my gf told me that she has fantasized about having a threesome with two guys...I know that lots of men have the two women fantasy...but how common is it for a women??? just wondering..thanx
2007-04-03 12:27:39 · 21 answers · asked by drbramucci 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i agree with your girlfriend... that is SO HOT!
SIGN ME UP!
2007-04-03 12:31:52 · answer #1 · answered by I♥Karma 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Your gf makes me hot! I like it when they speakin' naughty.... If it is common, then in my experience, they are not admitting to it.
People can easily fantasise and get aroused about thoughts that they wouldn't physically enjoy fulfilling. I could really go a threesome right now, but would I?
That is more difficult to answer. The idea of a threesome, of free love, of unhinibited sex is very appealing. But society puts a lot of baggage on making love, on fidelity, on monogamy, on sex before marriage, on safe sex, on sodomy, facials, homosexuality, bestiality.. you name it. These are intellectual interferences in what otherwise might be naturally occuring every day events, but there are always reasons for taboos to become common.
With a threesome, there is an experience to be gained but there is also a chance of something to be lost... We all tend to place a high price on our emotional attachment to each other and having sex brings out some pretty deep emotions... sharing that experience with a third lover, I think is very difficult, unless for example, it is a permanent third lover.
Hmmm... a tag team or all in brawl.. take your pick, yum.
2007-04-03 13:30:47 · answer #2 · answered by Icy Gazpacho 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
personally, I am not interested in bringing a third party into my relationship at all! I know that this is a common fantasy, but it can also be harmful to a relationship in the long run. Besides who wants to have to make two men happy? =0)
2007-04-03 12:33:32 · answer #3 · answered by cerebrlgrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's a common fantasy. I don't believe that you should do it when envolved in a relationship. You should never bring anyone into a good relationship, because it will turn on you. You should try playing more with her, maybe get some toys or something.
2007-04-03 12:54:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's common. Most women don't admit to it, that's all. My boyfriend told me he wants the two women fantasy with me in it. He really wants it. But he said he won't do it unless am in it. For a minute I wasn't trusting him. But I do. His actions prove that. So it's common I had them and still do. But I can't see myself really doing it. Hopefully your girlfriend won't either.
2007-04-03 12:43:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I'm not a lady but I can answer for my gf and she loves the whole threesome idea...2 men or 2 women she dont care..the more the merrier i guess...lucky me
2007-04-03 12:41:36 · answer #6 · answered by donnie b 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
thats no uncommon at all but afterall its just a fantasy. you need to check if she wants to go forward with that motion. Thats when you need to worry
2007-04-03 13:16:51 · answer #7 · answered by Constance F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Speaking from a guys side......I have done that before, me another guy and his g/f. He and I are totally straight but not afraid of being in the same room with each other.....It was a blast pleasing her and her us!!! would love to do it again!!!!
2007-04-03 13:00:28 · answer #8 · answered by Mike N 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would hope it isn't a common practice in any relationship.
2007-04-03 12:32:59 · answer #9 · answered by Krinta 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can see imagining myself with another man but not two men, kinda too much.....
2007-04-03 13:24:30 · answer #10 · answered by loulou 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's a common fantasy. Otherwise they wouldn't have it in pornos.
2007-04-03 12:34:52 · answer #11 · answered by Rairia 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋