If I get HIT ON at work by a variety of ladies...?

Question

And it doesn't bother my wife...why would it bother her if I chat with a female stranger that I have never met in person?

And yes ladies, as ugly as I look in my pic, the women won't stop the aggressive moves. They can range from INTERNS all the way to MILFS.

UH No Morons.

I'm not even romantically chatting. Dolts. We just talk about stuff in general.

I do this at work at tell the wifey about it...doesn't bother her a bit. I tell her I am chatting with a lady online...she gets botherd

I don't understand it.

It like its cool to talk to the chicks at work but not the chicks online?

Answer 1

Maybe the people do not bother her because she knows they are not faceless strangers and they hit on you. You don't hit on them. But she may find the unknown to be more unnerving, and you are actively involved in the chatting with the strangers. Either way, if it does bother her, you both should talk about it, and maybe you could tone it down a bit so she can feel better.

Answer 2

Why does it bother you so much that she does not like you chatting with others on the internet? If this bothers her you two need to work something out. You should invest the time you are talking to other women on the internet and give your wife the attention instead. You must really like talking to other women otherwise she would not be so upset and you would not ask this question.

Answer 3

Well it may have something to do with a simple word called "Intent".

At work the girls are hitting on you, at least that is what you say, however if you talk to someone on line you have intentionally placed yourself where you can find her or she can find you. That is intent. So why would your wife not be upset with that.

Remember this. If you can talk to someone your wife can do the same. At some point she may find someone that she can't do without. Don't believe it. Think again. It happened to me and I lost her after 37 years of marriage.

If you love her make sure she knows it. And chatting with women on line is not one of the ways to do it.

No one accidentally talks to anyone on line. It is always on purpose.

Answer 4

I think John B took the words right out my mouth, listen to him he lost his wife and he sounds like he really loved her but made a huuuge mistake.

Now you dont want that to happen to you right, so just keep the coversation clear and she tries to get to personal well,WHAT am I saying am just wasting my breath here, it goes threw one and out the other obviously there is something going on with you and a on line girl.

Bad Bad Joe! what did you do.

Well I guess am a stranger and we chat at least to answer your questions, but I now my limits and other women dont.

Just STOP thinking with your pecker, and respect the women you love.

Answer 5

Silly wife. I think maybe it's because she doesn't see the women in real life as a threat, but an online woman can be anything you want her to be. And come on now, you're super sexy in your pic!

Answer 6

Its all good my hubby knows i chat on line with guys & ladies...he isnt bothered at all....he trusts my judgement...and the same goes for him...as long as theres no sex chats going on betweeen either of us on line....No prob here

Answer 7

something about chatting with strangers on the net causes concern. it can go both ways. if you're putting more energy into your chats than you do your marriage then you gotta cut it off...chats or the marriage.

Answer 8

I suppose your wife fears you may develop feelings for the lady you chat with.

Answer 9

Uhm, guy, you already asked two questions along the same lines. I think you're going to get the same kind of answer. I think your wife is just afraid of the internet.

Answer 10

Sounds like Joe is just bored and is up to his usual asking stupid questions.