This one here is for guys only?

Question

if you guys are gonna cheat then why do you get married or have a gf? o yea isn't cuz u want sex all the time even at home and you want someone to cook & clean for you? (and yes i mean ALL guys! every guys says he would cheat if he wouldn't get caught)............and for all those gullible women who don't belive me do you really think a man will be faithful till death do him part?

guys who have so much testorone and cares about hot girls more than anything else even you (although inur face they pretend not to but don't be fooled), guys who go craaazyy for hot girls, and will do anything for sex and etc

back to my question why can't you guys jsut find your own way to raiase money and buy hoes instead of hurting good girls feelings! do you like to do that?

if you're gonna cheat then can you just save the heartbreak and go to some prostitutes????? how would you feel if it happened to you?

LAP DANCES & STRIPPERS R ALSO CHEATING GUYS

Answer 1

Not every guy is like that. I've been with the same women for 20+ years and have never cheated, or even considered it. Men typically have a higher demand for sex. Yes, we think about it all of the time and we don't get it as much as we like, but some of us do not stray. Carrying that burden around would be too much. Maybe women need to loose all of the dramatics and just have sex for fun, rather than making it a reward for her man work for every day. Good boy – here is some sex...bad boy – no sex for one month.

It's suppose to be fun and carefree, but most women think of it as a chore. Torture a man long enough with that over his head, and he will go elsewhere if you want nothing to do with it. You women b*tch and moan about the cheating and not getting the attention, yet, your the one's controlling the situation in the first place.

Stop using it as a tool and just enjoy it for what's it worth!

Answer 2

Not all men cheat. There are good ones out there. Cheating is a choice. There is no excuse for any of us. Cheating starts in the mind.......you have to give it thought first. It can't be blamed on wives, girlfriends, or friends. The one that does it is entirely at fault.,and there are precautions you can choose to take before hand. I am an older woman and although I expressed myself to my husband that I wouldn't want him in a strip club.....with co-workers he let himself get caught up in it anyway.He hid the information from me and I accidently discoverd it. That was over a year ago, and I am still hurt over it. He's a great guy in all that he is.....but when two committed people agree on something as to what is acceptable and what is not .........things should be respected. Cheating is defined in many ways by many people. What you expect out of a relationship shoud be communicated at the start of one. If one of you break that commitment the one doing it is at fault. When offended in this way we have two choices.....the person ceating can stop and never do it again and we learn to live with it and forgive or.........we leave the relationship and find somebody that will respect what we value to be morally right. Strip clubs and lapdances are bad when they are not acceptable to the other in the relationship. Lapdancing is one on one interaction and close to prostitution...... especially when its an exchange \for a sexual favor for money. Private rooms are set up to so men are comfortable to feel free to become aroused to the point of ejaculation. Men see this as not cheating because they keep their pants on. For many women in a relationship it is considered cheating. I do, but that is my feeling on it.

Answer 3

Well you know what you are wrong there are guys out there who do want to find love and be happy like me i dont want sex or money or to even cheat ask me anything i am open but you need to get this in to you there are those guys u just need to look harder and you need to understand that i dont like the hot preppy bitches there mean and dont know what love is and will never know and you want to know something i am a guy who cares and is there but i HAVE NEVER found a girl who can say the same so judge your self be for you judge every one else and you know i am a second virgin and i REGRET every day what i did in the past it hurts me deeper then any thing and if you want something to think on how about this my old girl friend broke up with because i want to be with her and i had so much LOVE for her that i was getting past my past but she was impatient and i know not every one is like that but now we talk all the time and she is open after we broke up, and now i am gong out with another girl and i haven't been mean or anything and see is saying she wants to blow up so you think guys have issues GIRLS HAVE more and kiss me off so get over your self

Answer 4

Most feel good to vent? Your generalize all men as boys there which just showing me that your not the best person at picking out the right men for you... just so you know your desribing boys there. Yes just because a male is over 18 doesn't make him a "Man". Being a "Man" means more then age or accomplishments, its about purpose, pricipals, and having ideals your welling to die for. Your dealing with "boys" males that have no true rythm or reason to what they do they just flow thru life trying to keep themselves distrated from feeling that they've fail themselves. So really it isn't their fault they are what they are, but it is your fault for dealing with this class of male. A good rule of thumb when dealing with us males is that if we don't have a purpose in life outside "I don't know I'm just here", "I just want to be a nice guy". and " To have sex and do drugs!". Then your dealing with the wrong type of individual. Now if they say something like "I like to do what I can to help myself and those I love to live a decent exsistence thru all this bs". "I believe that life is a constant learning experience and all I can do is concentrate on what I do know to be the right things in life I'll be ok", or even "To find away to love myself enough so that I don't put all my insecurities on to the ones I love" then your getting closer to the right type of person... only time teaches. Just don't generalize its sterotypical and foolish and really shows that your only going to attract that type of male again, because quite frankly, thats all "YOU" see out there... good luck in the future... another good thing to look for is that rap music isn't the only music they listen to, I mean come on I like rap, but if thats all there listening to you've got someone who needs some more growing up to do....