what 'll you do if your husband kept looking at the other girls when you are along with him?
2007-04-03 10:32:34 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well, as long as he doesn't touch, what's the problem?
2007-04-03 10:37:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
ya know what
maybe you should get a life
i really dont think that you can honestly say that you dont look at other men as well
how about the waiter the doorman the police officer the guy in a speedo at the beach the minister in the pulpit
come on get real we live in a society where we have to deal with the same sex and opposite sex every day in many different circumstances at work or play at church or the mall
what do you really want to be on a desserted island all alone with your husband and no other contact from anyone
like a hermit
2007-04-03 16:49:51 · answer #2 · answered by blue ox 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is ok to look that is normal........but to continue to stare untill you think his eyes are going to drop out of his head....is just disrespectfull. If you are with him his eyes should be on you. It kind of makes you wonder what he is thinking when his gaze last for to long. Also, how does he act when you are not around? A woman can often tell in her gut when something dosn't feel right. Don't say anything to him just yet......just watch him and observe him. If it continues and it gets out of hand......bring it to his attention or before you talk about it start letting him see you stare ba litlle to long with other guys. Then bring it up that you thought it was ok because he does it all the time.
2007-04-07 07:58:08 · answer #3 · answered by Lindsey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my darling im married for a year and my husband looks a other females all the time at first i got very upset but found out that is the nature of men and us women cant change it its best if they do it infront of us then at the back of us cause once it start when we not there to see it then we must start worrying cause then we not there to see the next move but like i say that is the nature of men and im only 18 and married fo only a 1year and 5month
2007-04-03 11:06:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have this problem to and I wouldnt care but he rubs it in my face and he lets me know he is looking. To all you guys out there I know your all going to say all men do it its hard to ignore another attractive woman but some of you cant control your wandering eyes and it becomes a problem when your w/ your wife. I can say a a man looks good and it makes my husband mad. I just say it because he does it. I am married so I dont check out the men to much unless I am w/ a friend but not w/ my husband. My husband did it when we were eating dinner w/ our 2 younger children he denies it but I have eyes to. If he wants to look fine because when I see what he sees I know what he is thinking but I dont want to see him give the stare down.
2007-04-03 13:09:05 · answer #5 · answered by hotmoma1 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I always tell him to do it in his spare time and not when he is with me because it does hurt a little.
I tried to tell him to imagine what the lady he is staring at thinks about it..This is when he agrees to my wishes, but guess what, it happens again! The other day he was especially interested in a food item ( an excuse to look at a woman standing there) I said yes, yes...we must buy it..and when she walked away..he was changing his mind! Do you believe this?
2007-04-03 11:52:41 · answer #6 · answered by ♫ Melody 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I mean if he's gaping at them and has his tongue sticking out of his mouth right in front of you, he's a dog! - but like the other person said, we're only human and we're not dead either. My husband looks at other girls, he makes it less noticeable but I know his type, so I always knows when he's looking. I seriously and honestly get jealous, but he's with me not them, and I trust him enough to know that he wouldn't pursue something or someone outside of our marriage. If you know you can trust him and hes not a player then let the man look, cause god knows I LOOK TOO!!
2007-04-03 11:22:57 · answer #7 · answered by ppL L0ve 2 hAt3 m3 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Being married doesn't mean that you're just never going to find other people attractive or anything. But there is definately a difference between "looking" and going overboard with it.
I think that it's fine as long as it's done in a respectful manner.
2007-04-03 11:12:48 · answer #8 · answered by arkiegirl 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Allot of the time I am looking at them also. He goes home with me and I know that he thinks of noone else but me when we are having nookie. I am just fine with him looking but no touching or fantisizing. We have been together for 10 years and we have been through allot and we have always stuck by each other so looking not a big deal.
2007-04-03 12:38:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you mean to tell everyone here that you have never sneaked a peek at a guy with a hot bod! Hey man I even look at the freaky ones with all the face piercings! All people are interesting for one reason or another! Have at it!
2007-04-03 10:53:49 · answer #10 · answered by Nick Name 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He does look but he keeps it like that no further but no matter how I still feel sort of depressed and think about why he is looking at them in the first place. What cheers me up is that he keeps it at just looking and he married me and loves me he wouldn't dear to go out. Hell I'm pregnant and I keep it tight, I just ensure to stay the girl that he fell in love with.
2007-04-03 11:03:42 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋