at times he gets so busy with his kids aging from 16 to 42 years old.....4 girls an 1 boy. He makes good money as a civil engineer if he travels by contract jobs. alot of his money is spent on the children for cars, rent, telephones, etc. Is he worth it?
2007-04-03 17:13:37 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I say it depends on how you feel about him and how long and how well you know him (if he was a past boyfriend, then you probably know him pretty well). If you care enough, then I say go for it. I don't know enough to say if spending time with his kids is a bad thing, I guess it depends on how old they are. I can see spending the time and money on the 16 year old, but the 42 year old? Nah, he (or she) needs to be supporting theirself. If he invited you there and you want to go, then go, it might be just what he needs (some time to do what he enjoys and spend time with someone who he enjoys spending time with). Even if it doesn't work out, you can enjoy your time their as a vacationer.
2007-04-03 17:24:26 · answer #1 · answered by ltlluci 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
long distance relationships are continuously troublesome on the two human beings. Im in a protracted distance relationship with my gf. have been going out for 2 years already. whether its 2 hundred miles or 500 miles in my case the place I purely get to work out her each 4-5 months, you do what you could to maintain the relationship going. on the grounds which you suspect the relationship will bypass the area all you're able to do is attempt and shop the communique between the two one among you very reliable. through fact that's the digital age purely get some digital webcams and communicate that way. a minimum of you will nevertheless have the means to work out one yet another. purely remember that on the grounds that he would be some distance away he would be busy doing artwork and despite. So dont get disillusioned if he misses a decision and cant get lower back at you suited away. the two one among you will would desire to get on inclusive of your lives with out one yet another. it will be troublesome in the initiating yet you will would desire to attempt your superb. good luck.
2016-10-02 03:41:07 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What would be the purpose and the expectations of the visit? If it's just for fun with no strings attached, I don't see why not go visit him and have a mini-vacation. If you're thinking of renewing the relationship - you are probably wasting your time unless you're willing to move to where he is, or he's willing to move back. Have fun with him, but look for a long-term prospect closer to home.
2007-04-03 17:35:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like my x does he have a house in Fl. You need to ask yourself that question. I like to travel especially when he pays for the trip and treats me like a queen when i arrive in a new place. Relax w/o the children.
2007-04-03 17:23:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have no new boyfriend and he obviously has no new girlfriend or he wouldn't have invited you, what's the harm? Take the trip and enjoy yourself. Hobo around for a week or so. Relax.
2007-04-03 17:27:35 · answer #5 · answered by Jay9ball 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The question on whether to visit him or not should have nothing to do with his kids, his job, or his money. Think about WHY you would be going to see him, or why he would want to see you.
That is at the heart of your question. What would be your purpose for going.....
2007-04-03 17:19:56 · answer #6 · answered by ciberpunk1 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You can't ask us how you feel..is that what you want? Is he worth the miles? Those are some questions you should ask yourself and your heart. Not us people on Yahoo Answers♥
2007-04-03 17:18:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you love him? Does he love you? Why did he invite you? Do you have plans to stay together? Will he pay for the tickets? I will answer all of the above before going. Then listen to your heart!!!
2007-04-03 17:19:50 · answer #8 · answered by PRLadyDama 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
The big question is does he treat you good and do you love him if yes to both questions then yeah he is worth it.
2007-04-03 17:17:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you gave us the reasons you might have broken up with him in the first place.
If it were me, I wouldn't do it.
(All of the above is FWIW).
2007-04-03 17:20:06 · answer #10 · answered by WolverLini 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋