work out with him/..so there was some intrest but when I called him to go out to go get starbucks he told me he was busy and he would let me know..but he never did..so finally a month passes after he I asked him to go to starbucks and I see him yesterday for the first time in two months..and he;s grinning..and we conversate for a little while, and he explains to me that he's been stressed out with alot of things..and he aplogizes..and he says"I think we should go get that starbucks you were talking about"...and he tells me to keep saturday open..should I give him another chance? And if not why?

2007-04-03 12:18:51 · 24 answers · asked by Sweetladi 1

really out there

2007-04-03 12:17:32 · 14 answers · asked by mrtnz2006 1

On march 23 my divorce was final, ironicly, we celabrated by hooking up for 2 days. On the 28th he married the woman who persued him aggressivly while married to me. This weekend my ex and i have plans to meet in St Louis and get a room for the weekend. Now I realize this sounds bizzare, I dont really want to sleep with him, but I really want to get even with the other woman. i want her to know what it feels like when another woman persues her husband and screws him. Eye for an eye right? What comes around goes around? is this a good idea or am i really screwing up?

2007-04-03 11:56:41 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am in the US and My wife has gone back to India with the baby on pretext of her father's ill heath. But things chnaged after she left the US. She is nottalking to me and wants the rlationship to end. I love my wife and my baby, and I am missing them terribly. She and her parents say that I was not ableto take care of her "emotionally". But I am not a bad person, i always tried my best totake good care of my wife, we ued to go out, eating, shopping, vacations, everything. but I was a little bit possessive, insecure, overprotecting her, trying to be 100% perfect everywhere. And we had some problems due tothat because I wanted to do everything myself, even her doc's appnts when she was pregnant - I was always with her always. I love her a lot. She says she had given me a lot of chnaces and that the 9 months was the last chnace, and she says i failed. I don't know what to do, how to get her and my baby back ?? My in laws are also against me now and say that they will never send her back.

2007-04-03 11:46:16 · 28 answers · asked by Saurabh M 1

he just want plian sex

2007-04-03 11:32:01 · 23 answers · asked by nyasia g 2

do u get mad when u not smokeing????? sometime when i not smoke 4 a really long times i get so upset n i start throwing things n i shoot things n yell @ me kidds n me hubby,,,,,then they tells me to calm downs n lite me up a malboro n after a couple i feels great again,,,,,,,,,,,,sometimes i wishs i cood go more time between smokes n feel good but that not happen!!! when i go to mall with frend they make me goes 15 mintues without smokes n i goes CRazy!!!!!!!! does this happen to u???

2007-04-03 11:29:04 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm 45 and my husband is 57. married only 2 years, he has no interest in sex at all. Is this common in men his age?

2007-04-03 11:28:34 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

I recently had a friend ask me if I would believe my man if he told me the reason we went from having sex every day to having it once a week, once every two was because I belittled him when we didn't or got angry because we didn't have sex and this has been going on for two years would I believe that this was why or believe that there was someone else. I believe there is someone else was I wrong to say this to her?

2007-04-03 11:16:48 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

if you guys are gonna cheat then why do you get married or have a gf? o yea isn't cuz u want sex all the time even at home and you want someone to cook & clean for you? (and yes i mean ALL guys! every guys says he would cheat if he wouldn't get caught)............and for all those gullible women who don't belive me do you really think a man will be faithful till death do him part?

guys who have so much testorone and cares about hot girls more than anything else even you (although inur face they pretend not to but don't be fooled), guys who go craaazyy for hot girls, and will do anything for sex and etc

back to my question why can't you guys jsut find your own way to raiase money and buy hoes instead of hurting good girls feelings! do you like to do that?

if you're gonna cheat then can you just save the heartbreak and go to some prostitutes????? how would you feel if it happened to you?

2007-04-03 11:10:34 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and I will celebrate our 5th anniversary in May. I don't quite know how to phrase the ?, but here goes.
We had a very healthy sex life until after our third daughter was born. I had a scare with that one, and cannot seem to gear my mind towards romance etc. anymore. (we have four girls, so obviously sometimes) All I seem to think about is the kids when I should be "in the mood", and I can't tune them or the possibility they will need something at night even if they are at grandma's for the night. Because we are not intimate, he is pulling away and not giving the quick kisses he used to or just holding each other while watching tv etc, and without those little touches to the marriage, I feel even more reluctant. Is there any way to reverse the direction we are heading in?
I still love him just as much if not more than when we got married, and he seems to feel the same way, but I am afraid of a never ending slide downhill from here.
Please only real advice.

2007-04-03 10:51:04 · 22 answers · asked by Star 5

what 'll you do if your husband kept looking at the other girls when you are along with him?

2007-04-03 10:32:34 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-03 10:30:13 · 11 answers · asked by lookn_4_laffs 5