Having affair, will other guy develop feelings?

Question

I've been having an affair with a guy for 6 months. We work together and keep it very professional at work. We're both married and I'm worried it will become more than just sex for him. When we meet up we have a lot in common and enjoy our time together. For me it's just sex but do you think he'll develop feelings?

Answer 1

There are chances, it mostly depends on the person, if he has no relationship with other than his wife and u then the chances are more, if he is a flirt there are very less

Answer 2

I'm all about open relationships if both people are agreed, I'm open-minded enough to even be accepting of people who do threesomes & swing, so long as everyone is in the know, but what you are doing is rotten. Why do you even care a LICK about how he feels, when you both have a spouse that is completely in the dark about your infidelity? Who cares how he FEELS? You have a HUSBAND at home who already cares about you and this is the way you repay him for his loyalty & devotion? Wow, you need to fix your priorities, darlin. Go get some help immediately & try to save your marriage before you spend another SECOND thinking about how your lover feels. If not, let your hubby go. You really don't deserve him.

Answer 3

If you don't like your husband and you feel like you want to have sex with other people just try something called divorce, it's not far what you are doing to both sides your hurting your husband and your destroying another in the process. Just be adult about it and get divorced if you are that unhappy with your marriage.

Answer 4

first of all you are both married to spouses that ther is wrong if not happpy in marriages why not just end it plus how do u both think the other partners would feel and marriage in the wedding vows are something to remember and mabey not this guy develop feelings or might but its still wrong

Answer 5

What a Horrible and disgusting person you are to be cheating on your man. He is married to you, and you can't keep your legs closed for him ? I hope he finds out and when it does, it will be downhill from here. You are a train wreck, and shouldn't be playing with people's hearts like that. I feel sorry for the husband, and you are nothing but a black widow.

Answer 6

I hope the guy develops feelings for you , you break up with him, he tells your husband about your affair, and your husband leaves your cheating *** and finds someone better who'll unconditionaly love him

Answer 7

This is a powder keg looking for a place to explode. Be prepared for him to let your husband know what is going on. You would probably go into a rage if you found out your husband was cheating on you. Show some respect for your husband and for your marriage VOWS.

Answer 8

Make it clear to him that it is a physical thing and that you don't want it to develop into anything more. If you don't want him to develop feelings, the easiest thing is to be upfront and honest about what you want or don't want out of your relationship.

Answer 9

It sounds like that is a very good possibility....I guess if you enjoy the sex and don't feel bad about it go ahead and continue having hot sex with him and later on suffer the consequence.

Answer 10

just because karma is a ***** - it's sure to be messy. clean up your act and get out of it now before the drama develops further! if you're going to cheat - you could at least be a little cleaner about it. or just leave your hubby whom you obviously don't care that much about.