exchanging nude pics with someone on the net... she even sent some of me...I am totally freaked and pissed...what should i do???
2007-04-03 16:52:25 · 52 answers · asked by donnie b 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
she said it was for fun...exchanging them with another "couple"...yeah prolly some lonely perv living in his moms basement...RRRR
2007-04-03 16:59:08 · update #1
Shes a hoe get rid of her.
2007-04-03 16:55:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
What Should You Do ? Don't Do The Nude Picture Thing Again ! I Can't Say This Strongly Enough---Anything Written Out , Typed , Put On A Computer, Photos Taken, Cannot Be Taken Back. What Were You Thinking When You Let Her Have These Photos ? ! Live & Learn. Try, Oh Try, Not To Make The Same Mistakes Again. If It Were Me, I Would Hire An Attorney. It Is Probably The Only Way You Are Going To Get The Photos Back , Or Off Of The Internet. By The Way, I Am Married & My Partner & I Did The Nude Video Thing. We Had Fun Doing This, But Then We Destroyed The Tape.
2007-04-03 17:40:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gosh everone is pretty unforgiving.
How old are you two?
How hot are you two?
Do you enjoy a vigorous sex life?
I don't know that I would be gettin all bent out of shape here. There are safe internet sites where you two could play with this. Heck some will help you start your own site sponsored by them. Do you like to take pictures? Does she? This could be a nice side income and loads(?) of fun to boot.
Slow down, talk to her, and examine your true feelings before taking any precipitous action.
If you are a born again Christian you wouldn't be asking?
punch these into a search engine:
voyeur web
watchers web
private voyeur
Sure some are fake but most are real couples having a naked teasing blast.
2007-04-05 10:53:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once they are on the net. She mess up and u too. You probably thought it was personal between the two of u. You can start deleting what u can find. She has copies too. She probably has others two. She is a freak. She should have asked for your permission. She has mess up. Breaking up still will not resolve this issue. You might need something in writing and ask for originals. Red flag!
2007-04-03 16:59:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Donnie... your suspicions are well founded. Can't blame you for getting upset, I would be too.
This wasn't something she did "just for fun." She's wanting to hook-up with somebody else really bad and is just a step away from actually doing so. Don't believe her BS excuses for one second. Something like this would be a 'deal breaker' for me. If YOU had done something like this, she'd be screaming, hollering & crying about what a sorry SOB you were and that you were guilty of... (GASP) 'cheating on her'. She'd try to make you feel like the biggest perv in the city. But for her... well gee, she's just "having fun."
Tell her to have her fun, and that you need to move on.
2007-04-03 17:41:28 · answer #5 · answered by Larry F 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With photo touch up I could put your face in any position I want and with whom I want, so how would you react if your family received pictures of you with some guy? or relative? I say get rid of her she does not respect you or herself. Some guys would like it but you don't seem to be the type, bail out now before every woman and man on the planet knows all about u..
2007-04-03 17:01:23 · answer #6 · answered by Right 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you, I'd definitely confront her and I'd be rather upset about it. Even if she argues that nude pics of herself are her own affair, she has no business whatsoever sharing nude pics of you. I can't imagine any excuse for that.
More than likely, I'd end the relationship right there. However, I do believe in hearing her out first.
2007-04-03 16:59:49 · answer #7 · answered by Bramblyspam 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to her and find out whats going on. let her know that you don't appreciate her sending pics of you and of her. find out who she is sending these pics to, drop them a line and let them know that you will press charges if they continue to receive pics from your girl. as for your gf she needs to be restricted from the computer and the Internet. If she is acting immature and like a child treat her like one. Do not take any more nude pics of yourself or your gf. If she continues to do this let her go because she is getting ready to met this person and have sex, why else would she send pics. Good luck
2007-04-03 17:05:17 · answer #8 · answered by sayj 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Getting rid of her won't do any good, and you'll be a jerk. My suggestion is that you have a sit down, and ask her why she is doing this. Don't be angry at her. You give some respect, even though she made the mistake. She's a girl. And girls should have the respect they need.
2007-04-03 16:58:08 · answer #9 · answered by heavydeezy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that would be a deal-breaker for me, but you have two options:
1. accept it, forgive her, and stay with her.
2. accept it, do not forgive her, and move on (and forgive her some other time when you're apart - not to get back together, but to eliminate the resentment).
two options only, really.
i suppose you could hold on to some resentment and do the second half of either of those options but that will only be bad for you.
it all depends on what you're willing to put up with.
2007-04-03 16:56:35 · answer #10 · answered by Steve C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break it off and make sure to get destroy the pics she sent of you so she can't send them anymore. If someone would send nude pics of you or herself she isn't committed enough to have a serious trust worthy relationship with.
2007-04-03 16:56:12 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋