On march 23 my divorce was final, ironicly, we celabrated by hooking up for 2 days. On the 28th he married the woman who persued him aggressivly while married to me. This weekend my ex and i have plans to meet in St Louis and get a room for the weekend. Now I realize this sounds bizzare, I dont really want to sleep with him, but I really want to get even with the other woman. i want her to know what it feels like when another woman persues her husband and screws him. Eye for an eye right? What comes around goes around? is this a good idea or am i really screwing up?
2007-04-03 11:56:41 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Go for it and it is your turn to shine and what goes around comes around with people. I would torture the ***** and please continue to sleep with him. I would make extra copies of the video and send them to her friends/family/inlaws. I would send an annoymous note to say that I enjoyed borrowing your husband and attach a thank you note. I would humiliate her 200 times over again.
From Miss Townsend, explain what sex positions he enjoys and I would moan real loud on the video. Also you can ask him if he loves you, wear your sexy panties. Visit the love shop and pick up some erection creme boy this will really spice up the love making. do it!
2007-04-03 12:37:09 · answer #1 · answered by Emily L 4 · 0⤊ 4⤋
Sounds good, but how will you feel when it done and over with? There are two different type of wome. One is Classy and the other is trash, now if you put yourself at her level that would make you trash, but if you don't then that makes you classy. When we stoop to someone else level and do this, you may feel good about for a while, then comes the guilt and wish I hadn't done it. We all want to get back at someone, but some of us don't want to play those games with people. I'm sure right now your angry and this is why you have thought about it. The best thing is to let him go and you not show up.
2007-04-03 12:12:08 · answer #2 · answered by Krinta 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you don't care about your ex husband being royally pissed, then by all means, go ahead and videotape him without his knowledge and then send it to his new wife.
Sure, she might deserve it (and he might as well)... but do you really want to sink that low to satisfy your need for vengeance?
If the answer is yes, and you've checked it out to make sure it's legal... then, I guess, go for it. Just remember, once you've mailed it off, that videotape is no longer in your possession or control. And if your ex-husband has anything on you that you don't want the whole world knowing about...
Just play it smart. Don't put yourself at unnecessary risk. Revenge isn't worth it. If she is such a skank, then they will end up miserable without any help from you.
2007-04-03 12:08:55 · answer #3 · answered by thedrisin 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That can actually get you in big trouble, because it is illegal to video tape someone without their knowledge.. However what you may do is find out exactly what will happen if you do it and get charged for it, then base your decision on wether or not you can handle the consequences. But other then that , it's brilliant!!! LMAO Be careful :) Good Luck
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2007-04-03 12:09:28 · answer #4 · answered by ThePleasurePlayground.com 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to grow up and quit sleeping with your ex. It takes two to cheat honey. You are showing your husband that you have no respect for yourself, or his wife for sleeping with him. Move on. He'll get what's coming to him, why do you have to be the one to prove it? You're going to look even worse than he will if you do this. You seem pretty immature to me since you celebrated getting a divorce, sleeping with your ex, and wanting to tape you two having sex and showing it to his wife. He persued her too, so why is it entirely HER fault?
2007-04-03 12:04:22 · answer #5 · answered by SillierKimmie! 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I will tell U this...one of two things will happen; 1) his new wife will stay with him anyway, or 2) his new wife will leave him. But here's the bottom line - he will choose to stay with his new wife over U. U have to ask yourself though, why would U want anymore to do with him? He hurt U and with that U should move on without another thought. U are only supporting his cheating ways. If it weren't with U, he'd cheat on his new wife with someone else anyway. Bottom line; he's a cheater. My Advice - move on! Because she will get cheated on eventually anyway.
2007-04-03 12:10:03 · answer #6 · answered by Vanessa * 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it the whole thing stinks. You probably will not get in trouble for taping it and sending it to the new wife. But is that how you want to be? I think just finding a new guy who loves and respects you would be a better idea.
2007-04-03 12:10:23 · answer #7 · answered by Gidget 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like the ex-husband is brilliant because you to ladies have to be the dumbest people on earth. He is getting A S S from both of you, and you hate each other- not him! Throw some S.T.D's in the mix and it sounds like spring break. Why don't you get it together and move on-
2007-04-03 12:48:34 · answer #8 · answered by Ian and Tate's Mom 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
they're not worth your time or effort. they're both nasty and they deserve each other. so don't you lower yourself to their standards, which are obviously not very high. you'll only be putting yourself in danger of catching a disgusting disease from them. trust me sweetie, you're way above these two losers.
I know that you're hurt and angry, but don't try and get even like this. the best revenge is to better yourself. give yourself some time to heal, go out with friends, and do things to get them off your mind. all that bitterness will eat you up inside. so don't let yourself become consumed with thoughts of them, and getting revenge on them. they will get what's coming to them.
just take care of yourself and rise above this situation. you will come out a winner. and they'll be stuck with each other!
I wish you the best.
2007-04-03 12:15:08 · answer #9 · answered by atiana 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are willing to accept your ex being mad, do it. Be aware that video taping could get you in trouble. She could show it off with you on it, or you could get in legal trouble for taping him with out his knowledge. I would make up a story to get her to the room when you know the two of you will be doing it. Let her catch you guys instead.
Good luck.
2007-04-03 12:20:13 · answer #10 · answered by so_silly_me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She can legally record anything she could otherwise see from the street. If she's across the street or in her car pointing a camera at your house, that's legal and there's nothing you can do about it, sorry.
2016-05-14 16:28:27 · answer #11 · answered by lois 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋